Marriage is a sentence for a crime you never committed

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

56 years on this earth – a total of 11 of them married. So I sentenced a third of my adult life unwittingly to involuntary servitude. I can never recapture those years – all I can do is make sure history does not repeat itself. The first “self imposed sentence” my main purpose was as a sperm donor and babysitter to a successful career woman. Round two I white knighted the single mother and was left physically. financially and emotionally destroyed. This forum is worth more than most of us will ever know. Through the voice of thousands came the clarity of mind I needed to unshackle myself from eternal misery. May the same gift of wisdom continue to help brothers in need near and far.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Round two I white knighted the single mother and was left physically. Financially and emotionally destroyed.

lol, you used to be an idiot and a cuck!

Truthseeker82 wrote:

all I can do is make sure history does not repeat itself.

but you’re much wiser now. Thanks for sharing your story.

Great post!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Don’t feel bad bro, I “dated” the same chick for about 8 years, most miserable I’ve ever been, then I found this site. Things are better now, no woman bitching about anything I do. I almost turned into a sperm donor/white knight, but deep down I have been MGTOW for most my life without ever knowing it, never could pull the “marriage trigger”. Congrats on your anniversary!

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

I was with my ex wife from 24 to 40 and we were married for 9 of those years. When I look back I realise how I wasted the best years of my life when I should have been out having fun and b~~~~ deep in as many women as possible.

I probably married her as I was worried I would never find anyone else, the irony is since being divorced I have been inundated with pussy.

Aside from Chads, most guys don’t hit their peak until 34/35 wish I had known this when I was younger.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[HitmanParticipant]

you can only go forward.
looking back is optional.
i do it sometimes too.
.it’s like driving a car,
we look forward most of the time,
but you have to check the mirrors.

[Anonymous 13]

54 years on this planet and was married for 27 of them, still am actually.
Im still trying to divorce the bitch.
I’m in a decent cosy apartment and I’m self sufficient but trying to divorce this bitch is beyond a joke!

Divorce is not quick or easy these days no matter what you hear people say. Half my life married or three quarters of my entire adult life wasted with a bitch who never gave a crap no matter what I did. And now nearly another two years trying to get divorced.

Thankfully, it wasn’t a complete waste of my life. I’ve got a beautiful 20 year old daughter at University and is studying a good science degree. She’s nothing like her dumb bitchy mother and is actually very much like me, into her cars and gadgets. She’s a hard worker. A real good soul. Thank God I was able to last until she was 18 and she had my influence through the marriage.

Luckily at 54 I’m in good shape too, same trim weight and health I had at 25 and I’m still very much interested in my life and hobbies. Things I want to do and places I want to go.

Just got to get finally divorced and get some money back together.

I’m looking forward to the rest of my life now, have a feeling the next, God willing, 30-40 years will be the best of my life.

Good luck Truthseeker, it’s not over until it’s over!

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Anonymous wrote:

54 years on this planet and was married for 27 of them, still am actually.
Im still trying to divorce the bitch.
I’m in a decent cosy apartment and I’m self sufficient but trying to divorce this bitch is beyond a joke!

Divorce is not quick or easy these days no matter what you hear people say. Half my life married or three quarters of my entire adult life wasted with a bitch who never gave a crap no matter what I did. And now nearly another two years trying to get divorced.

Thankfully, it wasn’t a complete waste of my life. I’ve got a beautiful 20 year old daughter at University and is studying a good science degree. She’s nothing like her dumb bitchy mother and is actually very much like me, into her cars and gadgets. She’s a hard worker. A real good soul. Thank God I was able to last until she was 18 and she had my influence through the marriage.

Luckily at 54 I’m in good shape too, same trim weight and health I had at 25 and I’m still very much interested in my life and hobbies. Things I want to do and places I want to go.

Just got to get finally divorced and get some money back together.

I’m looking forward to the rest of my life now, have a feeling the next, God willing, 30-40 years will be the best of my life.

Good luck Truthseeker, it’s not over until it’s over!

You said it! Every day counts after going through the grinder of marriage and surviving. You are fortunate to have a good relationship with your daughter. I believe wholeheartedly if men were able to play a stronger role in the lives of their children – especially girls – women would turn out far more tolerable to be around and respecting of men. Instead we have a growing brood of girls raised by single mothers, the result of Gina tingles and Chad, not a good combination. Here’s to better days ahead Spirit!

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

Thank God I was able to last until she was 18 and she had my influence through the marriage.

This is why I’m staying – my boys are five and I want to have as much influence as I can. I want to play with them outside doing fun stuff, not sitting on their fat ass like their mother does playing on her phone while the laundry piles up and crap is strewn about the house (note that we’ve agreed that the laundry is her job, and she cleans up the kitchen because she bitches about how I do it). When it’s a nice day, we need to be out running around, and then go to bed at a reasonable time so that we’re up early to start the day, not sleep in all day like their mother wants to do (she’d sleep all day if she could).

I’m not staying to save money (trust me, I’d be infinitely better off financially being single), nor am I staying for the sex (there literally is no sex, maybe once a year if she happens to have a few drinks in her). I stay to show my kids that Daddy is involved and doesn’t let little stuff bother me, unlike their mother, who goes nuts over stupid crap. It’s bad enough where I take them places by myself because I don’t want to hear her bitch about how I parked in the wrong spot, nor have her give them whatever they want so that they’ll leave her alone (parents are allowed to say “no”, and if the kids don’t like it, that’s tough). It’s bad enough where I look forward to her going places with her friends – I won’t bitch about the kids when she gets home, unlike her who makes sure to let me know how hard she had it sitting on her ass listening to the kids whine about something.

[Anonymous 13]

Crowbar wrote:

Thank God I was able to last until she was 18 and she had my influence through the marriage.

This is why I’m staying – my boys are five and I want to have as much influence as I can. I want to play with them outside doing fun stuff, not sitting on their fat ass like their mother does playing on her phone while the laundry piles up and crap is strewn about the house (note that we’ve agreed that the laundry is her job, and she cleans up the kitchen because she bitches about how I do it). When it’s a nice day, we need to be out running around, and then go to bed at a reasonable time so that we’re up early to start the day, not sleep in all day like their mother wants to do (she’d sleep all day if she could).

I’m not staying to save money (trust me, I’d be infinitely better off financially being single), nor am I staying for the sex (there literally is no sex, maybe once a year if she happens to have a few drinks in her). I stay to show my kids that Daddy is involved and doesn’t let little stuff bother me, unlike their mother, who goes nuts over stupid crap. It’s bad enough where I take them places by myself because I don’t want to hear her bitch about how I parked in the wrong spot, nor have her give them whatever they want so that they’ll leave her alone (parents are allowed to say “no”, and if the kids don’t like it, that’s tough). It’s bad enough where I look forward to her going places with her friends – I won’t bitch about the kids when she gets home, unlike her who makes sure to let me know how hard she had it sitting on her ass listening to the kids whine about something.

Good luck. I hope you get to stay with them as long as humanly possible. They’ll turn out better for it plus the memories you give them and yourself can never be taken away. They’ll remember Dad and everything they used to do together with you.

I went through sheer hell, particularly the last five years or so, and couldn’t do it again, but I’m glad I did it. I was with my daughter right until she went to University. Our relationship is great and she has a lifetime of memories of me being in the home and being her dad.

What is it with the little things and the s~~~ they moan and bitch about? Seriously, if we even just went to the supermarket and I didn’t park where she thought I should, or it was a bit further away than she would have liked, then it was ‘bitch bitch bitch’ at me and it wouldn’t stop until I literally had to tell her to f~~~ off. Stupid c~~~!

Of course then I’d be in the dog house all weekend over some stupid bitch session in a car park. At work all week, bitched at over weekends and if I dared to retaliate, dog house and silent treatment. Absolute c~~~.

Never. F~~~ing. Again.

[CuParticipant 1]

>Also, in your 50s…women are just gross.

this is so true and something that cannot be fully grasped until you actually experience it. Much like the red pill, it cannot be adequately explained to a younger man, it has to be experienced unfortunately. In my case (I’m 58) the natural dying down of the hormones, testosterone, etc., has been a revelation. A real WTF??!?!?! moment. When I look at women now I am simply amazed (and disgusted) at the stuff I did and the lengths I went to for pussy when I was younger. Now, at my age, the thought of “going down” on a woman about makes me want to puke. And to think I actually did that so many times as a young man (I never married, no kids, lots of “relations~~~s”, etc)

Men are just born with this biological curse, this addiction.

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