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Anonymous6Got this from my guy CensorSam on twitter:
This is a personal preference I’ve always had. Ok f~~~ preference…more of a requirement. S~~~ is deal breaker to me. If you already have children then we can kick it but that’s all we are gonna be doing. It is what it is.
This is the thing…I cannot really think what I would gain from deciding to date a woman who comes as a package deal. I have never really dealt with children in my lifetime. They are cute and all but more annoying. The way I see it…if I am gonna put with an annoying baby/child it might as well by my child. I’m sure my love for the child would offset the annoyance. But what do I know…
I also cannot think what a woman with children do for me than a childless woman can’t. But I know I can start a new family with a childless woman and we share that experience together. I know I can start off fresh with her and she is starting fresh with me.
It’s not particularly healthy for the child’s psyche to get attached to them and then you and the mother don’t see eye to eye. This is why your more responsible single mothers don’t even introduce their boyfriends to their children until after they have made a real bond. This is also why your unfit mothers get heavily ridiculed for have hella men around their offspring.
Oh and of course…yall know it’s coming. Baby daddy drama I want no parts of. F~~~ all that. You asking for whatever comes with dealing with the baby daddy. You can easily abort mission. You have no attachments to that dysfunctional situation. F~~~ DOT
I am not playing superman for a woman who f~~~ed it up the first time. Or second. That’s what cracks me up when a single mom or a whore in general “wants to take it slow”. Naw my guy you’ve been in the fast lane for all these other n~~~~s…move back over there so I can tap.
I am not heroic at all. I refuse to take care of another man’s child. I don’t have it in me. My fatherly duties will be reserved for my biological children and them only.
And of course there will be testimonials where that type of dynamic worked for THEM. Sure he was able to put out the cape for that particular pussy. That’s fine. That’s his life and his legacy. I’m not even saying it’s wrong. But I am saying it doesn’t benefit the childless man to engage in a half ass family when you can start one of your own.
Start your own family. You don’t have to be some complimentary piece to another one. That’s just what I see in myself and I hope more childless men do the same…have some self preservation.
If she’s a single mom because she is divorced, then there are two options:
1. If her husband truly was an asshole, then that means she’s attracted to bad boys. Watch out.
2. If her husband was a good guy, then that means she’s willing to divorce even a good man. Watch out."Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul
Yeah I always see single mothers as damaged goods. There were times I dated them, but when I realized that I would never come 1st I bounced. I guess that was selfish in my part, but I refuse to be second fiddle. I also would hate to be the the guy that becomes the asshole ex or the s~~~ty stepdad. I just don’t want to be the bad guy, and I don’t see any situation where I come out of that as anything other than that.
Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically
If she’s a single mom because she is divorced, then there are two options:
1. If her husband truly was an asshole, then that means she’s attracted to bad boys. Watch out.
2. If her husband was a good guy, then that means she’s willing to divorce even a good man. Watch out.Essentially you are f~~~ed either way. XD
Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically
Hey single mothers . It ain’t like a car parts swap meet . Men are waking up to your bulls~~~ lies of
The kids dad raped me
The kids dad beat me up .
And all the other bulls~~~ you drewl . Go f~~~ yourselves and i bet you will even have problems to whinge about that . Flat batteries on the jackhammer
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Anonymous6Tell you guys a quick story:
When I first started in college I was taking this Public Speaking class. We had a mandatory business attire day once a week and on Wednesdays we would dress in business attire all day. Well in my class there was this chick who sat about two rows across from where I was sitting. She would stare at me throughout class, me being a freshman, I didn’t think anything of it. I would say hello, and just mind my business. One day she caught me in the lunchroom and struck up a convo with me, she had the perkiest t~~~ i’d ever seen. I mean they sat perfectly, and were HUGE!.
We started talking and ended up her car one night. She gave me a pretty good BJ, after that she let me do whatever I wanted to do. I could do no wrong, and she was always wet whenever I wanted some. I figured out she went to high school with a friend of mine, so I called him one day to ask about her. She was in his class, she had a kid their senior year and the baby’s dad wasn’t worth s~~~.
Aren’t you glad your homeboys can save you from getting in some s~~~. She was throwing that ass around on me, to try and catch me slipping.
If she’s a single mom because she is divorced, then there are two options:
1. If her husband truly was an asshole, then that means she’s attracted to bad boys. Watch out.
2. If her husband was a good guy, then that means she’s willing to divorce even a good man. Watch out.^^^^^^^
WinnerTHE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Good timing on this post, just ended things tonight with a single mother I’ve been dating.
Truth be told I knew not to get involved with a single mom, but let my experience be a lesson to all that even under pretty great circumstances it’s still gonna turn to s~~~ if you are enlightened men like us.
I was friends with this girl back in High School. We hooked up a few times, she’s pretty damn good looking. All these years later she had married a rich guy and had a kid with him. In the divorce she got 100K cash upfront and alimony. We reconnected thru a friend and it was like old times. She had tons of money and just wanted to have fun. For awhile she was all “I’ll never be married again!” and “No more kids” etc.
And honestly we did have some fun. Cruises, fun weekends, all that good stuff. She was very happy to give her 5 year old son to his dad on weekends so we could play. I kinda judged her for that a little but whatever, I’m down for the fun.
Well it wasn’t long before her money was drying up and she did a complete 180. Talking bout wanting to be married again, us building a life together, me getting closer to her son, having more kids, blah blah. Of course I’m not having any of that so I tell her quite honestly that’s not the life I want and never gave her a reason to think otherwise.
Her mood and persona completely changed. Without a man to take care of her she became a miserable person. So I got out of that this evening and won’t be returning.
I’ll say this, at least we had some real fun when times were good. But even then I always knew it wasn’t long term. I just can’t believe all these guys that get roped in for much less. I mean this girl had 100k, was spoiling the hell out of me, and is super hot and I STILL knew I wouldn’t stick around to raise her kid or pay her bills. Other guys out there give up everything for a flipping waitress that’s a single mom with $100 in her account. They put a ring on it (#2 for her), raise the other guy’s kid, and probably have more kids.
I feel for those guys. It’s their own fault but still, damn.
Even if you’re “lucky” enough to start a relationship with a single mom who has no baby daddy issues at all, has her own money etc, one thing is certain. You can never even hope to come first, not even temporarily. Your schedule will be based around her schedule. Often you will get her when she’s tired, frustrated and anxious and too overwhelmed to leave the house. That means sitting around until she gets the child to bed and then watching some crap on TV while she winds down, i.e. falls into drowsiness. If the kids are still young, you cannot leave the house together without one eye on the clock constantly aware of your return time. If you are ultimately asked to act as a father figure to the child you can expect to be undermined the minute the child seems upset over your idea of discipline. As far as travel/vacations you might as well be dating a 500 pound boulder; it’s not going anywhere. It’s best avoided altogether until the kids are grown. Even then, there will be complications galore. Just my experience.
Funny, when I was still on Tinder I was chatting with some decent looking chick
3 days, not all day long, but long enough for her to have told me she had kids.
On the third night she said “Gotta put the kids down to sleep”
I said “You have kids??”
She replied “Yes, 2 of them”I instantly told her “Sorry, I am not interested in dating single mothers, just not what I want out of life”
…Now my response could’ve been much darker than that, but I kept it light because why the hell not?Her response, this two page message explaining how I’m the biggest asshole, how I will never get laid, how I was a horrible person, etc, etc.
Funny, because she was constantly talking about getting f~~~ed, and I hadn’t even met her yet…Typical whore behaviour.
I found it hilarious how she instantly got p~~~ed off that a decent man didn’t want anything to do with her, got super defensive, probably knowing how worthless she is on the sexual market.
I just ended up blocking her and deleting her, no need to instigate a fight for no reason
However, it really woke me up to the fact that these women really think they deserve it all, while giving no reason to deserve anything.
The whole time it was all about sex, from the first day, that’s all she (and likely 99% of women) have to offer anymore.Eh. Women are trouble no matter what, and it doesn’t really matter whether you have kids yourself or not.
Yeah I always see single mothers as damaged goods. There were times I dated them, but when I realized that I would never come 1st I bounced.
Because a woman without kids is going to put you first? If anything, the single mom isn’t going to tell you upfront about it.
I also would hate to be the the guy that becomes the asshole ex or the s~~~ty stepdad.
You’ll end up the asshole ex if you have a relationship with any woman. And dating a mom doesn’t make you a s~~~ty stepdad, only marrying her does. If you aren’t going to marry any woman, what difference does it make if the woman has kids or not.
I just don’t want to be the bad guy, and I don’t see any situation where I come out of that as anything other than that.
Are you not the bad guy if you end up with any woman?
Almost all of the women I have dated since my divorce 8 or so years ago were single moms. That’s partly because if you’re dating women in their 30s, they are either single mom’s or women who never grew up. I never met any of their kids. If she asked me to, the answer was no. If she treats me in a way I don’t want to be treated, whether she uses her kids as an excuse or not, then I’m done.
I actually think I like the single mom’s better then plain single ones. As I stated before, the single one’s seemed like they just wanted to go from party event to party event. They pretend their pets are kids. They act like the world cheated them by not giving them kids. I have more in common with the single mom’s, probably because I have kids myself.
But in the end it doesn’t really matter, I am not meeting kids or allowing her to treat me poorly anyway.
Ok. Then do it.
Anonymous42MEN WITH NO CHILDREN SHOULD AVOID DATING WOMEN WITH CHILDREN
The Cultural Marxist Feminazi would disagree, they see single men as unharnessed men that should be made to pull a little more of this momlested societies weight by extracting him through disproportional redistribution to women over any aid or assistance to men. We’re utterly disposable in this new paradigm of society, whereas prior to governmental collusion with feminism and gynocentrism, men were indispensable
Why be double disposable when we’re already utterly disposable?
As this society crumbles they will only demand and get more and more until it implodes into a supernova in the blink of an eye.
Civilizations vanish and now we know why…
If she’s a single mom because she is divorced, then there are two options:
1. If her husband truly was an asshole, then that means she’s attracted to bad boys. Watch out.
2. If her husband was a good guy, then that means she’s willing to divorce even a good man. Watch out.Silver Fox,
Those are indeed the two thoughts here. Neither is a positive for anyone.Got this from my guy CensorSam on twitter:
This is a personal preference I’ve always had. Ok f~~~ preference…more of a requirement. S~~~ is deal breaker to me. If you already have children then we can kick it but that’s all we are gonna be doing. It is what it is.
This is the thing…I cannot really think what I would gain from deciding to date a woman who comes as a package deal. I have never really dealt with children in my lifetime. They are cute and all but more annoying. The way I see it…if I am gonna put with an annoying baby/child it might as well by my child. I’m sure my love for the child would offset the annoyance. But what do I know…
I also cannot think what a woman with children do for me than a childless woman can’t. But I know I can start a new family with a childless woman and we share that experience together. I know I can start off fresh with her and she is starting fresh with me.
It’s not particularly healthy for the child’s psyche to get attached to them and then you and the mother don’t see eye to eye. This is why your more responsible single mothers don’t even introduce their boyfriends to their children until after they have made a real bond. This is also why your unfit mothers get heavily ridiculed for have hella men around their offspring.
Oh and of course…yall know it’s coming. Baby daddy drama I want no parts of. F~~~ all that. You asking for whatever comes with dealing with the baby daddy. You can easily abort mission. You have no attachments to that dysfunctional situation. F~~~ DOT
I am not playing superman for a woman who f~~~ed it up the first time. Or second. That’s what cracks me up when a single mom or a whore in general “wants to take it slow”. Naw my guy you’ve been in the fast lane for all these other n~~~~s…move back over there so I can tap.
I am not heroic at all. I refuse to take care of another man’s child. I don’t have it in me. My fatherly duties will be reserved for my biological children and them only.
And of course there will be testimonials where that type of dynamic worked for THEM. Sure he was able to put out the cape for that particular pussy. That’s fine. That’s his life and his legacy. I’m not even saying it’s wrong. But I am saying it doesn’t benefit the childless man to engage in a half ass family when you can start one of your own.
Start your own family. You don’t have to be some complimentary piece to another one. That’s just what I see in myself and I hope more childless men do the same…have some self preservation.
Venom,
The thought of having a kid has scared me ever since I embarked on my first epic quest to plant my flag in the sands of Iwo Jima…. It is a thought I feel at all times and makes me nervous. Im glad I’m going to start a new somewhere else so I can recollect myself.
Her mood and persona completely changed. Without a man to take care of her she became a miserable person. So I got out of that this evening and won’t be returning.
That’s what all men in the world MUST realize. ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT.
They all do a 180 degree turn when things don’t go THEIR WAY.
“When unicorns turn into AWALTS” should be the title of a book.
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Yeah I always see single mothers as damaged goods.
Damaged goods? More like damaged bads.
I view single mothers like a live hand grenade stuffed into a sack of s~~~. Even if the hand grenade doesn’t go off, best case you’re still left holding a sack of s~~~.
No single mothers. No exceptions.
I agree with Narwhal.
The single mother’s I met never had time to hang out. They would put themselves and their kids before anything. I understand that.
The single’s without kids were bat s~~~ crazy. The one’s I dated who were around my age (26-30) had the full court press working to try and get a kid ASAP. One even brought up the subject after two months.
No matter what type of girl it is, the relationship and everything in their lives will always be about them. The man is an ATM and a utility. Don’t believe me? Wait and see how long it takes a woman to be in “love” with another man after your break up with her.
The thought of having a kid has scared me ever since I embarked on my first epic quest to plant my flag in the sands of Iwo Jima…. It is a thought I feel at all times and makes me nervous. Im glad I’m going to start a new somewhere else so I can recollect myself.
Me too brother. No woman in my life has ever been able to break my instincts. Not a single one ever had me thinking “I could have a kid and marry this one.”
I did date a single mom that had 3 kids, but I knew what I was getting into, and basically just used her for sex. I had no intention of a long-term relationship. We were getting along fine–she probably thought she had her hooks into me, and I was happy to be getting laid. I knew it was going to be a short term thing though.
One time, at dinner, I described a certain scenario with an ex (involving an elaborate and ultimately successful plan to avoid being taken advantage of by her). She said something like “she really didn’t know what she was getting into”, and then basically ghosted me after that.
I knew this was the likely outcome, and I was just testing the theory. I figured she was just out for resources, and my hunch was if she knew my capabilities to avoid be exploited for resources, she would rapidly lose interest, which she did.
The best way to break up with women is to make yourself unattractive to them in such a way, so they leave on their own — make them think it was their idea. There will be less drama and resentment than if you outright dump them, at least that has been my experience.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
The best way to break up with women is to make yourself unattractive to them in such a way, so they leave on their own — make them think it was their idea. There will be less drama and resentment than if you outright dump them, at least that has been my experience.
I agree. My most recent relationship, the girl started some s~~~ tests. After I pointed out said s~~~ tests and said I’m not playing these games, I asked her for a week or two of “space.” The next day I get a text saying its over. Never heard from her again. Glorious!!
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