Location and meet-ups

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Is there a thread or other place where people talk about where they’re from and discuss meet ups? IF so, could someone please link me to it? (And I apologize if this is common knowledge, etc)

FYI, (edited). I’m contemplating moving at some point in the next year or two, but finances need to get straightened out first, and that’s not a sure thing.

I’m kinda antisocial but I’m CONTEMPLATING trying to make some new friends since I’ve grown apart from my female friends since I stopped acting like a simp…and my guy friends are either married and homebound or in the military and stationed elsewhere.

(edited to remove where I live, I guess it’s not a good idea to post it openly. Thanks everyone)

[Anonymous 6]

Tecumseh wrote:

Is there a thread or other place where people talk about where they’re from and discuss meet ups? IF so, could someone please link me to it? (And I apologize if this is common knowledge, etc)

FYI, I live in Oklahoma City. I travel a fair amount to northern New Mexico and Colorado. I’m contemplating moving at some point in the next year or two, but finances need to get straightened out first, and that’s not a sure thing.

I’m kinda antisocial but I’m CONTEMPLATING trying to make some new friends since I’ve grown apart from my female friends since I stopped acting like a simp…and my guy friends are either married and homebound or in the military and stationed elsewhere.

Slow down please. You are new. The people who populate these forums are naturally suspicious for reasons entirely their own.

Before you start asking these questions it’s important for you to be around on the forums for a period of time so that other members know that you’re legitimate. Not that you’re not legit, it’s so OTHERS will know that you are.

BTW, there are members on here who do meet up, but it’s done on a case by case basis and only after what I’ve described above happens. So now you know the deal, it’s up to you at this point.

[X11Spectator 4520]

^ he’s right.

[Anonymous 7]

Tecumseh wrote:

FYI, I live in Oklahoma City.

There is a weekend open web-chat.
It is via zoom.us. If you would like the link pm me.

Just a reminder, do not post the link to the forums.

Ooops. PM GregBo or PistolPete.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

My bad.

[Anonymous 6]

Careful Brother. That person has NOT been vetted, I would caution to NOT invite or even talk about that with anyone who we don’t have a fairly good idea about already from the forums. Just my 2 cents. It’s very easy to screw up our deal, but very hard to repair it if catch my drift.

[Anonymous 6]

Anonymous wrote:

Careful Brother. That person has NOT been vetted, I would caution to NOT invite or even talk about that with anyone who we don’t have a fairly good idea about already from the forums. Just my 2 cents. It’s very easy to screw up our deal, but very hard to repair it if catch my drift.

Careful Brother. That person has NOT been vetted, I would caution to NOT invite or even talk about that with anyone who we don’t have a fairly good idea about already from the forums. Just my 2 cents. It’s very easy to screw up our deal, but very hard to repair it if catch my drift.

[Anonymous 7]

Anonymous wrote:

Careful Brother. That person has NOT been vetted, I would caution to NOT invite or even talk about that with anyone who we don’t have a fairly good idea about already from the forums. Just my 2 cents. It’s very easy to screw up our deal, but very hard to repair it if catch my drift.

Understood. Again, my bad.

I got pinged by GB earlier and was just trying to help.
I am too new, lesson learned.

[Anonymous 6]

Anonymous wrote:

Travis3000 wrote:

Careful Brother. That person has NOT been vetted, I would caution to NOT invite or even talk about that with anyone who we don’t have a fairly good idea about already from the forums. Just my 2 cents. It’s very easy to screw up our deal, but very hard to repair it if catch my drift.

Understood. Again, my bad.

I got pinged by GB earlier and was just trying to help.
I am too new, lesson learned.

It’s okay. And to you Mr. Tec, we’re more than happy to help you out, once we get to know you a little better. We look forward to hearing more from you. By the way, it looks like you have posted in the past so it wouldn’t take too much for you to show us that you’re the MGTOW type! (All the rest of us where in your shoes at one point as well)

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Should I send you a link to my divorce decree? JK, you’re right i understand the concern about infiltrators. I knew i might get jumped on by someone (that’s why I stopped posting here before, but i’ve learned not to take it personally)

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

I’m only going to leave this link up for a minute because it’s got some personal info …it’s some standup comedy i did…i talk about my marriage just after the 6:00 mark…

Thanks again everyone

[Anonymous 6]

Tecumseh wrote:

Should I send you a link to my divorce decree? JK, you’re right i understand the concern about infiltrators. I knew i might get jumped on by someone (that’s why I stopped posting here before, but i’ve learned not to take it personally)

Hey you’ve already started posting, that’s a good thing. By the way it’s divorce that brings so many men here. You’ll find that we are a welcoming bunch so don’t worry too much about “getting jumped on.” Some of us do disagree here, but I’ve found that most to all of the members are a little less likely to come down on someone than in the past. Like I said earlier it’s not that you’re not legitimate, we just need to get a bit more familiar with you first.

Posting in the forums is the best way for you to do that. It won’t take long I can tell. I actually look forward to hearing more from you. You covered some ground with your last post I promise you.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Anyone in Atlanta tomorrow afternoon or St Louis tomorrow night – hit me up. I’ll be driving a car from ATL to MSP this weekend. We’ll drink a beer and eat a steak if you’re in my way

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Anonymous wrote:

Tecumseh wrote:

Should I send you a link to my divorce decree? JK, you’re right i understand the concern about infiltrators. I knew i might get jumped on by someone (that’s why I stopped posting here before, but i’ve learned not to take it personally)

Hey you’ve already started posting, that’s a good thing. By the way it’s divorce that brings so many men here. You’ll find that we are a welcoming bunch so don’t worry too much about “getting jumped on.” Some of us do disagree here, but I’ve found that most to all of the members are a little less likely to come down on someone than in the past. Like I said earlier it’s not that you’re not legitimate, we just need to get a bit more familiar with you first.

Posting in the forums is the best way for you to do that. It won’t take long I can tell. I actually look forward to hearing more from you. You covered some ground with your last post I promise you.

Totally understand…I was getting ahead of myself…thanks Travis…

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Well crap, I was only going to leave the video link up for a few minutes so the folks I was conversing with could check it out…but now the edit button is gone…I’m bad at the internet.

[Anonymous 6]

Tecumseh wrote:

Well crap, I was only going to leave the video link up for a few minutes so the folks I was conversing with could check it out…but now the edit button is gone…I’m bad at the internet.

I just messaged the guy who rums the website and told him what is going on, hopefully he will take that post down. His avatar name is Keymaster, that is important to remember.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Thanks…jeez, I’m making a damn mess today…on that note I think I’ll call it a night.

I’ll keep my posts simple for a while until i figure things out more.

[Anonymous 6]

Tecumseh wrote:

Thanks…jeez, I’m making a damn mess today…on that note I think I’ll call it a night.

I’ll keep my posts simple for a while until i figure things out more.

No worries! We’re men here, and unlike women we forgive each other!

[OldBillParticipant]

Tecumseh – It’s not as much a penis check as it is a personality check.

Keeping posting and keep replying until the members here get a good idea of who you are and what you’re about.

There are no conventions, no “We’ll be at X on Y at Z time, see you all there”, nothing like that. Physical meet-ups are rare and are arranged privately by the brothers in question. Sometimes they’re kind enough to tell us afterwards and most times they figure it isn’t worth the world knowing about – Never forget that anyone can lurk here and read any post.

While video conferencing occurs a bit more often, it is pretty much as “catch as catch can” affair. Again, no one is publicly announcing they’ll be chatting on a certain day at a certain time.

The point I’m trying to make is that there is very little formality here. There are no rankings, no secret handshakes, no inner circle, nothing that smacks whatsoever of a club, movement, or other type of organization.

What we do have here is a brotherhood. Men come and go as they please, speak what they please, and speak when they please. You’re judged, if that’s even the right word for it, by what you post, the experiences you share, and how you respond to others. Trust and respect are earned here, not granted.

Give yourself some time. It’s worth it.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FYI @tecumseh and others, a city name is inconsequential. We don’t ask for any personally identifiable names or phone numbers and there is not even a field for that. But there is a field for “city or country” for those who want to mention it – just for interest.

No biggie.

It’s quite good to mention it, so we know if English is their first language, or just to let others know what time zone you’re in. etc. MGTOW is international and worldwide, after all.

Some members use their full name as their display name, and we see that more and more. Otherwise mentioning “city or country” is fine if you use a made up display name. Thank you for being conscientious.

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