Men with “relationship phobia”

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

I regularly read a local (county) newspaper in a country that would barely pass for a major city in other parts of the world. Some people would think that this would make it a different place. Different or not, as I mentioned in another thread, you are faced with the same bulls~~~ you can see elsewhere.

Just this morning, there was an article about men with “relationship phobia”. Now, there is plenty of crap about commitment phobia on the internet, but to see it in print, and in such a low-circulation newspaper to boot, is proof that bulls~~~ is rampant. Here is my quick and dirty translation of the usual drivel – I mean, article. Enjoy, gentlemen.

Men with Relationship Phobia

Why are so many of them unable to maintain a normal relationship?

Having started as ardent love, the relationship comes to a sudden end because the man is terrified of love and commitment…

There are men who have no idea about which way their life is going. To veil their insecurity, they try to seduce as many women as they can. They almost make an art out of living this way, while naive ladies believing in deep love walk right into their trap eagerly. After a few exhilarating weeks, the man starts to behave differently – and then he suddenly disappears. Of course, instead of thinking that the man is terrified of relationships because he does not know who he is, the woman is wondering what is wrong with her, and how she drove off this wonderful man.

Fears
These men usually feel too strongly compelled to conform, which the woman experiences as if the man could read her mind. However, it is just a game that he plays to seduce her. The man needs seduction to prove himself in his own eyes, to make himself believe that he can get what he wants. Nevertheless, his true personality comes to light after a while.

A “relationship phobic” often does not know who he is and what he really wants. Most of the time it all goes back to problems in his childhood. His Casanova-like behaviour is nothing but a compensation and disguise for his problems. If a man is unable to maintain a healthy relationship with a woman, it is mostly because he is still morbidly attached to his mother, and views her as “The woman”, or maybe he still have not been able to get over a great love in his past.

Unfortunately, if a woman forms a relationship with such a man, he is unlikely to change for her sake. To do so, he would have to realize that he has problems, and he would have to work on his personality, solving his problems, and finding his place in the world and society.

Why me?
A woman who is attracted to such men is usually very dissatisfied, therefore she is looking, perhaps unconsciously, for a partner who makes her feel like a real woman. She expects him to lavish her with compliments in order to strengthen her self-confidence. That is why when the “relationship” is over, she is blaming herself instead of the man.

7 signs of a man with relationship phobia

1. He is overwhelmingly attractive.
2. He is quick to tell her that she is special, that he has never met anyone like her.
3. If he has lots of money, he spends a lot on her; otherwise he sets up unusually romantic dates.
4. Despite his womanizing past, he assures her that it all will be different with her.
5. He calls her a lot, telling her “I just wanted to hear your voice.”
6. He is sensitive, and he scolds his rude fellow men.
7. He professes his love after an unrealistically short time, after a couple of weeks, making her believe that the two of them are a match made in heaven.

Oh, boy, the author managed to crunch so much feel-good bulls~~~ for women into so little space that people coming up with compression algorithms would be envious of it.

Okay, it is going to be long, but I have to get it off my chest.

One. Unsubstantiated claims of insecurity, not knowing who he is, and what he wants, etc. are not required for a man (or anyone) to avoid commitment. All he needs is a preference for something else than commitment. Most (if not all) of these “phobic” men are terrified of relationships to the same extent as gold digging women are – i.e., not at all. The only difference is that a gold digger digs a man’s money more than she digs the man, while the men referred to in the article dig pussy more than they dig the women. They are pussy diggers. They are only interested in pounding pussy, and they can afford to just pound pussy (they are overwhelmingly attractive, remember point 1?).

Two, phobia. There is this concept of words having meaning (an alien concept to destroyers of words like rape and equality). Phobia is “a persistent, irrational fear of a specific object, activity, or situation that leads to a compelling desire to avoid it”. Most other definitions also mention its irrational aspect. Even if there are men who fear commitment, they have good reasons to do so: they only have to take a good look at what happenned to other men who had committed to women. There are plenty of horror stories, all available thanks to the Internet. This rules out irrationality, which in turn rules out phobia. Your are left with a good old reagular fear, at most. Comitting to your run of the mill woman – that’s irrational!

Three. Notice that the 7 signs of this “relationship phobia” do not include suddenly leaving the woman. If you give her gina tingles, that already makes you 14% relationship phobic, apparently. And if in addition you do all of the things blue-pill men do, then one is forced to conclude that you have a serious case of relationship phobia. Even if you stay with her! Maybe leaving the woman was implied, maybe it was not, in any case, sound logic and fine journalism are not required when indulging a female audience. Also, must all of these signs be present for this phobia, or is any one of them enough? Logic and journalism.

Four, commitment. It has been repeated ad nauseam, but it won’t hurt to repeat it once again: When infatuated men were trying to commit to her in her late teens and her 20s, she avoided them as if they were lepers. She found them creepy, she did not want a relationship at that time, she did not want to be tied down, she wanted to explore the world, she wanted to live, she wanted to find herself. But now, when she does want commitment (from overwhelmingly attractive men, of course), men suddenly owe it to her, and are faulty if they refuse. Nope. F~~~ you. Men do not owe women commitment.

But who would not want to commit to her golden vagina, wondrous uterus, and fabulous personality? After all, everybody on Facebook likes her 150 times a day.

Five. He is insecure? But the women who are attracted to him lack self-confidence. Projection much?

Six. And morbidly attached to his mother? You mean … a virgin … momma’s boy … living in her mother’s basement? Oh, it also applies when a man f~~~s a lot of women? Or when he does anything women disapprove of? F~~~ you, c~~~s.

[Anonymous 18]

When I hear shaming language I mentally visualize a morbidly obese transgendered post-wall skank who says ‘Why? Aren’t you a man enough for bending over and letting me f~~~ you in the ass?”

In essence, shaming language is the ruffies for a man’s uninformed consent because the lube and the dildo are locked and loaded to f~~~ him in the ass.

And he can always be a man enough to stop bitching about the ass f~~~ing because a real man would.

My goal is to be indifferent to shaming language. To defend it is to add fuel to the fire.

Let them swing in the dark. It is amusing because someone is making the effort. Like fat women on dating sites.

For the lolzzz.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Let me guess, some musty ham beast got shot down POF and decided to embark on a shaming marathon to repair her self esteem.

[Anonymous 3]

It’s like preaching to the choir, so I don’t want to do too much of it.

Just gotta laugh with my MGTOW brothers.

[Anonymous 54]

To be bonest as soom as I see the word fear, I read no further.
Like at a shool yard.
What are you afaid?

I double dog dare ya.

We are grown Men. Good lord.

F~~~ thoses stupid c~~~s.

[Anonymous 42]

Zoidberg wrote:

Why are so many of them unable to maintain a normal relationship?

Woe de f~~~ing woe!

First line is a gynocentric c~~~ slap to every decent man’s face!

Why are we unable? F~~~ you c~~~! Ask why the law has “disabled” us from being in a f~~~ing relations~~~ with such stupid blinded c~~~s dumb enough to point their fingers at men!

Women are at a level of such blind arrogant thinking it best to avoid them at all cost!

Women are DANGEROUS AND DEADLY!

Cuddle up with a black mamba, a cobra, or a rattle snake? F~~~ OFF AND DIE IN YOUR OWN VENOM SWEETIE!

How can so many multitudes be so arrogantly blind and STUPID?!?!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It’s not “relationship phobia”.

It’s called being “pumped and dumped”.

Because that’s all most women are good for.

Get used to it laydeez.

[OldBillParticipant]

Seeing as it’s a local newspaper and seeing as the article is “infotainment” rather than actual news, that the piece was almost certainly written on spec by a freelancer for a wire service. That same article most likely appeared in other small papers the same week and will keep appearing for a few more years.

The only difference between that piece and the clickbait you see daily at Jezebel or the HuffPro is that it was physically printed.

There’s an entire industry of people who supplement their income by writing these puff pieces on various topics. The practice is called “copywriting”. Most copywriters have moved to the internet to provide paid content to millions of blogs, but enough still make sales to the dinosaur media.

Several years ago I consulted with a printing press manufacturer whose biggest customer base was newspapers. Even cursory research revealed that newspapers were dying and dying despite trying to move their content to the web and monetize it. We made various recommendations but the firm failed to follow any of them and is now little but a glorified spare parts warehouse and repair center.

Small newspapers like the one the OP mentioned are under huge financial pressures. They can no longer afford reporters and instead use part-time stringers while buying hard news and “clickbait” from the various wire services.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Let me try to guess this, i really have no more patience with hive propaganda.

So in my youth all the girls discarded the traditional role, went for party years, hypergamy ON. My SMV low, her over the roof.

Then, in my thirthees when red pills are growing out of my f~~~ing ears and i REFUSE to even contemplate taking seriously any post wall or for that matter post 22 years old female, hive tries to tell me I have “relationship phobia”, because i see not zero but negative value in those used up post wall cum dumpsters with 2 kids from 2 different fathers, overweight and indebted.

Well let me put this very nicely. Please hive, go f~~~ yourself. I can do whatever I want and “manning up” as per hive standars is not part of the equation.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Anonymous 54]

@zt. I miss ole Red!

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

RIGHT ON ZOID I FAVED YOUR LETTER . GIVES MY MIND SOMETHING TO LOOK AT , I USED TO WORK FOR OUR LOCAL PAPER HERE, I’M GETTING STORIED OUT ALREADY . I LIKE YOU LETTER.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Anonymous 3]

Freeman_K wrote:

Let me try to guess this, i really have no more patience with hive propaganda.

So in my youth all the girls discarded the traditional role, went for party years, hypergamy ON. My SMV low, her over the roof.

Then, in my thirthees when red pills are growing out of my f~~~ing ears and i REFUSE to even contemplate taking seriously any post wall or for that matter post 22 years old female, hive tries to tell me I have “relationship phobia”, because i see not zero but negative value in those used up post wall cum dumpsters with 2 kids from 2 different fathers, overweight and indebted.

Well let me put this very nicely. Please hive, go f~~~ yourself. I can do whatever I want and “manning up” as per hive standars is not part of the equation.

They made their beds, they have to lie in it. Let it be a lesson to all young women.

And I think young women are learning it, because I see them laugh at the 30+ year old single women.

[Anonymous 25]

With all the false accusations from women, divorce rape and risks that relationships pose to men as a result of feminists; a relationship phobia is a very useful phobia to have.

a phobia of heights is useful to have. because it’s dangerous and can kill you

[narwhalParticipant]

Zoidberg wrote:

Why are so many of them unable to maintain a normal relationship?

You cannot solve the ‘problem’ without first properly identifying the problem. This article fails 7 words in. It’s not a matter of being ‘unable’, the word you should be using is ‘unwilling’.

Ok. Then do it.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Anonymous wrote:

Freeman_K wrote:

Let me try to guess this, i really have no more patience with hive propaganda.

So in my youth all the girls discarded the traditional role, went for party years, hypergamy ON. My SMV low, her over the roof.

Then, in my thirthees when red pills are growing out of my f~~~ing ears and i REFUSE to even contemplate taking seriously any post wall or for that matter post 22 years old female, hive tries to tell me I have “relationship phobia”, because i see not zero but negative value in those used up post wall cum dumpsters with 2 kids from 2 different fathers, overweight and indebted.

Well let me put this very nicely. Please hive, go f~~~ yourself. I can do whatever I want and “manning up” as per hive standars is not part of the equation.

They made their beds, they have to lie in it. Let it be a lesson to all young women.

And I think young women are learning it, because I see them laugh at the 30+ year old single women.

They made their beds and they also made their bets.

And now river card came in at 30 and she goes home broke, in debt, overweight and with other male DNA offspring. Not my problem.

If i decide to have offspring i am picking from someone who is yet to play her hand. Sure as hell will not wait at the exit doors per matrix programming as white knight, to “save” losers of this feminazi you go girl insanity.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Yet again, it’s the mans fault. **eye_roll**

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[chirParticipant]

This sums up my opinion on that article…

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[Anonymous 11]

Those seven points are quite Chad like. He will stoop that low when he has to do it.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6412]

There are men who have no idea about which way their life is going.

I know exactly which way life is going, “avoiding relationships”.

[Anonymous 54]

I have a phobia about sticking my dick in a wood chipper.
I supppose i need to just man up.

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