member help:: HOW WOMEN assess your financial abilities:

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Members,
I am making a list of the ways women assess your financial alibility (usually when dating). This is the sexism that women use against men. Any thoughts?
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What do you do?
Where do you work?
Did you drive here?
Where is your car?
I like your coat, where did you get it?
Do you shop at Tiffany’s or any other high-end store?
Have you seen Hamilton? Where did you sit?

[Old BuckParticipant 3596]

They also look at the clothes you wear, any jewelry you may wear, how you speak, how you smell, any clues that might smell as money.

If she wants to date a thug, she wont boyfriend shop at Bed, Bath, & Beyond.

Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!

[GrumpyParticipant]

In short.
Outward appearances only, then they make up a fantasy world about you, and expectations that they desire you to fulfill.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[foolsgoldParticipant 5649]

Unfortunately, I know a dude that I used to play ball with that occasionally will rent a flashy car, wear an expensive suit,(he only owns one) and wear an expensive bracelet.(he only owns one). He never says that he is a retired pro ballplayer. He says he came from money.(which he did not). He goes to an expensive area 40 miles from where he lives and picks a lady up and bangs her for the weekend or night. It’s always at her place. He only does this maybe 4 times a year but he’s heading for trouble if he keeps this up. He has money but not near as much as these t~~~s think. He never gives them any hint of where he lives or works. He’s reasonably attractive and has money. I really hope he stops doing this.

[Anonymous 42]

Salutations, Tim! I thought you’d never ask!

When I’m on a cruise garbed in thousands of dollars of material wealth their attitudes are entirely different than when I’m garbed like a bum, like I am right now, I’m invisible!

I’m transporting gasoline from the gas station in 5 gallon cans to fill my emergence fuel tank which I purge once or twice a year. When I smell like fuel wearing work rags vs. wearing an expensive name three piece, the paper thin platinum and gold sports watch with matching onyx and gold with other rings, and smells like expensive cologne, they melt at my feet and become more than willing to roll around under the sheets!

Power does the same thing! Hold a position of authority and the panties start dropping down!

Things are far too superficial and shallow to trust your future or your wealth to one of these creatures!

They respond to a man’s hat, suit, and shoes, not his heart nor his good intentions, those don’t exist because they cannot comprehend that which they do not possess!

We are entirely different creatures with different motives and understandings.

All I can say is no, never again, I’m happy and I want to stay this way!

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Protip: If you dress like a college freshman who didn’t qualify for scholarships or grants and hasn’t purchased new clothes in at least 5 years, you are invisible.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Tim Patten wrote:

What do you do?
Where do you work?
Did you drive here?
Where is your car?
I like your coat, where did you get it?
Do you shop at Tiffany’s or any other high-end store?
Have you seen Hamilton? Where did you sit?

I remembered this gold article here:

20. – Transactional analysis: Every time somebody asks you a question, they want you to give them value, or they’re looking to sabotage you. Be mindful of the blur between curiosity and inquisition.

Machiavellian Maxims (Part 3)

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

Travel, places you’ve been to.

Have you ever been to Europe? Where do you go to in Florida? Have you ever been a cruise? What line, where did it go?

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

They respond to a man’s hat, suit, and shoes, not his heart …. they cannot comprehend that which they do not possess!

Right on Tower

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

01: College & type of degree

02: Current job (factoring in future advancement and/or promotion)

03: Willingness to proactively pay for all dates

04: Teeth (Yeah – Bad teeth equates to low socio economic status)

05: Wealth of parents (Indication of economic level and/or future inheritance)

06: Background: Including criminal record

07: House (Own or have a mortgage)

08: Any ex-wife (alimony) or prior kids (child support) – Which would result in distribution of current income to other areas rather than focus on current situation / pumpkin

09: Car, clothes, watch, etc and related

10: Speech patterns, general intelligence (But not so far on the spectrum that it is Asperger’s or indicates social awkwardness)

11: Type of employment. Level in job heirarchy and/or self employed professional

12: Assessment by type of credit card he uses (observed when he pays for dinner) – Is it a Credit One card or an AmEx Black [Also provides direct insight into credit score]

[narwhalParticipant]

Swimcat wrote:

Travel, places you’ve been to.

Have you ever been to Europe? Where do you go to in Florida? Have you ever been a cruise? What line, where did it go?

Kind of along the lines I was thinking. It’s not just how you much you have that they are gauging, but how easily you can be separated from it. If you a really nice old car, that shows you have money, won’t spend it just to get the latest thing, for example. If you spend your money on ‘guy things’, that doesn’t give her much confidence that you’ll avoid getting that whatever it is in order to take her on a weekend trip.

So I’d say yes, your willingness to travel, especially if it appears kind of frivolous in nature, is a possible indication that you can be separated from your wealth more easily.

Honestly, I think women would go for a guy who makes $50k and never says no to her over a guy making $100k and says nothing but no.

Ok. Then do it.

[SpleeferParticipant 959]

Since going Monk, one thing I don’t understand is why multiple married women have asked me these questions. Often in the open, with their husband in our conversation? Seemed odd to me, then it was a repeater so there’s gotta be a reason.

My guess is they have a crazy sister that needs a stable man, or they are looking to jump ship.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[Anonymous 42]

Sky-O wrote:

01: College & type of degree

02: Current job (factoring in future advancement and/or promotion)

03: Willingness to proactively pay for all dates

04: Teeth (Yeah – Bad teeth equates to low socio economic status)

05: Wealth of parents (Indication of economic level and/or future inheritance)

06: Background: Including criminal record

07: House (Own or have a mortgage)

08: Any ex-wife (alimony) or prior kids (child support) – Which would result in distribution of current income to other areas rather than focus on current situation / pumpkin

09: Car, clothes, watch, etc and related

10: Speech patterns, general intelligence (But not so far on the spectrum that it is Asperger’s or indicates social awkwardness)

11: Type of employment. Level in job heirarchy and/or self employed professional

12: Assessment by type of credit card he uses (observed when he pays for dinner) – Is it a Credit One card or an AmEx Black [Also provides direct insight into credit score]

The only thing Sky-O will jump out of faster than a plane is a relations~~~ about to crash!

MGTOW don’t crash’n’burn, we bailout!

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

“What do you do?”

A woman will “subtly” work what you do and whether you own your home into the first few minutes of conversation.

She doesn’t care — she’s only appraising your resource potential.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Spleefer wrote:

Since going Monk, one thing I don’t understand is why multiple married women have asked me these questions. Often in the open, with their husband in our conversation? Seemed odd to me, then it was a repeater so there’s gotta be a reason.

My guess is they have a crazy sister that needs a stable man, or they are looking to jump ship.

There are muliple reasons why, the two you cite are some of them.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Spleefer wrote:

Since going Monk, one thing I don’t understand is why multiple married women have asked me these questions.

I assume because, as a Monk-Mode Man, you are more of a Challenge to her.

If all Women (possibly apart from my mother) disappeared off The Earth, Life would be blissful and peaceful… And I really mean that, as a Monk-Mode Man myself.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

I mean, most of these shallow, see-through bitches will just straight up ask how much you make, no frills.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Yeah, sometimes. But sometimes they are sneaky.

When you give a vague answer (like where you work, not what your title is) they will often follow with a question like “oh, are you a manager?”

A guy should be watching out for this sneaky questioning. Which isn’t hard once you learn that women, directly or indirectly, always will sniff out your resources/status/ earning potential.

Once a guy’s been properly red pulled, it’s so obvious.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

They ask your mother or other family.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Handsome Vic wrote:

Yeah, sometimes. But sometimes they are sneaky.
When you give a vague answer (like where you work, not what your title is) they will often follow with a question like “oh, are you a manager?”
A guy should be watching out for this sneaky questioning. Which isn’t hard once you learn that women, directly or indirectly, always will sniff out your resources/status/ earning potential.
Once a guy’s been properly red pulled, it’s so obvious.

F~~~! This is why we need this website. I am really socially stupid and this tactic never occurred to me. When I say I work at a bank I always get this question from women! Never really thought about it before.

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