Men with money and status: What do they tell themselves?

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

When I see a man who has money and status (at least enough to live very comfortably) with a fit, physically attractive woman, I often wonder to myself “What does he tell himself everyday?” especially if the man is fat, bald, short, etc. Do these men realize their wife only married them and had kids with them because of their financial situation in life? Many of these men also have ZERO personality, on top of being physically unattractive. How do you go through life as this man, have children etc. KNOWING it is all a lie? Do these men block it out? Is this an example of living your life swallowing the “blue pill”? I have just always wondered. Maybe they know, but just don’t care? Man, if that was me, I might have some fun but NO WAY would I build an entire life around something that is a TOTAL LIE. But to these rich/status-filled guys, they just don’t seem to care and I have always wondered about it. Deep down, these men have to “know” why their hot wife is with them, had kids with them, and built a life with them. I wonder if they ever think to themselves “My life is a total lie” OR maybe they just don’t give a damn?

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Theres the Third Option, they see themselves positively.

I think they fall in Love and… Question nothing.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

WOTGM wrote:

When I see a man who has money and status (at least enough to live very comfortably) with a fit, physically attractive woman, I often wonder to myself “What does he tell himself everyday?” especially if the man is fat, bald, short, etc. Do these men realize their wife only married them and had kids with them because of their financial situation in life? Many of these men also have ZERO personality, on top of being physically unattractive. How do you go through life as this man, have children etc. KNOWING it is all a lie? Do these men block it out? Is this an example of living your life swallowing the “blue pill”? I have just always wondered. Maybe they know, but just don’t care? Man, if that was me, I might have some fun but NO WAY would I build an entire life around something that is a TOTAL LIE. But to these rich/status-filled guys, they just don’t seem to care and I have always wondered about it. Deep down, these men have to “know” why their hot wife is with them, had kids with them, and built a life with them. I wonder if they ever think to themselves “My life is a total lie” OR maybe they just don’t give a damn?

That’s a very good point, but most will be divorce harvested a few times, a hottie marries a rich guy burps out a kid or two, then divorces.

You are spot on it’s all a lie.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

If i had a lot of money, i wouldnt waste it on a c~~~, thats for damn sure.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I work directly for these kinds of men — millionaires and billionaires — and from what I’ve seen, Execration has it right:

Execration wrote:

I think they fall in Love and… Question nothing.

I see it every single day.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

WGTOM – I think, I’ll fit into your decription of being physically not attractive. I’m in my mid 40s, I do little to no exercise, am obese (round about 300 lbs.) and I started to go bald about 15 years ago. To round the picture, I’m smoking and have had bad teeth.
– This is what anyone will objectively see.

But, I am 6″6′, have blue eyes, blonde hair (and beard), have little body hair by nature and I’m pretty well “equipped” (that’s at least what women said). Besides that I do have a job, that goes pretty close to six figures – which will put me into the top 15% of employees where I live.
– This is just as true, as the statement above

I’m fully aware women will not fall head over heels for me for my looks, but I know women have been falling for me and still I get laid by women who know me for very limited time (If she doesn’t get on her knees on second date latest, she gets dumped). I’m not a PUA, usually I just don’t waste time on women, but I also don’t actively avoid them, neither do they scare me.

Would you like to spend time with a person of who you know, she is only interested in your looks? Where you know, all you have to offer, is the body she uses for her personal pleasure? A relation with someon, where you are fully aware, she will have to f~~~ any given beta, just to make ends meet? Or some orbiter just to have a decent talk?

Attractiveness is not made from a single factor, it is a combination of status, looks, wit, confidence, and probably a million other things.

So yes, a physically non-attractive man can still belive the woman at his side, even if she is much higher level of physically attractive, loves him. (And it is possible he is right, not likely, due to the nature of women, but possible).

On the other hand, attractivity of a woman is by more than 90% defined by her looks. If she is smart (and that is a big IF), she uses her looks to score an attractive but not overly handsome man.

look at any “chad” you may know. The very vast majority of them are not that good-looking either. Good bodies, but very commonly dumb as a brick, or tattooed, scars,… the typical “chad” is not a handsome man.

While very good-looking guys are often gay or as beta as can be (Brad Pitt, rings a bell? The poor chap had even a letter of his name taken by his ex – “Brangelina” – her name stays untouched, while he had to sacrifice the letter “d”).

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 42]

Men with money and status: What do they tell themselves?

I’m glad I’m not that guy! <as he points at any one of us tax slaves here in the basket of deplorables>

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

“Men with money and status: What do they tell themselves?”

They better tell themselves “Get a vasectomy. NOW.”

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6408]

all men have status and if your expenses are less than coins in pocket, you have money

[experiencedParticipant]

Perhaps the concern, at it’s core, is the fact that most of us view ourselves outward as though we were the trunk of a Christmas tree.

It is our: essence / our being / nobility / faith / humanity /etc.

Unfortunately, for the most part, this doesn’t mean s~~~ to women.

They want what’s “on” the tree:
“would he look good on my arm as an accessory”
“would I be wearing an unbelievably expensive dress that I couldn’t afford without him?”
“What home will HE of course provide?”
“what dick will he provide?”

This was excusable when they wanted “to nest” now they just want “the nest” without him once he’s been stripped.

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"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

WOTGM wrote:

Deep down, these men have to “know” why their hot wife is with them, had kids with them, and built a life with them. I wonder if they ever think to themselves “My life is a total lie” OR maybe they just don’t give a damn?

Why does it have to be deep down ?

For example, Don’t you think our POTUS knew EXACTLY WHY his wife dated and married him ??

Obviously, they both knew what they were getting out of the relationship/marriage.

The very wealthy can “afford” to play whatever love/relationship/marriage games they prefer.

I think this has ALWAYS been the order of things.

There’s this YOUNG lil HOTTY Spanish cupcake at the gym I go to. Like I said to a friend, the only thing separating me from her, and MANY others even HOTTER is several million dollars.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[narwhalParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

How do you go through life as this man, have children etc. KNOWING it is all a lie?

To me, it’s a waste of time thinking about such things. Maybe the dude found his unicorn, maybe he’s about to be screwed over. Doesn’t make a big difference to my life.

If it was someone I actually knew and cared about, not just fat rich guy married to hottie, and I could see other signs that things aren’t what they should be, then I would do something. Some random strangers? I don’t care.

Honestly, whenever I do start thinking that way, I find my thoughts are rooted in some sort of jealousy. Why does he get the girl? What does he look so happy? Why are women so hooked on money? The fact of the matter is that people don’t get what they deserve, me included. It’s just life. Deal with it and move on.

Ok. Then do it.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

“Men with money and status: What do they tell themselves?”
They better tell themselves “Get a vasectomy. NOW.”

LOL – OUCH!!- no way man. Money comes and goes. Royal Oats are forever.

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

The hottie on his arm is just a business tool. He knows it and chose her for it. He sees all the whores he wants. He has kids he loves, she looks after his kids, she loves them too. In some ways she say’s yes sir, in most ways she just avoids him. They have no real conversations aside from practical day to day. They likely both cook.

They both consider D when the timing is right. Some decide to stay, some decide to go. Their decision to stay or go is more about the rest of their social life than each other. They likely have separate bedrooms that are used either sometimes or all the time. Nothing is ever spoken, but it is understood.

The hottie can let a little fat creep on, spend less time in the gym, stay comparatively attractive but no longer have to sweat to hard for it. She has her circle of friends, many similar. They discuss it among themselves. He has his circle of friends, they never talk about this, but they all know it.

She pressures his career/business side to keep pushing and push harder and be tougher. Often this business push is useful.

She might get the occasional boytoy, he might even notice, but wont care.

In a way he is a slave, and he knows this, but he is a well paid slave. Plus can do what he wants, fly where he pleases, but mostly has to work 60/70 hours a week. But loves it mostly. Love of work is motivating.

A form of love is actually present, based on the mutual, often unsaid, realization, that they are indeed rubbing each others back, false as it is.

Some do get the D when the time is right. They let lawyers deal with it. They do this to experience a real life, or hope of experiencing it. Both can afford it.

Let the good times roll

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

Muglintar wrote:

Would you like to spend time with a person of who you know, she is only interested in your looks? Where you know, all you have to offer, is the body she uses for her personal pleasure? A relation with someon, where you are fully aware, she will have to f~~~ any given beta, just to make ends meet? Or some orbiter just to have a decent talk?

Attractiveness is not made from a single factor, it is a combination of status, looks, wit, confidence, and probably a million other things.

So yes, a physically non-attractive man can still belive the woman at his side, even if she is much higher level of physically attractive, loves him. (And it is possible he is right, not likely, due to the nature of women, but possible).

On the other hand, attractivity of a woman is by more than 90% defined by her looks. If she is smart (and that is a big IF), she uses her looks to score an attractive but not overly handsome man.

look at any “chad” you may know. The very vast majority of them are not that good-looking either. Good bodies, but very commonly dumb as a brick, or tattooed, scars,… the typical “chad” is not a handsome man.

While very good-looking guys are often gay or as beta as can be (Brad Pitt, rings a bell? The poor chap had even a letter of his name taken by his ex – “Brangelina” – her name stays untouched, while he had to sacrifice the letter “d”).

Men only care about a womans looks initially. If she turns out to be a total c~~~ (which most women are nowadays) the man won’t find her attractive anymore. If a woman wanted to see me based on the fact I was handsome, why would that bother me? She wants ME even if it’s only physical. When she f~~~s me, she is f~~~ing me because, well, she wants to f~~~ me. But when a woman f~~~s a guy for his money/status she is only f~~~ing him, well, for his money. Not exactly the same thing. The “f~~~ing” part from her end is only to attain some material object, or to attain some type of “impressive status” to impress her friends. You can’t really compare the 2 and say “they’re equally as bad”. Also, men who are initially attracted to women because of their beauty actually fall in love them quite often, where as women who marry guys with money could give 2 s~~~s about the guy 99% of the time and never develop any feelings of attachment/dedication etc. to him specifically. If you look at the situation objectively, you cannot deny that the way women operate is 10,000 times more shallow than the way men operate.

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

narwhal wrote:

WOTGM wrote:

How do you go through life as this man, have children etc. KNOWING it is all a lie?

To me, it’s a waste of time thinking about such things. Maybe the dude found his unicorn, maybe he’s about to be screwed over. Doesn’t make a big difference to my life.

If it was someone I actually knew and cared about, not just fat rich guy married to hottie, and I could see other signs that things aren’t what they should be, then I would do something. Some random strangers? I don’t care.

Honestly, whenever I do start thinking that way, I find my thoughts are rooted in some sort of jealousy. Why does he get the girl? What does he look so happy? Why are women so hooked on money? The fact of the matter is that people don’t get what they deserve, me included. It’s just life. Deal with it and move on.

I think “Jealousy” would imply that the guy was in a position that I myself would want to be in. I honestly would not ever want to be in that position so I don’t think jealousy is the right word. It’s more anger that things are the way they are. Disgust, perhaps. But not jealousy at all. What’s to be jealous of when you already know you’re better than that rich ugly dude with a hot wife? When you know she’s only with him because of money, it’s more a feeling of disgust. I agree that life is unfair I guess some people have a harder time coping with it than others. I could say with honesty the thing I’m “jealous” of is your ability to cope with life’s s~~~iness vs. the way I cope with it lol.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I always figured a lot of them knew the deal but just didn’t care. I mean…we all know that in general men want hot women and women want men with money. Is a trophy wife really any different than buying an expensive car? I’d even go as far to call it an even exchange if the women couldn’t divorce rape you on the way out the door.

[ApexScorpionParticipant 602]

experienced wrote:

It is our: essence / our being / nobility / faith / humanity /etc.

Unfortunately, for the most part, this doesn’t mean s~~~ to women.

They want what’s “on” the tree:
“would he look good on my arm as an accessory”

You’re right. They don’t really give a s~~~ about the intangibles at all.

And the part about being an accessory to a woman is something that’s not usually talked about.

Low self esteem woman usually do this. Bringing you to numerous functions with them to make them feel more important within her social circle. It usually wears off of her friends start to look down on you.

Sigh… So many pitfalls of dating, designed for you to fail.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

They tell themselves whatever they need to, to justify paying for something where if a woman really loved him would not cost anything.

But women are not capable of unconditional romantic love. And when a guy’s c~~~ is in her mouth, it is either because he met the terms and conditions required or because she just wants to f~~~.

And the guys that meet her terms & conditions are usually not the ones she wants to f~~~.

Beta Pays – Alpha Plays

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

WOTGM wrote:

Do these men realize their wife only married them and had kids with them because of their financial situation in life?

You’re assuming they’re married with kids.

It’s equally possibly that, being smart enough to acquire wealth and status, they are also smart enough to know better than to lose it to the women hanging on their shoulders.

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