I am in a part of the US that pretty much requires you to pursue women to not look gay in most peoples eyes, it is in the South. The south is to me, like having ass cancer because of the way they shame single men here. they try to shame you into having kids, and all this kind of garbage, and To get married, but they also are the first to judge you when your relations~~~ goes to s~~~, or your wife takes your kids. they are the first to call you a piece of s~~~ and a deadbeat. I have seen this happen to men around me, while i have been standing back from relationships, while trying to keep an open mind too. I understand the risks, but still sometimes find myself wanting kids and a woman sometimes. But i know in America, it might as well be a pipe dream i think. Women are much too pushy and act like they are entitled to everything around here. I got turned down for being too smart by a woman around here. lmao, I took it as a compliment, but it is utterly stupid. Women seem to put their biases on blast towards men, when they want to find a reason to say he isn’t good enough. they will begin to look for things, i think, to demonize them sometimes. And this is coming from a kind of Purple Pill MGTOW perspective. I hold out hope that maybe there are good women out there, but I am not holding my breath that i will meet her, at least not in the southern US. I was thinking about moving to Asia at some point, partially for the fact I like asian women more, but also the fact that I want to study martial arts in the traditional sense. I am a Shaolin Kempo 1st degree Black Belt, and I want to learn more traditional arts, like the Samurai styles or Wing Chun, Shaolin Kung Fu from a shaolin temple. I am drawn in by Japan, more by love of the culture, such as Buddhism, and Shinto (religious beliefs tend to follow shinto ideology, with Buddhist Philosophy;) I love Anime too, but I am also huge on Asian Novels, and Asian Horror movies. Ju-On, Another, Shi-Ki, Ju-On 2, Ringu, Etc. Also i wanna meet ZUN. Gensokyo is the fictional land the events of the Touhou series of Danmaku Games take place in. And I love Touhou more than any other video game or pretty much anything there is. I am Also 23 years old, and have been in personality been compared to Dennis Leary. So That sums up some hobbies and interests anyway. Now for what brought me into MGTOW, and a whole lot of Philosophy i always believed in but did more research into after listening to the MGTOW Channel Curator Speak of it.
I came into the MGTOW movement from Thinking Ape, and Turd Flinging Monkey in a time of personal turmoil. I started by following red pill mantra, about self improvement. I still follow this facet of red pill without the PUA parts of it. I heard TFM talk about things like Libertarianism (I am a Huge Libertarian) and the philosophical values of Understanding everything is temporary in life, and to just enjoy life for what it is.
I embodied these principles after having my mind manipulated and toyed with by a witch of a girl, And the mental problems and anxiety from being manipulated and backstabbed by her and a lot of friends;
This caused me to believe that the only person i could rely on was me, and I never showed weakness around anyone at that point, as i would leave the area if i was showing signs of emotional weakness around anyone at that point. This ultimately turned me very cold hearted towards a lot of people, and made me not want to pursue relationships at all, much less friendships. Ultimately a friend got me hanging out with him, and I recovered from the bitterness, but i still have a hard time trusting a lot of women. Usually if I don’t seem to be friendly with someone from the start, I most likely never will be, as i tend to be skeptical of everyone, as a self preservation tool. TFM just helped me cast aside fear, and helped me to simply Strive for my own self actualization and improvement for my sake, and the rest would sort itself out. And it has, and if TFM is on this site, him or Sandman, for that matter, thank you for doing what you guys do.
life is what you make of it. i am an amputee and still stumpin
Akhilleus 3 years ago.
