MGTOWMARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 00:22:04 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/page/351/#post-49746 <![CDATA[MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/page/351/#post-49746 Fri, 08 May 2015 17:54:53 +0000 Robert Hallam This post was triggered by a comment from Won’t Fool Me Again under a similar title.  It was his contention that almost any female would cheat on her husband if the circumstances presented themselves, and the woman in question (AWALT) confused boredom in her marriage with a lack of what the majority of women refer to as their “needs” (romance, emotional support, communication, sexual stimulation/satisfaction etc.).  I think Won’t Fool Me Again is absolutely right.   After reading dozens, if not hundreds of web pages devoted to this s~~~, it seems as though it is almost universal.  Blame the husband for her infidelity because he wasn’t living up to her expectations of a never ending-feeling-of-elation that every teenage girl gets when she has her first romance.  They claim the marriage has died, there is no more love, the sex is boring, he treats me like a roommate,  I may as well not be there, on and on.  In essence they didn’t expect the marriage to enter the hum-drum phase of normalcy, they thought they would for ever more be living in a fantasy.

Here is my question.  How many men out there have

a)  refused to forgive the wife’s infidelity and filed for divorce?

b) forgiven the wife’s infidelity and tried to save the marriage?

c) didn’t give a s~~~, and hoped she would take off with the other man?

The reason I ask this is because among all my reading, I notice that there are a lot of posts from supposed husbands who have forgiven their spouses, gone to counselling, and tried working on fixing their marriages.  All of which lead to a happy ending.  To me infidelity is a deal breaker and she would be out on her ear in five minutes the moment I found out.  So I am beginning to think that many of these Blue Pill husbands who say “Oh honey, you shouldn’t have done that.  I forgive you and I’ll changes to make myself better” are in actual fact Tolls, who post a bunch of bulls~~~ on their web pages to stimulate comment on their columns.  I can not think of any man that I know who would not tell the cheating wife to pack her bags and get the hell out.  Alternatively I would say “Great, you f~~~ed him once, you made your choice.”  Or hope and prey that she takes up with the other guy and finds out that she made a huge mistake and that the grass sure aint greener on the other side of the fence.

 

 

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49752 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49752 Fri, 08 May 2015 18:16:08 +0000 Keith I’m with you, infidelity is a deal breaker if you are in a relationship that is exclusive (such as marriage).  If you are dating and seeing other people, or if its a friends with benefits arrangement, there are no surprises because there is no expectation of exclusivity.

 

 

ONCE UPON A TIME there was a man who never found a wife and he lived happily ever after. The End.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49756 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49756 Fri, 08 May 2015 18:27:12 +0000 I agree. That’s one of many reasons I don’t even date. After reading all this material, how I am supposed to trust a woman to be loyal? It is just a matter of time until my hypothetical lawful “girlfriend” f~~~s another buck and then comes back with regrets. It’s disgusting, really. So, if a girlfriend cannot be loyal, am I supposed to MARRY one of these broads? And then get the blame for HER MISTAKES?

Nope, no, not me, not a chance, NO WAY.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49767 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49767 Fri, 08 May 2015 18:55:01 +0000 XSDBS
Anonymous wrote:

how I am supposed to trust a woman to be loyal?

Unfortunately, you can’t…

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49773 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49773 Fri, 08 May 2015 19:02:01 +0000 xgreenlanternox
XSDBS wrote:
BadKan wrote:

how I am supposed to trust a woman to be loyal?

Unfortunately, you can’t…

Agreed – women are nothing but “upgraders” – the will keep you around long enough until an opportunity to “upgrade” in their eyes comes along. You will then be left in the dust. Plain and simple.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49826 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49826 Fri, 08 May 2015 22:43:35 +0000 Russky I think I would forgive my ex wife for cheating on me (because of our daughter), but she never asked for forgiveness. But that’s fine and understood, and for the better. I knew it was coming, so it wasn’t even a surprize.

By the way, we went to a f~~~ing marriage councelor (before I knew she was cheating), and she was so bats~~~ crazy, that the councelor REFUSED to work with us (he’s like – yeah, try this other guy who could help) – I knew s~~~ was serious right away.

So I was out of country, checking our bank accounts – and I see that she was charging a card at restaurants multiple times – I was like – you didn’t go there by yourself – what’s going on? – nothing – work meetings. Then I log in to her F~~~book account (something I’ve never done before – and she’s flirting with two other guys from work via personal messages. I come back to the US, and she tells me she was fired from her job (AT&T store clerk) for sexual misconduct. I ask her what’s going on – she tried to explain it away by saying: “my boss asked me to hit on this other guy at work so he could fire him for sexual harrasment, but instead – he fired us both” – like I was supposed to believe that. And then I hang out with my friend and he tells me his GF told him that she was BRAGGING to her that she’s cheating on me with two other guys. I confronted her with this at home – and she’s like: “Sure, believe everything your drug-addicted friends tell you”. I threw her out of my house, she had a nerve to still live there, while dressing up as a slut, wait for her (now) husband to pick her up from my house to go to a club and make out in the car while he was parked right in front of my house? I swear I was about to hurt that son of the bitch midget really bad, but thanks God I didn’t.  And then after all of this – she had the nerve to come back to talk, and she says: “I am still not sure whom to pick to stay with – you, this other guy, or the other guy” – like if she was expecting I would try to convince her to stay with me. I said what I had to say- no, bitch, get the f~~~ out- I already made my choice – and you’re not in it.
She never feels sorry for anything she’s done. I expect after the relationship with her new husband is over (and it will be over, if my daughter’s observations hold truth), she might try to act like she made a mistake, but no, thanks, no – I am not taking her back

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49832 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49832 Fri, 08 May 2015 22:56:11 +0000 Grumpy Infidelity.

No forgiveness, gone faster than she could change a tampon

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49904 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49904 Sat, 09 May 2015 02:15:38 +0000 experienced Heard of a private investigator whose customer went back to his EX seven times. The last time by itself cost him $450,000.00.  It’s a no brainer really, zero tolerance.

The Bible gives a free pass to the guy cheated upon.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49963 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-49963 Sat, 09 May 2015 08:48:13 +0000 RoyDal I must be wired up for zero tolerance for infidelity, which is why I quit dating — one reason anyway.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-50564 <![CDATA[Reply To: MARRIAGE and INFIDELITY – QUESTION]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/marriage-and-infidelity-question/#post-50564 Sun, 10 May 2015 21:39:50 +0000 Mobyco Deal breaker.  Theres no going back and fixing that s~~~.

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