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How to light a beacon for men like him though, and why does it always take a direct hit just beside a man, or on him, before he notices the danger he’s in?
I know that in order for me to have finally seen the truth behind women, was by having that grenade finally blow up in my lap. I knew the pin was loose, it was a little dirty, but I still thought it was safe. But guess what it didn’t blow up my pride, and that’s what I’m taking with me. I just truly think most men have to go through it to truly understand, if they don’t find this site first, then they should be fine. Even then it doesn’t mean they want pick up that next grenade and play with it as well.
Well that happen because women almost never having any consequences for what her done.
I dont think this guy is a blue pill chump. I think by the way hes talking, like he has been subconsciously taking the red pill; and then all of a sudden he got a strait IV of the red pill to the consciousness.
Sounds like he is regretting his life pass by because of a cheating no good bitch.
This story brings 1 word or thought to mind.
MOTIVATION.
I think it should do that to everyone, and if not……….you are either settled because you are doing these things you want…or lost forever in the abyss of madness
Anonymous9What really set it off for me was finding p~~~ on the toilet seat.
But then she says it was from her nephew the night before. This is when she so-called moved up, and got her own apartment.
FOH.
MOTIVATION.
I think it should do that to everyone, and if not……….you are either settled because you are doing these things you want…or lost forever in the abyss of madness
I’ll be the first to tell you that it sure as heck motivated me. I’ve been on a real grind lately working hard and loving every minute of it. This is just adding more fuel to the fire. I used to think that going after wealth is a bad idea because every normal person around me suddenly was an expert on it if I ever brought it up. Somehow people who have never seen wealth in their entire life know everything about it, funny how that works.
All it would take is an innocent comment about how great it would be to be rich.
“Oh you wanna be like those people? They hate their lives, money doesn’t make you happy. You have to step on everyone’s heads and crush anyone beneath you if you even want a chance at it. That’s the kind of person you want to be? Blah blah blah… I’m scared of my own failure.”
They almost got to me, too. But you know what? no. Money is not evil – money is a TOOL. Those who have it have the freedom to choose what to do with it. It can be used for the wrong reasons, or it can be used for a lot of good.
As for me, I’m going to go as high as I can go. I’ll try to make as much money as I can, and I won’t feel an ounce of guilt about it. I’m going to give myself that freedom to enjoy what I want. Have some nice expensive toys, JUST BECAUSE I CAN. But I’ll give back, too. My dad is a vet, and I really have a soft-spot for them.
I encourage everyone to do whatever their heart desires. I believe that life has no real meaning. We have no real purpose, so why not go and do as much as we can? Make a million dollars if you can – make a BILLION.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson
Female behavior at it’s finest, they lie, cheat, then somehow “Justify” why they cheated. My Ex Wife cheated on me for a good 2 years right under my nose, and it was only until the last few months of our marriage i could see signs of infidelity. Other then that, the bitch should’ve got an academy award.
A Man knows, but 10 years….Holy f~~~ing s~~~, that’s insane.
What is true, is that Females always cheat down, It’s almost never a better looking guy, or a rich guy, hell it ain’t even a guy with a bigger c~~~. They just want that little girl princess attention some poor sap will give them, like their father did before they became a rebellious teenager who gets a belly ring to tell the world “I’m a rebel”.
My Ex Wife tried to Justify her Cheating, was because “I wasn’t there for her”. Which when i first heard it, knew that was bulls~~~, I worked a steady job, provided more then enough, also took her on trips, shopping, the whole 9 yards, I spent more time with her, then my own family, and friends. “Try again bitch”, is what I told her, and the guy she ended up cheating on me with (now married to Him) Looks uglier then sin, I’m no GQ model but I’m a fairly good lookin’ dude. No bragging. And when I finally saw what she was f~~~ing on the side I laughed My ass off.
Point is, Females enjoy on the side sex, they live for it. They get the f~~~ing jollies out of it, with no regret or guilt. because “it’s fun” and dangerous. That type of s~~~ makes a Female moist because it’s hidden, taboo, it’s wrong on so many levels that to them, the idea of getting caught drives them wild that they can’t contain themselves. I once heard about a Military wife brag to my buddy about how much she enjoyed f~~~ing guys on the side, and the excitement of her Husband not knowing.
You would’ve thought she was talking about climbing Everest, or searching the Congo for a new species of Animal. Just goes to show you how f~~~ed up and Sociopathic the female mind can be.
"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb
Affordable DNA testing has opened up a whole new barrel of monkeys! This is an old story. There are Egyptian scrolls that predate the written Bible chronicling such events, mostly because of the legal entanglements that arose. The Old Testament of the Bible itself has a famous account, more than one come to think on it. By the way, I personally have known a number of women who have gotten themselves knocked up outside of the sanctified bounds of holy matrimony. One actually bragged to me. Another had the wits to focus on men who had her husband’s general looks, eye, hair, etc. A GI I knew came home to find a baby not of his race awaiting him — no way to pass that one off as his, no DNA test required.
I thought I quoted HR Puffnstuff, apparently not, and no way to delete. He mentioned the awfulness of women at work and no relationship with his sister. No way to delete, oh well.
Sounds like me. I don’t want to look at a woman after a night working with them. It’s really affected my health. I’m going in for a some what risky angioplasty next Wednesday and I also have a feminist sister who I avoid. She’s really aggressive, my other sisters stay away from her and she’s accused me of molesting her when we were children. I looked her in the eyes and said “You are talking to me, you and I both know that didn’t happen.” She said, “It must have been a false memory.” I said, “No, It’s called a lie!”
I guess guys here didn’t get the memo, It’s now sexist to not permit your wife to have affairs. The Borg has spoken.
Anonymous9As a dude I don’t f~~~ around with married women.
I really live by that. There’s nothing to gain from it.
I’ve only been guilty of it once in my life. It was a former coworker who I f~~~ed; I remember her telling me she wasn’t married or involved with anyone.
She leaves her Facebook page up at work one day, and as I was getting ready to log on I see her profile pic – she has on a wedding dress, and her last name wasn’t the same as at work.
F~~~ing crazy man.
She’s the reason I don’t f~~~ with coworkers now, and never will because her attitude was always s~~~ty after we f~~~ed.
Anonymous5C~~~s are gonna c~~~. Hopefully he finds those red pills soon.
Wow this really hit home about the do something with your life thing and don’t just find a job to have income. Ever since high school I always feared being 30 and not having a daughter or a steady job, I am 27 now. After college I went to teach English in Europe and came back after a year and one reason being I wanted to work on getting a good job to adopt a daughter since I am getting close to 30. Here I am 2 years no closer to getting a daughter and still working the same job I came home to. I enjoy the job very much because it is at a school working in the classroom, but it isn’t a full on teacher so I don’t make as much. I am in the process of taking my tests to be an actual teacher, but now after reading this a part of me feels like I should go back to Europe. If I can’t be a teacher here I don’t want to have some other job where I am working strange hours and can’t enjoy my daughter. Also as much as I enjoy staying home a lot here at least in Europe I was teaching kids English in the developing world. I even planned on going to Japan for 3 years after Europe but because I would have been 29 when I was finished I didn’t want to come back and not have my own place or steady job or any kind of savings. Looking back now and seeing others I went to Europe with and they are still there or somewhere else while my age or even older I feel like I perhaps made a mistake. Both my care lease and phone are up in 2 years and I am thinking about just going back or something.
The way I think about it is that say there’s a guy who just loves fishing, “if he could” he would do it all day every day. The reason “if he could” is in parentheses is because he can, he was just told to believe he can’t. He chooses the “safe” choice in life – school, job, home, family, etc. Finally he gets close to retiring. He gets to retire at 65 and he’s 64. Drops dead of a heart attack.
He kept delaying the thing he loves most to follow the path other people sold him, and it’s considered the “safe” path, but the biggest lie is it isn’t safe at all. There is no security any more. Ask people about college and getting a job and they sound like f~~~ing ROBOTS. They don’t even respond differently at all! It’s like it was rehearsed or something.
“I hate college.”
“You can’t get a job without a degree these days!”
Every time, that’s what they’ll say. They don’t know anybody who tried without a degree, and they haven’t done it themselves. They have literally no experience directly or indirectly with people who choose the path without college, and yet there they are with no hesitation stating their opinion like it is a fact like good little doggies.
But back to the original point, you can’t put off the thing you want to do most for the future because your future is not guaranteed. Is it likely you’ll live to 65? Yes, it is, but it isn’t guaranteed. That guy at the beginning could have spent his life fishing at any time, but he fell for the trap. So why is it that people don’t cut out the 45-50 years of bulls~~~ and go right to the good part?
The funny part is people like that choose the safe career, but let’s say that guy chose to be a fisherman instead. If he really loved it that much he would be doing it all day long. He would probably get good enough at it to make a career out of that, and it would be something he loves every, single day. Some people don’t really have that passion for things like that example person does. In that case, the thing you can do to make money doesn’t have to be something you love, it can be something you just “like”. Mix that with something you have a natural affinity for and the possibilities are endless.
My post was very vague because I don’t know a lot about you, but I can get specific if you like. I’ve read a TON on this topic alone.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson
Anonymous5“Force a male child into the wild and out of the forest comes a leader- force him into the ocean and out comes a god”
– Edenshaw. Haida.
Yes please get specific as it will help. I do love my current job now, but the pay isn’t all that well. They should pay us more, But we do get a yearly raise and we got a 5% cost of living raise to, so when I get my new contract I hope it went up by a decent amount. If I could get an actual job as a teacher I would have the perfect schedule, make good money, an have the time off to afford to go to all the comic book conventions I want to as well as travel easily to places. At the same time I am missing Europe and want to go back. I talked to my host mom and host sisters and their friends today and it made me really miss that place. With it being summer I am seeing all the things they are doing on facebook and some of it was stuff I did when I was there and some is new stuff. At the same time there is also Japan which i originally wanted to go to, but if I do Japan I heard depending on what program I do I need to bring between $3,000-$5,000 to get buy just on the first month while if I go back to Europe that program only requires you bring money to spend on stuff you want since they pay you quicker and you live with a host family.
Another thing that just bothers me like I mentioned earlier is not having any type of savings and coming back to the US with no job in place. If I go to Japan I will make very good money so when I come back I will have a small savings on me however if I choose Europe which is the more likely choice since I already know people there I won’t have much since the pay there is not good by American standards, but by their standards it is very good pay. When I came back the first time I had around a little bit over $800 when I converted my money back and that was from trying to save for 6 months. What made it worse was I needed to buy a new gaming lap top since I didn’t use the power converter my first semester teaching there and it blew out my lap tops hard drive so there was $600 gone. Job wise I could easily get my current job back but as a sub. I know I could stay with one of my parents if I return, but being in my 30’s, living with my parents, and having no life savings and steady job makes me feel for them. Although when I was there I had people in my orientation group in their 30’s and when I met others at the big event they threw for all teachers there were people in their 40’s, 50’s, and even 60’s there. At least this time I will have more money saved up when I go back since I have a better job then I did before I left. I am going back to Europe next summer to visit them to decide if I want to go back or not the following year. For some reason the fact both my car and phone lease are up in 2 years as well as the student I am there to help for my job graduates feels like a sign lol.
Anonymous11The thing that struck me was that he blames himself for her behaviors a sign of very low self-esteem. No, Blue Pill Man, she chose to cheat you had nothing to do with it. You worked from 9 to 7 so do a lot of other people, and their wenches don’t cheat. You could have been Long Dong Silver, and she still would have cheated. Your wife is a cheating slut.
Learn from your experience. I’m sure you saw various discongruities from her during those 10 years and chose to ignore them. Since you’re a banker, you can afford a good private investigator and attorney to give her more shaft than she’s ever had in her life.
Poor bastard. Stupid for having made the mistake of marrying her in the first place, but still not fair.
And the bitch hung around for 10 f~~~ing years for the free meal ticket. That’s disgusting. Worst thing is, if he ends it he still pays: sounds like a successful guy and unfortunately he’s probably got a lot to lose.
I do feel for guys like that. Even though he’s just approaching the wringer I hope he comes out on the other side having done some of the things he wanted to do.
Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.
Changing him is exactly what girlfriends and wives set out to do. And then they BLAME you for it when you do.
And this guy probably had no idea it was even happening.
I agree with your post. But i dont get one point, that some Mgtowler doing wrong,
Of course women blame men. And they are right. Not from a moral point. This cheating bitch is a c~~~. But from an evolutionary point.
It written in their genes. They cant doing it in any other way. Women can say what men want to hear or imitate desired behaviour. But they cant never empathise
with men. Like you cant teach a monkey higher mathematics. Would anybody argue wih that?
Women are betazise men since 100000 years. Its in her genes. When women would NOT blame men, our species would never be that sucessful.
Its a good thing. Its a sucessful evolutionary programm. I bow from nature (not women) for implementing a perfect strategy in the human nature.
It took 100000 years and million of men connected via internet to solve this riddle. We are 24/7 surrounded by an evolutionary program nobody is
aware. Even the female carrier. Thats imposant.
The wise men accept the fact and plan their decisions around that knowledge, but dont arguing with that. Its only wasted energy.
When you discuss about womens right, equal payment and all the other crap, they throwing at us, nod your head, smile ant say “its soooo unfair
that women earn 23 percent less”. But dont argue. Keep your knowledge a secrret and do your plans without communicating.
All the arguing has one final hope: The deep inner (understandably) wish: NAWALT. But that day wont come. Like no ape will learn higher mathematics. So why bother.
So what is it that you actually are teaching? I know you teach English to people in other countries, but are you just teaching younger kids all the subjects or what?
The process of figuring out what to do can be pretty difficult and sometimes long – sometimes short. Really what it comes down to is taking a really unbiased look at your strengths and weaknesses. For example, I’m 6’2″ and lanky, so trying to be a pro powerlifter makes no sense whatsoever. It would be an uphill battle and most likely not happen. However, if I decided to train for boxing or sprinting where what I have been given gives me an advantage, I would have a much better shot at making that thing successful. Now the tricky part is finding something you like, and matching it up with something that gives you an advantage. Let’s say that you’re looking for something to do for your well-being, forget the career stuff for now. Let’s say you may have the body for boxing, but you hate it. Well that means the chances of you sticking to that long-term is not very good.
People will read an article that swimming is good for them, and they’ll try to build a workout regimen around it, but they don’t even enjoy it. Guess what, they give up and stop exercising. They don’t blame the fact they chose something they don’t like, they just say “exercise stinks”. They don’t even realize the mistake.
So, back to the example. You have the body for boxing but hate it – drop it. Keep looking for something else, train for what you are capable of realistically achieving while also making it something you will like. Don’t look at pictures of stocky powerlifters and want to look like them if you’re built like me, it makes no sense.
Now, this same exact logic applies the same way to your ability to gain income. Really look hard at what your strengths and weaknesses are. Here are some tips on how to do that:
-look at things you grew up around
-what do strangers compliment you on?
-what do you already have momentum in that you’ve been in the last 10 years?
-what can you talk about easily on a saturday night?I would look at you and say, if you answer yes to loving teaching, and you are here on this forum about MGTOW… ever think about doing that? I really encourage the entrepreneur thing, especially if you can self-motivate. Spend a lot of time thinking about your past, too. It turns out I actually like writing a lot, but I didn’t even know it until recently. I took my skill for it in school for granted. It was easy so I never even noticed it. It was just a class I was bored in, and never thought twice about. It never peaked my interest before because school can take a cool topic and make it really lame a lot of times.
One suggestion I would though, is that I don’t recommend just up and quitting everything your doing and try to do something else altogether immediately. Give yourself 18 months to transition. 18 months seems to be a realistic time-frame to have a good amount of change. Just keep yourself afloat financially with a job, and on the side think about this stuff, and think about what you could transition to. What kind of business you can start and how you can do it.
I can answer specific questions you may have after reading this. Also, you should really check out Tai Lopez. He has a program called the “67 steps” and it’s basically about how to do this the right way and give you the best chance possible. I’ve done the program myself and will attest to its usefulness, it has like 50 hours+ of video content alone. I believe it is $67 dollars and you get to be in this facebook group for it with a bunch of people who are very smart and not like the every day stubborn people you see day to day. It will probably come off as sort of gimmicky to try and hook you to buy it, but don’t let that scare you. It isn’t a get-rich quick thing, he know it is hard ass work and takes a lot of time and effort, but the payoff could be huge. Let me know if I can help in any other way.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson
F~~~ it, guys. If you aren’t doing what you enjoy today, you’re f~~~ing up. I’m not saying just get f~~~ed up every day because YOLO, but find something that looks interesting and master it for the hell of it. Do things that give you awesome experiences, don’t rot away until you’re asking yourself what happened to you like this poor guy. I know a lot of you have realized this already, which is why you’re here, but for those of you that haven’t… WAKE UP!
When I was done with the college thing, and got my first “real” job that actually paid well, I had my whole list of s~~~ I wanted to do with the extra income…get a house with a nice yard and a deck, so I could have a nice spot for the dog to run around, start a small garden and plant some fruit trees, and for cook outs with friends, have at least a 2 car garage and some toys to put in it, budget more money for traveling and vacations as that is one thing I regret passing over in my college years(well it was kinda worth it since I didn’t go into debt to do it), have a little extra pocket money just for going out to eat and doing things with friends or hobby spending, and on top of that ramp up my retirement savings so I can get the f~~~ out of the rat race hopefully by 55 at the latest.
It was insane how many female friends/relatives and blue piller men I know told me s~~~ like “Congrats on the new job! Now you can afford a wife!” Afford a wife? Its like I wasn’t worthy before…but now that my finances are solid I’m worthy of a prize(wife lol). F~~~ that. 20 years from now I don’t want to be like the guy in the article, and look back like wtf did I do with my life…man did I really f~~~ up. I’d much rather look back and think man the last 20 years was fun, now I’m going to retire and hopefully enjoy the next 30 before before my health starts to slide. I just can’t imagine how much it must suck being like this poor bastard knowing you wasted a good chunk of your life working while your “loving” wife was cheating on you, and now shes going to leave you and take a big chunk of the savings you wasted your life to accumulate. Its like getting bitch slapped from multiple angles and kicked in the nuts all at the same time.
I have adopted a rule for how I spend my overtime money. It all goes directly to my brokerage account and invested. At least if I hit a streak where I work a lot of OT, I’ll be able to watch my account grow and that extra money I earned today will allow me to retire earlier…its like trading a day of free time now for a month of free time in 20 years. That’s not too bad of a trade…but the poor bastard in this article…if I worked 60 hour weeks straight from my mid 20s to my mid 40s and didn’t have enough money stashed to be able to retire whenever I felt like it I’d probably become suicidal when I had the awakening he did.
Exactly, it blows my mind! They admit to everyone that the choice they make sucks! then they go and do it anyway just because they are supposed to. It’s the worst logic ever.
I’m not really smart with the finance stuff yet. I’ll read up on it eventually, but if I’m not mistaken, I think the average person saves only 1%-2% of their income per year – horrendous. I keep my strategy simple for right now since I don’t really make much money. I break my income into 1/3rds: one third I save, one third I reinvest in myself(through books, and other educational material), and one third is for fun. I just have to get into the habit of checking my account all the time and recording this stuff, so I know exactly how much money I have where.
Also, I know that you’re an older guy, and I guess things were a little different then. It was way more taboo to not try to get a secure job because it actually pretty secure at the time. You could tell me, though – that’s just my guess.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson
I’m only 31…but I think the thing with people’s saving rates is that “average” savings rate is a joke. People either save for retirement or they don’t. Its either a priority or its not. If you can consistently save 5k a year over the course of a 40 year working career and the market continues along with the same historic yearly average gains its had for the last century, you will easily retire a multi millionaire. If you can afford to save more than that…well that’s awesome…you can hit your retirement number sooner and spend a longer portion of your life being financially independent. When you read stuff about the average middle class 60 year old having maybe 700k in assets…just know that its total bulls~~~. Look at older people you know…what will you see? One guy is going to have a mortgage, a boat payment, a car payment, and minimal savings because he put minimal amounts away for retirement(probably just enough to get his 401k match) and raided his 401k/refinanced and pulled equity out of his house multiple times, and the next guy is going to have a paid off house, a paid off car, and way more than the “average” socked away in investments that are earning him passive income.
I never wanted a secure career because I felt pressure from society to strive for that…I wanted one because I viewed it as a stepping stone in acquiring the resources I need so that my other life goals could be realized. Some people would rather be self employed or do consulting work as they don’t like being tied down with a fixed schedule and having to clock hours every week like you do when working for someone else…there is no right or wrong answer…only what is right or wrong for you. Ultimately work is you selling your time…if you can sell your time for 20 dollars an hour that is not bad, but if you can do it for 30, 40, or even more an hour that is even better. If you can sell your time for 30 an hour but hate what you do, or sell it for 20 an hour but enjoy your job…again it only matters what is right for you. Work to live, don’t live to work, and especially don’t work to hand it over to some woman!
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