MGTOW

[Darth TyrannusParticipant 349]

Ever since I joined this movement, there has been no reason to be hesitant to trust it. People seem friendly here and a lot of posts talking about what happened in their past lives (offer my condolences) have more often than not had replies offering advice or sympathy. The movements in my past would often just break people down, force others to conform to their way, or just downright offer advice meant to screw them over. I never managed to find a movement like this one and I mean never! It’s good to see that things can go well.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Trust me no one wants to conform to my crazy ways. Heck, I think I’m the King of Poland.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

This site is built, maintained, and populated by MEN. We understand that trust is EARNED.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

we support each other and share stories so that we can learn from each other’s mistakes…unlike other forums such as reddit, there’s very few trolls and not much hate posts.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

We understand that trust is EARNED.

With no intent to challenge whatsoever, we have to freely trust in life. When we fasten our seatbelt, we have to trust another driver coming in the opposite direction won’t cross this yellow lines and kill us. We have no choice but to trust that we won’t be gunned down at some outdoor restaurant.

Trust is needs to be extended upfront – or not. Respect is “earned”.
When you earn respect, you may appear to be more trust-worthy, but trust has to come from you.

We can’t make anyone trust. You either will or you won’t.

We can think of trust and respect like a point system.
I trust you, and give you 10 points upfront because I have no choice.
I can start you with zero points too, but who wants to live like that?

Respect starts at zero and you build from there.

What I have a real problem with is when a woman starts you off in the NEGATIVES and expects you to work just to get to ZERO. “How do I know you’re not a serial killer”…. is actually a question a woman asked me on a date once. I’m not jumping through hoops to prove I’m not a serial killer, so I will just get up and leave here there. THAT’S how she can trust I’m not a serial killer.

Easy. Never speak to her again. Done.

Darth Tyrannus wrote:

break people down, force others to conform to their way

“Going your own way ” is right in the MGTOW name. It’s encouraged.
Forcing others to conform to “my own way” would be an antithesis.

You make your own terms, write your own script, and that’s the beauty of it all.

Welcome to MGTOW and the Forums.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Keymaster wrote:

“Going your own way ” is right in the MGTOW name. It’s encouraged.
Forcing others to conform to “my own way” would be an antithesis.

good point…I’ve never though of it that way before…we encourage everyone to go their own way, other than, Never getting married, there’s no pressure to conform to any ideologies.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey creative, this is a movement based in logic and critical thinking. Feminism has set the narrative for the past 50+ years. They have slanted the tables of justice by having no responsibility coupled with everything’s “her choice”. Men are forced by the mandates of law to be responsible and shoulder all the responsibilities of having a family, but powerless and speechless when the state takes over that family, and isolates him as the resource to fund and maintain that family.
I won’t even get into the gynocentric narcissistic manipulative mind of today’s everyday woman…

Only a fool doesn’t know his value and willingly trades his life for nothing but fantasy land promises that turn to real time misery…

Welcome to the awakening!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Blue Skies wrote:

good point…I’ve never though of it that way before…we encourage everyone to go their own way, other than, Never getting married, there’s no pressure to conform to any ideologies.

Well – as an example – the other day, a new member was considering donating sperm to a lesbian couple…. which is not recommended, and you could give him 101 excellent reasons.

In that way, a fleet of MGTOW may show up to say “MAN WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!!!!”… but again, that’s encouraging him to go his OWN way and not be a white knight for women.

He can trust that it’s a good idea not to even THINK about it.

He doesn’t need to trust ME though. In fact, I would rather he didn’t and just trust himself to make the right decision.
http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/23/justice/kansas-sperm-donation/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

You can rant, and the brotherhood will let it go. The brotherhood urges you to get it out of your system.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

I cannot disagree with KeyMaster’s expansion on Trust & Respect. I like the number system metaphor, as well.
He’s dead, nuts, on point with regard to respect, however, real trust must be based on evidence, otherwise it’s a blind trust, and may lead us off of the cliff.
Trust built on multiple threads of objective evidence [science, our experiences, the experiences of others, multiple sources of literature, etc] tends to be stronger than a blind trust.

I want to thank KM for his tireless efforts [seems he never sleeps] with this site and this movement. R.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

I clearly don’t know how to use these codes for bold, italics, etc. yet.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Darth TyrannusParticipant 349]

The concept of trust is absolutely true. We do have to put some measure of trust that others will not kill and/or injure us in any way, we also have to extend that trust towards technology capable of failing at anytime. Even those who trust nobody are having to do so on a small level.

[AttonParticipant]

MGTOW is a pretty lose philosophy that is it’s beauty and frankly why it works. We have a diversity here that many other forums could only dream of. Either way welcome it’s nice to have you here.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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