Lurker no more

[Anonymous 1]

I love the advice and commentary on this site, it’s like finding long lost brothers with whom I’ve never spoken. I was blue pill to the max throughout my 20’s; dated the same girl off and on for 8 years, started a business for her (which she promptly ran into the ground after we split), supported her in all the ways a “real man” is “supposed” to support a women… all to be abruptly burnt in flames in the end because she found someone who just “gets her”. Man, I dodged a bullet. Of course at the time I was crushed and thought there must be something wrong with me, but one day I woke up and thought, F*ck that noise; I have come to learn that what ensued is known as Red Pill Rage. I wasn’t just on a mission to not date, I was on a mission to humiliate women, the hotter the better. The hot chicks are the most insecure once you find a hole in the armor. I have to admit this isn’t a good way to live, and was immature and emotional on my part, but was also probably necessary in some ways. As time passed I had no more anger, I was just indifferent, and have remained so for the better part of a year. I look at these whipped dudes with a sense of pity and find a sad level of comical relief in the absurd worship of women. It’s hard to be open with people about my views because it always causes an argument and becomes exhausting after a while. Enter MGTOW. I discovered the site was blown away by the philosophies of the guys on here and how similar they were to my own, I thought I was alone. I read a post once about a chick who commented to a guy “that’s why you’re still single”, and I thought hell yes that happens to me all the time. The responses had me laughing at my desk. I lurked the forums for some time and then decided, for the benefit and support I’m extracting from these guys, I can at least pay a couple bucks a month and support the site and maybe contribute in some way myself. To all the Men who have been here before me, thanks for the time and advice, even though you didn’t know I was reading.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Welcome,
I’m glad you found the path to freedom.
enjoy the website and forums.
Cheers –

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 1]

Thank you. Btw, the BMW 3.0 inline 6 cylinder, smoothest engine ever manufactured!

[MurineesParticipant 704]

Anonymous wrote:

Of course at the time I was crushed and thought there must be something wrong with me

See? This is the difference between men and women. When things went wrong, men would examine himself and reflect. Most women would just blame others. You did no wrong, the only mistake was that we believed in the BS and got brain-washed.

Welcome!

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome.

Our only crime was believing the lie.

“We do what we’re told”

Nah, f~~~ that noise, it gets old.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome brother, you did dodge a bullet, when you truly think about avoiding all relationships with women is each a bullet dodged. Heck the one woman I have met in my 43 years that I would have considered a Unicorn once said there are no Unicorns and all women are crazy, even her.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[HitmanParticipant]

glad you found us here.
welcome !

[DocParticipant]

Welcome Wood.

I hear that a penny will remain upright on an idling 3.0 Straight 6.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 42]

Wood is Good.

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome.

Our only crime was believing the lie.

“We do what we’re told”

Nah, f~~~ that noise, it gets old.

So true, men need to unplug.

Wally wrote:

Welcome brother, you did dodge a bullet, when you truly think about avoiding all relationships with women is each a bullet dodged. Heck the one woman I have met in my 43 years that I would have considered a Unicorn once said there are no Unicorns and all women are crazy, even her.

Agreed, one is enough for me, I won’t temp fate!

Hitman wrote:

glad you found us here.
welcome !

Thanks, Hitman!

Doc wrote:

Welcome Wood.

I hear that a penny will remain upright on an idling 3.0 Straight 6.

Haha, wouldn’t surprise me. Don’t get me wrong, I like the growl of an American V8, but you have to give credit where credit is due, and the inline 6 is a beautiful engine.

[DocParticipant]

I totally agree. BMW make very good engines. M-Power is exceptional.

But make mine a Hemi if possible.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings W,

Appreciate your excellent introduction.

Your Red Pills and Lessons Learned are outstanding.

And your Bonafides are good.

Anonymous wrote:

Btw, the BMW 3.0 inline 6 cylinder, smoothest engine ever manufactured!

I like BMW too.

The love of my life was a BMW 1100GS motorcycle that I rode in my forties. It had the power and engineering to be stable at 110 MPH on the open road. The acceleration was addictive. And it was designed to handle sandy/ gravel trails which brought me safely to my cabin in the woods.
I took lots of motorcycle related classes and eventually became an instructor/ mechanic.

But for a maintenance free machine the rice burners are excellent.

I enjoyed the Honda Gold wing which is a fine low maintenance road bike that is ideal for long distance trips.

I was lucky to own some Toyota Pickup Trucks that were made in Japan (1980’s & 1990) with the 22RE engine. There is a man in Arizona with a million miles on his.

Anonymous wrote:

……I wasn’t just on a mission to not date,…..the hotter the better. The hot chicks are the most insecure once you find a hole in the armor. I have to admit this isn’t a good way to live, and was immature and emotional on my part, but was also probably necessary in some ways……..

Agreed.

I get it.

Here are a couple links to Posts that discussed what I did in the past and the lessons learned:

/forums/topic/having-a-stable-of-women/

/forums/topic/hard-earned-strategies-used-while-engaging-the-girlfriend-option/

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Wood. Enjoy your freedom.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 3]

Anonymous wrote:

indifferent, and have remained so for the better part of a year. I look at these whipped dudes with a sense of pity and find a sad level of comical relief in the absurd worship of women.

My feelings almost exactly. I fluctuate between pity & contempt for those who are deluded & remain trapped.

Anonymous wrote:

Our only crime was believing the lie.

this is what I believe also. I bought in bigtime to the White Knight, Good Guy, Hollywood ending to the American Dream. The result was madness & then homelessness. I continually develop & refine my MGTOW lifestyle. Its the best way to go. Welcome! appreciated your intro. enjoy your freedom. Thats what its all about. I come & go as I please. Stick with the winners. Stick with MGTOW

[Anonymous 1]

The Manipulated Man wrote:

I took lots of motorcycle related classes and eventually became an instructor/ mechanic.

That’s awesome, I’ve been tossing around the idea of buying a bike. I enjoy cars and try to do a couple track days a year, finances and time permitting, but sometimes I feel the acceleration and freedom of a bike calling my name.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I look at these whipped dudes with a sense of pity and find a sad level of comical relief in the absurd worship of women.

Welcome. Man a few short years ago I could have been one of those dudes you look at, a sad whipped puppy. In some ways I should probably send a thank you note to my ex, because without her I would never have started searching for another answer, and happened upon this group. I was angry and resentful at first too, looking for opportunities to get back at the “evil bitches”. But now, while still recognizing the f~~~ed up relations between men and women in this country, I feel calm about most of it now. I like my freedom and I won’t sell it for a pussy ever again.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 1]

Romulus wrote:

In some ways I should probably send a thank you note to my ex,

I know exactly what you mean.

Romulus wrote:

I like my freedom and I won’t sell it for a pussy ever again.

I couldn’t agree more. There’s something liberating about ZFG.

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Anonymous wrote:

… started a business for her (which she promptly ran into the ground after we split)…

This happened to a friend of mine.

He took out loan so she could start a business. They split. Business went bust. As it was him who took out the loan, he was left holding the can.

$20,000 since you ask.

[Anonymous 1]

Monk wrote:

He took out loan so she could start a business. They split. Business went bust. As it was him who took out the loan, he was left holding the can.

20,000 since you ask.

Brutal. I’m sure she offered to pay him back right???? (sarcasm) I was straight cash, not as much as your buddy but not too far off; I was such an idiot, but it was a tough lesson I learned from. The amazing part is the girl tried to reconcile with me about a year later. Their narcissism knows no bounds.

[Anonymous 18]

Anonymous wrote:

even though you didn’t know I was reading.

Oh, we know.

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