Male Bashing

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9566]

I dealt with this sort of thing all my life and still do. When I was a kid, the girls would talk s~~~ about me, give me dirty looks, and stick their hand in my face “talk to the hand, the ears don’t want to listen.” I see male bashing all the time in movies, shows, the Internet, literally everywhere. I never understand why people hate men so much, because we are more accomplished and goal set than anyone else.

My aunt on my dad’s side (who is collecting alimony and child support still from divorce at 10 years still) says that men are stupid. This is the same aunt to pokes fun of me because I have autism and act different.

And people want to know why I have a major hatred towards most people.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Male bashing is simple sour grapes. Women know they can never touch the accomplishments of even the lowest male so hate all things male. I take it as a compliment.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Anonymous 38]

I feel you man. That’s not a nice place to be.

What I would say to you is to stop seeking kindness, familiarity and acceptance in other people. You will simply not find it in most, and this is even more true if you’re on the spectrum.

You really have to go your own way all the way, this includes not needing any attention from others when you’re out and about. Not needing to explain, to be understood.

Because the world is full of c~~~s. And even otherwise nice people don’t have a lot of patience for autistic men.

I realise it may not be so simple for an autistic person to just adapt their behaviour like that. However, I do believe it’s possible.

You are able to learn skills, and thus, you can learn the skill of “being social”. But in this sense the skill you want to learn is not “being social”, it is becoming skilled at being independent of others. Work on staying in your own head, amusing yourself. You already know that most people cannot or will not respond favourably to what’s in your head, or your attempts at humour. So just don’t bother trying. Keep your thoughts for YOU.

It doesn’t make you nasty, it’s not ‘betraying your principles’. Trust me if you manage it, you’ll be a lot happier. And you owe that to yourself. You are the only person who can give it to yourself.

There are plenty of autistic men out there, even non-clinically autistic men but who otherwise have ‘flavours’. You will meet friends and accept yourself.

And go your own way from the 99%.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Male bashing is an acceptable form of discrimination in our liberal, gynocentric society. I choose to ignore the bulls~~~ and keep GMOW.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

I never understand why people hate men so much, because we are more accomplished and goal set than anyone else.

Most hatred is based in envy. People hate what they are jealous of… they want to BE the other they want to tear down.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3787]

Thanks, MGTaoist. I also needed to hear this.

I hear you, ResidentEvil.

To be honest, I love the person that I am. If I could choose I wouldn’t change a thing about myself. Except for my inability to not tell nosy people to mind their own business. I hate confrontation, I have better things to do with my f~~~ing daily energy. I do hate most people for THEIR inability to LEAVE ME BE.

It makes me think of my favourite dialog out of Idiocracy:

Joe: It’s a weird feeling being smarter than everyone. Not used to it.
Rita: Me neither. You think Einstein walked around thinking everyone was a bunch of dumbs~~~s ?
Joe: Yeah, I haven’t though of that.
Rita: Now you know why he built that bomb.

Classic.

Anyway, what were we talking about ?

I’ve been “taught” to be less shy throughout my life but I can’t do it that well. I embrace my autism now. If I feel like rocking, I do it (subtly in public, of course). I can’t stare at people in the eye, it feels like I get knives in my eyes. Unbearable. The only times I can appear social is when I’m acting. Really. It’s an act. I impersonate someone who’s social and comfortable and all, but it’s draining my energy like crazy.

Anyway, sorry for derailing your thread, ResidentEvil.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

The KEY is to stop listening. Or make fun of them. It more productive that way.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Anonymous 38]

SpiderHerder wrote:

To be honest, I love the person that I am. If I could choose I wouldn’t change a thing about myself.

There. That is it.

When I had this realisation about myself it knocked me for six, in terms of how obvious it was. I like myself, I enjoy the things I do, how I respond to things, my personality and temperament. But it is the RESPONSES OF C~~~S that make us believe otherwise.

What a trap! Glad you saw through it too bro.

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve been “taught” to be less shy throughout my life but I can’t do it that well. I embrace my autism now. If I feel like rocking, I do it (subtly in public, of course). I can’t stare at people in the eye, it feels like I get knives in my eyes. Unbearable. The only times I can appear social is when I’m acting. Really. It’s an act. I impersonate someone who’s social and comfortable and all, but it’s draining my energy like crazy.

It is the fate of all great souls to be alone.
~Schopenhauer

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3787]

Anonymous wrote:

SpiderHerder wrote:

To be honest, I love the person that I am. If I could choose I wouldn’t change a thing about myself.

There. That is it.
When I had this realisation about myself it knocked me for six, in terms of how obvious it was. I like myself, I enjoy the things I do, how I respond to things, my personality and temperament. But it is the RESPONSES OF C~~~S that make us believe otherwise.
What a trap! Glad you saw through it too bro.

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve been “taught” to be less shy throughout my life but I can’t do it that well. I embrace my autism now. If I feel like rocking, I do it (subtly in public, of course). I can’t stare at people in the eye, it feels like I get knives in my eyes. Unbearable. The only times I can appear social is when I’m acting. Really. It’s an act. I impersonate someone who’s social and comfortable and all, but it’s draining my energy like crazy.

It is the fate of all great souls to be alone.~Schopenhauer

Thanks so much again. I see through it but it’s hard not to be feel down after encounters with a-holes. But it’s already getting better with age and experience, so I suspect it’ll get even better. Congrats to you too, by the way.

And there you are quoting Schopenhauer: he’s one of my favourite philosophers.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Thanks for posting. I will come back to this one but thankful for the content.

I walking down the sidewalk just now. The Pin Up shop has a sign out front talking about how its a “female run business”

Who gives a s~~~? More double standard s~~~, you see it everyday.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5069]

SpiderHerder wrote:

MGTaoist wrote:

SpiderHerder wrote:

To be honest, I love the person that I am. If I could choose I wouldn’t change a thing about myself.

There. That is it.When I had this realisation about myself it knocked me for six, in terms of how obvious it was. I like myself, I enjoy the things I do, how I respond to things, my personality and temperament. But it is the RESPONSES OF C~~~S that make us believe otherwise.What a trap! Glad you saw through it too bro.

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve been “taught” to be less shy throughout my life but I can’t do it that well. I embrace my autism now. If I feel like rocking, I do it (subtly in public, of course). I can’t stare at people in the eye, it feels like I get knives in my eyes. Unbearable. The only times I can appear social is when I’m acting. Really. It’s an act. I impersonate someone who’s social and comfortable and all, but it’s draining my energy like crazy.

It is the fate of all great souls to be alone.~Schopenhauer

Thanks so much again. I see through it but it’s hard not to be feel down after encounters with a-holes. But it’s already getting better with age and experience, so I suspect it’ll get even better. Congrats to you too, by the way.
And there you are quoting Schopenhauer: he’s one of my favourite philosophers.

Do you know the reason(s) why you get some much negative attention(apart from the fact that most specimens are c~~~s)?

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5069]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Thanks for posting. I will come back to this one but thankful for the content.
I walking down the sidewalk just now. The Pin Up shop has a sign out front talking about how its a “female run business”
Who gives a s~~~? More double standard s~~~, you see it everyday.

Incredible. A Goose Nelson Mandela.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Thanks for posting. I will come back to this one but thankful for the content.
I walking down the sidewalk just now. The Pin Up shop has a sign out front talking about how its a “female run business”
Who gives a s~~~? More double standard s~~~, you see it everyday.

Just means the space will be available soon, so bid now!.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

It seems that in this day and age all the Dem candidates who are male are apologizing for it, most recently Biden. Except for Bernie. He’s the man.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3787]

Colin Combover in a Coma wrote:

Do you know the reason(s) why you get some much negative attention(apart from the fact that most specimens are c~~~s)?

Me ?

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