mental gymnastics of a gold digger

[TicParticipant 4329]

LOL…this stuff warms my heart.
Priceless if you want to peak into the mind of a vulture

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God bless peace and freedom.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

WOW that hamster wheel could break the land speed record—if only we could harness that energy.

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

That s~~~ was f~~~ing beautiful! I really needed that. He handled himself well. I’m taking notes

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[Anonymous 2]

A mans fairy tale come true. He’s rich does his own thing bangs a presumably hot woman. Says see-ya when she wants to leave. No f~~~s will be given. Haha! Love it.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

This is great. Sounds like this guy is sharp. advice I’d give to any dude with money is not to show it off. Especially these days. Now if they are young and want to ‘play the game’ and just have women because they see signs of money; I really don’t care as long as they don’t get emotionally invested or convince themselves that the girl actually loves him. I never liked playing that game I thought I wanted to find a woman that liked me for the person I was. But then come to find out, AWALT. Slap in the face. But even for the guys that do play the game; I imagine it gets old after a while.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

This is funny as f~~~, but also educational and demonstrates a lot of the things I’ve been saying here.

Lately my newsfeed has been filled with my peers getting married, buying houses, having babies, and other various accolades. I can’t help but feel jealous by this; it seems like everyone but me is making significant gains in their lives and relationships.

Women are in constant competition and men are nothing more that prizes and resources in that competition between them. There is no “war between the sexes” or “war on women”, just a constant war between women.

With prior boyfriends, we’d still talk or text a bit after we’d be broken up. Sometimes we’d even still hook up.

In other words she expects backup orbiters while she acts on her gold digging hypergamy seeking greener pastures elsewhere.

I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I’m not a f~~~ing gold-digger.

All the while expecting him to “man up” and start delivering the gold.

If she weren’t a gold digger she’d still be with him. Dating him proves nothing. Breaking up when she thought there was no gold to be had proves she is a gold digger.

I can’t just indefinitely date someone with the future being so uncertain.

Why not? Because she’s a gold digger.

It makes absolutely no sense.

On the contrary, it makes perfect sense. He was testing her. She failed. Her inability to comprehend the test only means she is still failing it.

And why was Will testing her? Because he has a lot to lose by trusting a potential gold digging whore. Her breaking up with him over his perceived lack of money proves what a disaster it would have been for him had he f~~~ed up and married this bitch.

If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn’t he want to treat her?

Whore logic. Whore assumptions.

Why should he want to treat her? It’s not always all about her. Suppose he’s looking for a “strong independent woman who don’t need no man”. Or just wants a woman who isn’t a whore. He wouldn’t want to insult such a woman by giving her things as if she were a common prostitute or gold digger, now would he?

Why didn’t he care enough to share these things with me?

Because his finances are on a need to know basis, and she didn’t need to know. Only a gold digging whore would feel she needs to know such things.

Someone please help me make sense of this situation.

Simple. She’s a gold digging whore. She proved that to him by leaving when she thought no gold was forthcoming. He has no time or need for such women. It doesn’t get simpler than that.

I couldn’t come to terms with his lying by omission

He didn’t lie. He was testing her. She failed.

Remember that she broke up with him long before she found out he never told her about his wealth.

it seemed like he threw away our relationship over nothing.

He didn’t throw away their relationship. SHE DID. And she did it because she wanted money, not him, and not because of anything she didn’t yet know about Will.

But she’s still blaming Will for HER choice to break up with him.

Women NEVER accept responsibility for their own choices.

patiently waiting far Mr. Right to came along.

She means Mr. Right-Amount.

In that moment, whatever bad feelings I had about our relationship were completely gone. I just
genuinely missed him.

I guarantee she would have had different “feelings” had Will actually been penniless and wanted to get back with her.

But will does have money and she can’t have it because Will doesn’t want her.

Women want what they can’t have.

My friends could tell that seeing him had affected me. They took me to a more private area
of the house to talk it out; they reminded me to not get ahead of myself, he’s still the same guy who lied to you, etc.

Of course they did. They all have their own hypothetical plans for Will’s money, and even though they are all aware of how unlikely those plans might be, they aren’t going to ruin them by helping her get back with him.

Women never help women with men; it might hurt their own opportunities.

She seemed nice enough, but seeing them together made me sick to my stomach.

Women especially want what they think other women have. Enough to make them feel ill.

The party ended, I got into a car with my friends and just started sobbing uncontrollably. They tried to comfort me but I was too far gone. They dropped me off and I cried for while longer alone
in my apartment.

Women can’t handle rejection.

I want him back so bad,

She doesn’t actually want him. Not Will himself.

I just don’t know what to do.

Well she could grow the f~~~ up, accept responsibility for her own poor selfish choices, give up on Will, and stop being a gold digging whore.

Be we all know how likely that is.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

HAHA, this is excellent – story sounds almost too good to be true: f~~~ing ungrateful C~~~ getting what she deserves!! Yeah, You ARE a simple gold-digger even though you don’t think you are.
How about you f~~~ing start to learn to appreciate the ‘little things’ in life: loyalty and having a considerate boyfriend torrenting you documentary and cooking soup for you.. but NOOOOO you absolutely had to f~~~ it up because your hypergamous cum bucket couldn’t be satisifed enough, you f~~~ing ungrateful bitch.

Now you can load up on cats and Milky Way chocolates while entertaining the thought of what could have been, you spoiled, self entitled little child.

Thanks for posting the OP!

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Sidecar,

great job at addressing the original topic – you should post that at the original board to educate the bitch a bit, haha.

[joetechParticipant]

That poor, whiny little girl. I pity the chump she ends up settling for. Weddings, houses (notice it’s plural…one wouldn’t be enough) and babies is all she’s interested in. Why? Because it’s what all her friends are doing on Facebook. And years later when they all start to get divorced and ‘rediscover’ themselves with the poor chump’s money and house, she’ll be on that bandwagon, too. That’s one smart guy in the article. That’s how to go MGTOW.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 1]

Already saw it months ago, that really is a great story, and the best part is his reaction after she spilled all that bulls~~~ about “you do not spend enough money and your car sucks”.

Basically the translation was “it’s ok that you are tall and I like your dick, it’s ok that I am happy with you, but it is a no no that you are not working your ass off to make money for me, why are you not making money????”.

Bitch doesn’t know he do not need to make money, and he just live as a minimalist. Only now, thinking about this, I believe that he was hoping that his minimalist life style would attract quality women, not interested in his wealth, much like those movies where a prince decide to live as a commoner to look how people behave towards him.
Have a good chuckle:

Truth is, AWALT, if he had that s~~~ty car and an old house, but was short and fat, she would have ignored him. I’ll write this now and everyone of us better remember it for the years to come:

A woman is only attracted to what she can get from you, that includes: MONEY, STATUS, SEX, DRAMA, ATTENTION, VALIDATION, SPERM, FAMILY, COMMITMENT AND MUCH MORE.

All the guys still searching for a special unicorn that want a guy just for his personality, culture, moral values, etc. is delusional, and the main core of the bluepill.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

I haven’t heard a f~~~ing word from Will, even after texting him multiple times and calling him once.

There’s nothing more to say, bitch. You established where you stand. You ended things with a guy whom you supposedly loved because he didn’t seem to have a career or money. In other words, you’re not loyal to people who you “love” when you can’t benefit from them financially. You have proved that you’re not a worthy partner. That would have told Will everything that he needed to know. Yet you expect him to keep in touch?

Amazing. Just amazing.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Terrific Find @tic. It must be circulating on Reddit (or other boards) too, because another member posted it shortly after you.

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It’s remarkable how everything can be just fine, she likes you, and you can even sincerely plan to stay with her for a long time! But that’s not enough. “Happy with the way things are” doesn’t compute. It’s never enough. A lot of women just don’t know how to be “happy with the way things are”.

It’s always gotta be building towards something (else).
And as soon as she arrives there, she tears it down.

I liken it to working on a project car for 2 years, and finally when it’s road ready, you drive it off a cliff.

I have had to break down and explain to a couple of girlfriends that it means more to me that she knows she can LEAVE anytime she wants. This way , I know when she’s there, it’s because she WANTS to be – and not out of some contractual sense of obligation or resent.

This doesn’t register as a “compliment”. So she breaks it off …. which means she never really wanted to be there in the first place.

“I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless. Proof I’m not a gold digger.”

She can’t keep up the charade for even a year. At 10 months after meeting, they shouldn’t even BE in a “relationship” yet. That’s when a sensible man might start thinking about being in a “relationship” with her, but she’s already on her way out.

Beautiful story and an instant classic.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

bagsofsand wrote:

educate the bitch

Not worth the effort. I guarantee she’s ineducable.

And I don’t give a f~~~. That’s her problem. Not ours.

However I would like to congratulate Will for dodging that bullet.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Will is a hero. Thanks for the daily red pill dosage.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[narwhalParticipant]

I see this a little differently I think. This woman doesn’t mention anything about her own ability to finance the life she wants, so I won’t assume she couldn’t do it on her own. Even though she talks about the competition on facebook, I’m not going to assume her desire to have something other then a minimalist life is genuine. I think it’s fine to want to be with someone who wants a similar lifestyle than what you want.

So I don’t have a big problem with her wanting to end the relationship…based on what we know for sure.

The problem I have is solely with her regret of the decision. I would suspect she never even really wanted to break up with him. You don’t break up with someone hoping for a long break up discussion and follow up text. You do a fake break up with him it hopes you will get him to change his behavior to something more your liking. I have no doubt that if he had said “ok, I’ll look for a better job tomorrow if you stay, she would have stayed”.

So she’s devastated that her manipulation didn’t work. She gambled and lost. Later find out he had money just made her realize that she should have waited longer before she tried to change him. If she had known he had money, she would hung in there longer, but still want to change him.

Will didn’t lie by omission, at least in the context she wants to imply. He was bluntly honest about the life he wanted to live. I don’t think her sadness is doing to missing him, but in missing the man she thought she could change him into. If Will did take her back, her happiness would be because she got her foot back in the door…another chance to change him.

Perhaps that’s just another way of saying gold digging, but that’s just another aspect of women in relationships that bother’s me. It doesn’t even really have to be about money though. One of the things my ex said to me that really struck a cord, about a year after we were married was “I thought you would change”. Why they hell would you think I would change? How much does that say, when you are unhappy with someone because they are still the same person you supposedly fell in love with?

Ok. Then do it.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

What a great post.
And the comments are pure gold.
Sidecar, your analysis was outstanding.

She means Mr. Right-Amount.

Priceless!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Just read the bottom part. Someone tell her to STFU, she only misses the money he never got. I need to be like Will and I’d be sitting even prettier now had I did.

The hive will never tell her that she’s wrong. I hate the victim complex, he never lied to her. He protected himself like any reasonable man should. She shows the nature of herself and her friends. It’s absolutely sickening.

Had Will had nothing, they would have trashed him left and right.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

narwhal wrote:

Even though she talks about the competition on facebook, I’m not going to assume her desire to have something other then a minimalist life is genuine. I think it’s fine to want to be with someone who wants a similar lifestyle than what you want.

Except she doesn’t want a lifestyle. She wants to win. If her friends were all going minimalist themselves, she would be trying to out-minimize them.

But minimal or maximal, whatever the terms of victory among her female peers, she expects them to be provided for her by some man. She left Will because he wasn’t providing her that.

don’t think her sadness is doing to missing him, but in missing the man she thought she could change him into.

Nah. She misses the money that she thinks could have improved her standing among her female peers. That’s all.

Oh, and like all women she can’t handle being rejected. Despite it being her choice to break up, Will very much did reject her. As soon as he determined what she was all about, he abandoned her with no f~~~ given. Women hate that. She also wants to escape that feeling of abandonment.

But that’s not Will’s problem.

One of the things my ex said to me that really struck a cord, about a year after we were married was “I thought you would change”.

When a woman says “change” she really means “become more profitable”.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

sidecar wrote:

bagsofsand wrote:

educate the bitch

Not worth the effort. I guarantee she’s ineducable.

And I don’t give a f~~~. That’s her problem. Not ours.

However I would like to congratulate Will for dodging that bullet.

You’re right – no need to waste time & energy on schooling this chick.
However you did correct her in a rather precise way, haha.

Anyway, someone has already told her she’s a dumbass..

On reddit from some of the responses:

Her hobbies include: gold digging, pretending she matters, social status, stealing oxygen, and crying.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

sidecar wrote:

When a woman says “change” she really means “become more profitable”.

This is pure truth here. They just want a wallet. They expect the world, but aren’t willing to put in the work themselves to get where they want. AWALT!

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

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