Met/f~~~ed a girl within 2 hours, days later she starts playing games…AWALT?

[Anonymous 11]

LightBringer wrote:

I thought maybe I found some unicorn…but is this another case of AWALT?

They are all AWALT. The few Unicorns that do exist are snagged very quickly. They are either never released back into the pool. If they are, they are damaged goods having been run through the wringer by a Chad. Also, Unicorns don’t f~~~ guys two hours after they meet them. Crazy bitches do though.

@untamed: My mother always told me to never commit to anyone before two years have passed. In her latter years, she told me she understood why I never married.

The closest I ever came to getting married had her dropping me for a Chad 1.75 years into it. We were engagement ring shopping at that point. She’s paying for it now though. Chad has turned into an alcoholic, pot head, coke head and a pill head. She even pays his bills too. I find it to be quite funny. I was a nerd who was making pretty good money. In retrospect, I think she just used me to get her through school. Now, she spends huge chunks of money and works her ass off to enable Chad.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

If you get a woman who is stable, and decent to be around a relationship, she isn’t likely going to sleep with you in a hurry. You may get a very rare woman doing the c~~~ carousel thing, but then a woman doing that usually has esteem issues and is in dire need of validation, and is using the sex stuff to try to get love, attention, resources, etc…

If you just hit it off with sex, and not anything else, you are going to get weirdness. It goes with the territory.

With sex that quick, she is likely also to end up backing off and thinking about things. You can try to slow down, and then do something a bit slower, meeting a neutral place, and lay down some boundaries. You can set a timeline for her to get back to you, and if she doesn’t, tell her to never call you again. Give her an out to run with, and let he go. You don’t need the headache. You don’t know what personal demons she is dealing with.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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