MGTOW: Being Transparent About Your Objective

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

It is tricky to really go one’s own way, if one isn’t sure what that way is, and has strong enough reasons to do it. End result will be fixating on the past and hoping that things will still work out. Or, you end up doing a bunch of sour grapes, to dampen your desire for things to be different, in order to avoid the situation of being with a woman, and having marriage work. So, you make something negative, so your state of being empty doesn’t seem as bad. In short, it ends up being negative reasons to be MGTOW, rather than having positive reasons to do so.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Being transparent about your objective…certainly are 2 concepts I have asked myself throughout a great many years of my life. Neither of which no longer are part of my own mission for myself, no matter how many times I may digress…

Me? Transparent? It is a conflict of interest for myself in my pursuit of indifference & stealth. My attempts to safeguard my well being will always look suspect to anyone that desires to think that way of me. I no longer kid myself on trying to prove myself trustworthy in either how interact with people or the information.

Me? Objective? I gave up on that long ago, and lean more to being realistic about how the overall state of affairs are in this world we now live in. What my personal goals and objectives are on specifics is not even on the table here. I keep that to myself.

I have enjoyed reading all the comments in this thread, and perhaps I am coming across like I missed the whole thing, and hell, maybe I did…

But I wasted so much of my life trying to prove s~~~ to people, it just makes me feel ill thinking back on it. If anything I have said here on this site has/is/or will ever help anyone, that’s good enough for me.

Meanwhile, I will continue on wards in my quest to being more & more of a realist and honing my ghosting & stealthing techniques , and since those both have their own personal meanings to reach my own end life goal, I shall keep all that that entails to myself.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Ol’ Uncle Cap’s friendly advice:

Quit caring about a gender and society that gives zero f~~~s about you.

Also, ever wonder why us simply doing nothing p~~~es people off so much? Like Keymaster says, we’re not slapping their fruity coffee out of their hands or lobbying at congress or blocking streets with noisy, useless protests. We just say “meh, f~~~ it” and go on our way. That, somehow, infuriates them.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 42]

Cap285 wrote:

That, somehow, infuriates them.

@Cap, the thing that infuriates them the most, they have nobody to play with, they enjoyed years of throwing dirt in our eyes as they hogged the center of the sandbox! Now they sit all alone in the sandbox as we got out and climbed a tree, and built a fort with a sign on the door that says KEEP OUT!
Their whole fragile world of gynocentrism comes crashing down around them, their whole lives, everything they are, consumed in their own vanity. A nightmare realization if there ever was one. That moment must really suck! And it’s still all blamed on us anyway! Their own truth bites them in the ass, and they somehow think we sent it!
I’ve pretty much undergone full metamorphosis, I’m no longer a creature of pair bonding, the Velcro of my heart is packed full of feminist dirt and singed over by the fervent heat from feminferno… I just know millions of other men are the same way, heartstrings burned off with nothing to pull, thereby no way to manipulate.
The good in all this; I know who I am, I know why I am the way I am, and I know why I’ll never change, the fairy tale is over, the reality of feminism and all it encompasses, has cemented the pair bonding to myself. MonoMGTower, no such thing a DiTowerf~~~edfate…

[OldBillParticipant]

Stargazer wrote:

Perhaps there are more than just two possible answers?

There’s always more than two answers. Life is most definitely not binary.

This notion that a MGTOWs life should in no way be responsive to the actions of others… well congratulations to you if you’re an island but I am not. I still live in this world and I still experience people attempting to use and manipulate me and I am not immune to the desire to see what I would call justice being done to them when their snares catch them by their feet instead of me.

I’m not an island, Doc. I’m not a hermit nor am I celibate. Neither do I practice avoidance. I happen to think MGTOWs who are hermits, “avoiders”, or celibate are missing out on what could be good in their lives. I’m most definitely not above the world.

All that being said, my approach to life is much the same as the one propounded by the Stoics millennia ago. I deal with the world on my own terms and I accept what happens in the world as being beyond my control. The only things I can control are my choices and my reaction to events. IMHO, MGTOW is the reappearance of Stoicism whether it’s members realize that or not.

That idiot killed with the RPG received his just deserts as his choices led him to his worthless death. While I view that death as a good thing, I won’t celebrate or express delight in it because I try to control my destructive emotions.

… we are surrounded by and constantly responding to female and societal expectations and pressures.

Precisely, and it’s how we respond to those continued expectations and pressures which mark us as men. Do we chortle in glee every time our supposed enemies fail? Do we thump our chest, dance a jig, or make a toast? Do we match them scream for scream, insult for insult, or threat for threat? Or, instead, do we note that their choices have brought them to disaster and go our own way?

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OldBillParticipant]

Cap285 wrote:

That, somehow, infuriates them.

Of course it does. They’ve been told since they were born that they’re special, that they’re desirable, that they’re everyone should bow to their will. When someone not only refuses to do that but also refuses to play the game, their worldview is shattered.

MGTOW isn’t women being told their ideas are wrong, MGTOW is women being told their existence is inconsequential. MGTOW doesn’t argue against the feminist worldview, it nullifies the very idea of that worldview.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Anonymous wrote:

Cap285 wrote:

That, somehow, infuriates them.

@Cap, the thing that infuriates them the most, they have nobody to play with, they enjoyed years of throwing dirt in our eyes as they hogged the center of the sandbox! Now they sit all alone in the sandbox as we got out and climbed a tree, and built a fort with a sign on the door that says KEEP OUT!Their whole fragile world of gynocentrism comes crashing down around them, their whole lives, everything they are, consumed in their own vanity. A nightmare realization if there ever was one. That moment must really suck! And it’s still all blamed on us anyway! Their own truth bites them in the ass, and they somehow think we sent it!I’ve pretty much undergone full metamorphosis, I’m no longer a creature of pair bonding, the Velcro of my heart is packed full of feminist dirt and singed over by the fervent heat from feminferno… I just know millions of other men are the same way, heartstrings burned off with nothing to pull, thereby no way to manipulate.The good in all this; I know who I am, I know why I am the way I am, and I know why I’ll never change, the fairy tale is over, the reality of feminism and all it encompasses, has cemented the pair bonding to myself. MonoMGTower, no such thing a DiTowerf~~~edfate…

Damn straight.

I usually tell people to watch this when they ask about me:

“It’s too late for me, son.”

Darth Vader is f~~~ing awesome.

Fuck this planet.

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