Men's natural state is happiness

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Men are brainwashed on a regular basis by media, by family, by friends and pretty much by the majority of society to seek women.

We all know men who go on and on about how lonely/sad/non-achieved they are.When they ask us what they should do i think the best answer is “cut the media/friends shaming you out of your life”.

This “loneliness” you feel is one of 2 things:
1)you’re just horny
2)It’s what society and women have been working on for years.

You see women count on this.They want you to feel lonely, bad/sad/whatever without them.Because you will keep chasing that dream.
It’s basically a carrot tied to a stick in front of you to make you keep pulling the cart.
They don’t want you.
Women want you to want them.
Everything you hear from them is just pretty lies.And we men want to hear those pretty lies, which is why so few of us see through them.

So what happens when you stop dealing with women for a while?
You start to hear this 24/7 blasting programming about all kinds of “true love”/”don’t be alone”/”find your other half”
Once you hear this s~~~ enough times and you will start to latch on to the back of your mind a bit.You don’t realize this however.
What’s happening is that they’re literally forcing you to think this way via endless propaganda.

Do this experiment:

Try and cut all these types of things from your life for3 months.
I’m not sure what will happen with you, but with me
the loneliness mysteriously disappeared!

This that you feel my friends is not natural.
Loneliness is an artificial feeling.
Men have been hunting and spending prolonged amounts in the wilderness since the beginning of time without this occurring.

Look at this bear:

It’s a male bear.
It spends the majority of it’s life alone.
And it’s perfectly natural.

You see my friends your natural state is happiness.
Why is it that men no matter how badly hurt always manage to come out on top and fix themselves?

What women will always envy men for is our ability to simply enjoy our life without external validation.

There’s this question that many ask men
“What’s happening in your life right now?”
To that you answer:

I’m happening.
And i’m happy.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

Bravo, indeed bravo! I couldn’t have said it better myself! This is what I meant for a long time; time alone is good for any man, and once one get used to it the alternative will never be an option again.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Well said!

[Anonymous 6]

That video is so powerful, the music and the bear swimming alone in all that vastness.

[Anonymous 18]

Interesting topic. While I agree with everything you said that sort of ‘I am happening” mentality doesn’t come about until a man has defined himself somehow. Whether by work or by finding something meaningful to do with his time.

One thing I can compare notes on with my early 20s self was that the’ you are lonely, you need a woman’ was tied to my self-image, and self-esteem.

Now in my late 20s that self-image comes from what I do and what I can achieve.

Women are not the prized special beings that I was led to believe. They are very simple people as far as getting sex is concerned. Relationships are completely different ball game.

I’d go as far as to say it’s counterproductive for a man to be in any serious relationship in his early to mid 20s.

Not until he knows that him putting his foot down and not compromising isn’t pushing her away. She will likely linger on the more independence and strong will he demonstrates.

Most men let a woman define themselves. Which is like buying a Hyundai for the costs of a Maybach. Never truly finding out one’s potential. Only to complain about the failing parts few years down the road.

Franky wrote:

Women want you to want them.

That’s the jist of it. And it’s not really for any ill meaning motives on her part. Her sense of self-worth is tied to the attention she receives. And it doesn’t change if she’s single or married.

Indifference is the sharpest of daggers that pierces the hearts of all women.

I have experimented with it. Last week I was in a quiet study room at a library. I was the second person to walk in the morning. By mid afternoon there were 2 guys and 10 girls in that room.

I didn’t look up once to acknowledge anyone. Focused on my PDF file. Two girls across me looked up at me more than a half dozen times. I could tell they expected my to pay a passing look towards them to appreciate whatever they are accustomed to and consider their assets.

Franky wrote:

Try and cut all these types of things from your life for3 months.
I’m not sure what will happen with you, but with me
the loneliness mysteriously disappeared!

I can attest to it. Social media, TV, online dating sites are the breeding grounds of insecurity for men. Because it’s not designed for them. A man is the square peg in the round holes. No pun intended.

[Anonymous 5]

Yep. Men have the pleasure of doing nothing but enjoying life.

Females on the other hand are Bi-Polar children who are constantly going psycho and are never happy.

Thank god I was born with a mans brain. I would not be able to handle the insanity of being a female.

[UntamedParticipant]

Great post, Franky. Although I wouldn’t have used “happiness” which is momentary. Contentment is better suited for a man because we tend to look beyond tomorrow by working on today while weemins subscribe more to the instant gratification lifestyle which has no basis in Reason.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[AttonParticipant]

Nothing is more natural than actually falling in love with this planet, its beauty never fades and its strength is unrivaled and it is so impossible. What exists on this planet exists due to countless miracles and freaks of nature, it’s held together and operates on a symphony of highly complex systems which can feed even the hungriest of minds. Should the day come when humans die it will wash itself clean of all trace of civilization, like a s~~~stain on a wall blasted with super heated fire. Give a man eternal life on this planet without the need for food and water, the sheer beauty of this place would feed him forever.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Untamed wrote:

Although I wouldn’t have used “happiness” which is momentary

Yes!Happiness is not the correct word.I tried thinking a better one, something between contentment as you said, peace something more lasting.

[numbCruncherParticipant 772]

Mmmmm. Red pill tastes goooood!

Top marks for the OP. I find that when I am alone for long periods of time, I gravitate towards a state of quiet relaxation. I don’t need to spend nine hours talking to my friends each day to stop me going insane.

I just am.

My female relatives used to treat me like s~~~. So I simply stopped talking to them. Now the note of panic and desperation in their voice is evident whenever they speak to me. They are desperate for me to interact with them.

But I just don’t need them.

I don’t actually need anything except the occasional beer / sammich combination. Maybe and a decent chilli once every so often.

You say "love is a temple, love the higher law" ...You ask me to enter, but then you make me crawl. And I can't be holding on to what you got, when all you got is hurt

[MadGamerParticipant 78]

I noticed this also. So far since I found out about the term MGTOW, I tried cutting out TV for the most part. I still listen to it occasionally for background noise, but even that’s starting to annoy the f~~~ out of me. I really can’t even listen to music anymore because I know most of it is s~~~. What I do for background noise now like for when I’m programming is listen to videos like this:

It feels so much better to listen to this than TV or music. And it’s helped me avoid listening to TV even if it’s just for background noise.
And yep, I agree that men are more contempt/peaceful once they get away from media all together. On my free time I usually just exercise or play video games. I’ve also noticed that I’m more at peace when I’m alone. I can’t even stand being around the majority of men because most of them are white knights/manginas.

[BufordParticipant 935]

Excellent post. This is the exact kind of thing that spurs me to jump on a bike and go pedaling alone for weeks or months at a time. It’s nice to meet and talk with other people as i go along, but i always let them know that it’s temporary, and that I’m doing what i do to be alone with the world as much as i can.

As Eddie Vedder wrote, ‘Society, crazy indeed, I hope you’re not lonely without me’.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[Anonymous 0]

Franky wrote:

Women want you to want them.

Good post. Franky,
That’s the nub of it. Once you stop wanting them they are lost and that is because they think with their t~~~/vagina and don’t realize that men aren’t listening anymore.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Personally, I don’t know about the state of Happiness. I do however know about being truly content with myself, and my life. I guess the closest thing to “happiness” for me is being in the woods with nature. I am totally calm and accepting there.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I disagree with the titular thesis as natural selection favours proliferation of genes; happiness is largely irrelevant. I would wager in evolutionary psychology, there is a mechanism that penalises a man who does not partake in the life of the tribe or sew his seed as the latter two are integral to survival and the proliferation of his genes.

I agree completely that many so-called “needs” have been implanted in one’s head through 18 years of inculcation by the television, government schools, and of course one’s parents. However, this might explain one’s present state, but it does not speak to one’s default mental state. I have discovered that the oft-cited “need” for housing is utter nonsense designed to keep one’s self and one’s money on the plantation.

Whether one is happy or not at present, if one is single and not a slave of a c~~~ or the regime, then it could be infinitely worse.

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