living with a woman in a foreign country

[BobbyParticipant 140]

For the past few years, my girlfriend moved to a foreign country for a job. About half the time I spent with her and travelled back and forth several times a year.

I’ve now realised how tiring and expensive that was. Things naturally have come to an end as her job has finished. I am now back living on my own.

I find it difficult to believe that all women can be as annoying as my girlfriend. I think my girlfriend must be a special case of woman that is ultra-annoying.

All the time I am with her she talks endlessly. She either rants about her job, fills up my time with tasks, constantly goes round in a loop talking about the same issues or gets angry and glares and rants at me. She is never happy and moans about my wonderful life and her awlful life. She is messy and never puts anything away or throws anything away. Her apartment is filled up with her mess on all the surfaces.

Tell me modern woman aren’t all like her? How can evolution design something so painful to be with?

The more I read mgtow content and I more time I spend with my girlfriend, the more I realise how true the facts mgtow is based on are true. Men should avoid like the plague all women that are in their mid-thirties and over.

I was in a cycle of living with my girlfriend and getting incredibly stressed out to the point I couldn’t take it anymore. Then I would move back home and destress. I would forget about the pain and maybe hope next time would be different. But the same events played out again.

Living a while in a foreign country wasn’t all bad. I think I have improved in certain areas and maybe the changes got my out of my previous “funk” or lack of purpose. But I somewhat regret all the money spent. Well maybe not really. I still have a reasonable amount of savings and I still have plenty of things to do.

Girlfriends just waste all your time. Even when you are not with them, you are bombarded by phone calls, texts and emails. They can ruin whole days and evenings when it takes several contacts to resolve their problems.

If you are running your own business, women are like a millstone around your neck. They wreck your peace of mind and destroy your free time.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

AWALT whether you are married to them, co-habitating or just in a relations~~~. Foreign or domestic, the pattern is the same as well. My ex-wife complained about her job, her bosses, her co-workers and her family non-stop. I couldn’t win either way. When I did the good husband thing and listened, she took it that I liked hearing the same stories over and over again so she would just keep talking. When I tried to steer the conversation in another direction, I was selfish and insensitive to her problems.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

I had around 10 significant relationships with GFs over the years and none of them were worth marrying. Feminism is part of a degradation in society, traditional gender roles are messed up and women no longer know their correct role – playing their correct role would actually make them happier. The system has promoted the feminist gynocentric paradigm as it creates more taxpayers and takes control from the mans authority in a functioning family unit and gives more control to the state. Now the state is primary partner – the controller and it states this in the legal aspect of the marriage CONtract. Avoid marriage, relationships and co-habitation or be at risk.

All sucessful societies in human history over 10s of thousands of years adhered to the wisdom of the structure – God – Man and Woman adhers to Gods law – in marriage Woman adheres to greater male intelligence.

In relation to their talking and complaining that is a whole other world of irrationality..

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Anonymous 12]

That is pretty standard woman behaviour Bobby. I have been with some very annoying and highly strung women.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Wait? She had months where she was living alone over there?

If she did, get tested for std, hiv, hep B, at least.

Becouse she got some dick and you know it.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Bobby wrote:

All the time I am with her she talks endlessly. She either rants about her job, fills up my time with tasks, constantly goes round in a loop talking about the same issues or gets angry and glares and rants at me. She is never happy and moans about my wonderful life and her awful life. She is messy and never puts anything away or throws anything away. Her apartment is filled up with her mess on all the surfaces.

That sums up every women I have ever met.
There are a few variances like cleanliness (initially), yet they have all ended up exactly like this.
I say that with a completely dispassionate view, based solely on my own experiences. Yet some “people” still dont understand my desire to be alone and non committal to a woman.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Yes that sounds like most women I know.

I too regret the time wasted overseas attached to a long distance gf. Time would have been better spent with my eyes open to the world around me.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[JVBParticipant]

Bobby wrote:

I find it difficult to believe that all women can be as annoying as my girlfriend. I think my girlfriend must be a special case of woman that is ultra-annoying.

Well bro you have two choices. Keep trying and find out you were correct the first time or GYOW and realize you were correct the first time.

Peace is > piece.

[HermitParticipant]

Bobby wrote:

All the time I am with her she talks endlessly. She either rants about her job, constantly goes round in a loop talking about the same issues or gets angry and glares and rants at me. She is never happy and moans about her awlful life.

This is what most all of them do. They bitch. They will never be happy. They will never be satisfied. There is always something that they will bitch about.

Go all the way back to the Garden of Eden. God let them have everything. Everything on Earth was theirs for the taking, except the one tree. Can you imagine being one of the only two people on the entire planet and it was all yours? You could have anything you want, except the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. It wasn’t enough for the woman. Why was she being denied this one thing? Why couldn’t she have it all including this fruit? She wanted it so she took it. Even the very first woman was not satisfied with having almost everything on earth. She would not be denied anything and she took the forbidden fruit, but it was not enough that she corrupted herself. She had to bring corruption down on the man as well. She tempted the man and brought him down along with her into sin.

I will never live with a woman again. Why the hell would anyone want to? What good can come from living with a woman? I found no good at all. It was constant misery. There was no joy in life, not until I got divorced and started living on my own again. Then came the joy and the happiness. Women = misery and despair – Solitude = peace and happiness

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[AttonParticipant]

Just get a doll Bobby.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 18]

Bobby – never treat women like a hobby.

They will destroy your self-image. Not necessarily on purpose.

Every simp has a very low opinion of himself. Because chasing and being with women reduces a man to a beast-like state. He gets caught up in low tier activities that consume his energy and time.

Instead rise above. Help men rise above.

Make men great again.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Christopher wrote:

I had around 10 significant relationships with GFs over the years and none of them were worth marrying. Feminism is part of a degradation in society, traditional gender roles are messed up and women no longer know their correct role – playing their correct role would actually make them happier. The system has promoted the feminist gynocentric paradigm as it creates more taxpayers and takes control from the mans authority in a functioning family unit and gives more control to the state. Now the state is primary partner – the controller and it states this in the legal aspect of the marriage CONtract. Avoid marriage, relationships and co-habitation or be at risk.

All sucessful societies in human history over 10s of thousands of years adhered to the wisdom of the structure – God – Man and Woman adhers to Gods law – in marriage Woman adheres to greater male intelligence.

In relation to their talking and complaining that is a whole other world of irrationality..
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Women genuinely believe that all their feelings amount to something. They really amount to s~~~.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Carnage wrote:

Becouse she got some dick and you know it.

RedTube and XVideos know her too !

[SolidParticipant 7520]

AWALT

Go your own way brother.
Search for a video from Big John called “forever miserable”.
They can’t be happy, and don’t even try to waste your time trying to make them happy.
They will drag you into their quicksand of depression and you will be able to escape only if you are very lucky.

[HermitParticipant]

Solid wrote:

AWALT

Go your own way brother.
Search for a video from Big John called “forever miserable”.
They can’t be happy, and don’t even try to waste your time trying to make them happy.
They will drag you into their quicksand of depression and you will be able to escape only if you are very lucky.

That’s exactly right. A man alone can be very happy and content with minimal effort and belongings. A woman seems to be unable to be content and always wanting more yet never satisfied no matter how much she gets. You spend time with a miserable person, which most all women are, and you will be miserable as well.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 38]

Women are a hindrance to almost everything. Their incessant emoting will keep you mired in low-consciousness bulls~~~, and you will get depressed. You will feel like there’s so much out there, so much you’re capable of, but you’re stuck with this childlike being, in an endless cycle of trivial crap.
Kissing goodbye to that takes real courage, I know. It’s going against your nature. But while life might feel a little empty at times, at least one has equilibrium and not that constant stress that comes with relations~~~s.

Hermit wrote:

That’s exactly right. A man alone can be very happy and content with minimal effort and belongings.

I agree that minimalism is very satisfying for men. I have thought about why this is. We’re being economical with our money and time which means more of both which brings us happiness. We’re leaving a smaller footprint on the earth. We’re kinder to the environment. And it means we’re better prepared for a rainy day / SHTF. It has a spiritual element to it. Give me room with a chair, log burner and a pile of books and I’m happy.

Women? Lol. They don’t give a s~~~ about the environment, not really. They only care about their material needs. Most women in a minimalist environment get very anxious/depressed. Probably because there’s so little within them they feel barren without external things.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Women are a hindrance to almost everything. Their incessant emoting will keep you mired in low-consciousness bulls~~~, and you will get depressed. You will feel like there’s so much out there, so much you’re capable of, but you’re stuck with this childlike being, in an endless cycle of trivial crap.
Kissing goodbye to that takes real courage, I know. It’s going against your nature. But while life might feel a little empty at times, at least one has equilibrium and not that constant stress that comes with relations~~~s.

It took no courage at all for me to get away from that s~~~. My marriage was over years before the actual divorce. I didn’t like the idea of leaving my son behind, but he was 17 and it worked out ok.

My life was empty when I was married. My life was a waste while living with a woman. Now, living alone, my life is no longer empty. My life is full of happiness, peace, joy and contentment. All I had to do was get away from that woman.

Right now, at this very moment, my main source of irritation is the voice of a woman coming down the hall into my office. She’s a super c~~~. I mean this bitch is one of the biggest c~~~s I’ve ever known. She lies, she deceives, she manipulates, causes more f~~~ing trouble than most women I’ve ever known. I can’t imagine how horrible it would be to actually be in a relationship with her. She makes my x seem not so bad at all. At least my x only caused problems mostly for me. This bitch causes problems for everyone she comes in contact with. She is the c~~~iest of c~~~s.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I agree that minimalism is very satisfying for men. I have thought about why this is. We’re being economical with our money and time which means more of both which brings us happiness. We’re leaving a smaller footprint on the earth. We’re kinder to the environment. And it means we’re better prepared for a rainy day / SHTF. It has a spiritual element to it. Give me room with a chair, log burner and a pile of books and I’m happy.

Women? Lol. They don’t give a s~~~ about the environment, not really. They only care about their material needs. Most women in a minimalist environment get very anxious/depressed. Probably because there’s so little within them they feel barren without external things.

I can’t stand to have something in my house that I don’t use at least once a month. If I don’t use it that often, I give it away or just throw it away. Years ago, I thought I wanted to be a gun collector, but now, I have 2, maybe 3 favorite guns that I enjoying shooting and I hate having the others that I don’t shoot just hanging there. They’re very nice guns, but because I might be overly practical, I want to sell them because if I’m not shooting them, to me they serve no purpose.

I like things simple. I’d rather have more emptiness in my house than belongings. My home may seem sparse to some. Maybe I’m the reverse of a hoarder. I can’t stand clutter.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

Hermit wrote:

I like things simple. I’d rather have more emptiness in my house than belongings. My home may seem sparse to some. Maybe I’m the reverse of a hoarder. I can’t stand clutter.

Space minus clutter equals peace.

I like big empty rooms with big white walls: it’s so peaceful. I totally understand your point of view.

But a feeling I’ve had recently about this is that minimalism is a journey. Decluttering gives me something to do, but I don’t know how I would feel if all the useless stuff (yeah, I still have some but don’t want to deal with idiots responding to “for sale” ads, so the things just remain there) just disappeared. Anyway, I hope I’m wrong about this.

My hobbies require a bunch of things, but at least they’re being useful in fulfilling my needs for tinkering with tech stuff and satisfying my engineer brain.

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Bobby wrote:

All the time I am with her she talks endlessly. She either rants about her job, fills up my time with tasks, constantly goes round in a loop talking about the same issues or gets angry and glares and rants at me. She is never happy and moans about my wonderful life and her awlful life.

Because in her mind, she is the centre of the universe – everything is about HER.

AWALT. Put up with it or avoid it – there’s no middle ground.

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