Life.

[HitmanParticipant]

greetings brother-men, i have seen lately several posts regarding death,suicide and wanting to see the world burn.
this is the free-thinking man’s site,so such honesty is to be applauded..
however,this is why i am starting this topic.
Life.
it can be tough,brutal,unfair,tedious,nerve-wracking..the list could go on and on..
a decision is made every moment in the subconscious mind.
the decision to live.
the decision to be happy,NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS,we decide to deal with it.
we must stand firm in our beliefs.
we must decide to endure.
………………………………………………………………………..As a man who has decided to go my own way,
i respect all of your rights to views, opinions..even if i disagree.
my opinion on life is that it is worth living.
i have faced dark hours of the soul wondering why i should continue..
i asked myself a question.
why , when a boat is sinking at sea will a man cling to a piece of wood for days not letting go ?
my answer was …HOPE.
he has hope and the will to live.
a fishing trawler could rescue him and he could be in the best whorehouse in Tokyo later that day !
he holds on because he has hope.
i want to encourage HOPE in all who read this.
look at our brother code-bunker , he rages on his projects and looks FORWARD .
look to our key master , this site he started and grew and grew..
look at a man like old bill, he can understand his surroundings and communicate with eloquence.
look to brother mgtower,the guy is a genius.
look to Jan. i live again , roy-dal..the list is 12.000 + !
look to all the men here who share their life stories with us ,i salute you all.
look at the men here who have endured courts, jails, lawyers,financial chaos..
and they didn’t lose HOPE.
……..i write this with the concern of a man for his brothers, to enCOURAGE as many as possible.
there are days i too would see the world burn and not want to p~~~ on it .
this is normal.
to remain in a state of despair over world events out of and beyond our control is not a way to be happy.
summary.
what makes you want to get up in the morning? ( besides the morning “wood ” ) hahaha..
what do you hold on to in the world that gives you HOPE ?

me? i always wanted to see what music would be 10 years from now.
what clothing , art , movies, books,cars, technology ..what will the world look like in say, 10 years ? ..
what keeps you going your own way ?
…………………………………..thanks for any feedback! cheers brothers !

[skiomanParticipant 62]

Thank you hitman

[RoyDalParticipant]

I am all in favor of life. I want my fellow man to be happy and fulfilled in all his endeavors (ditto women).

Happiness is something I cannot force on another. I feel privileged to achieve it for myself. It is a sensation which cannot be summoned up by aforethought. One can muse upon what happiness is and how to achieve it, but we all know it when it happens to us.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22574]

RoyDal wrote:

I am all in favor of life.

So, I am. I am all for living. I love living. But, that is not what I currently have.

There is a different between living and existing. And when society has denied you all the joys in life. Made it so that anything you work towards is denied. Any thing you acquire is stolen from you and given to those that hate you, and work to harm you. Where a single accusation, even if it is false can wreck what little of a life you have. What no one trusts you. Where you are denied friendships and activities, why that denied you such joys hypocritically enjoy those jobs themselves, and bill you for their pleasure. Where every seem action and statement is question by everyone.

That is not living. That is existing. And that is worse than existing in the state of being a slave.

It is like Peter Gibbons said in the film Office Space:

Peter Gibbons: You see Bob, it’s not that I’m lazy, it’s that I just don’t care.
Bob Slydell: Don’t… don’t care?
Peter Gibbons: It’s a problem of motivation, all right? Now if I work my ass off and Initech ships a few extra units, I don’t see another dime. So where’s the motivation? And here’s another thing, I have eight different bosses right now.
Bob Porter: Eight?
Peter Gibbons: Eight, Bob. So that means when I make a mistake, I have eight different people coming by to tell me about it. That’s my only real motivation is not to be hassled, that, and the fear of losing my job. But you know, Bob, that will only make someone work just hard enough not to get fired.

But, eventually, like Peter. Existing become a state that is so painful to deal with that to remain sane you have to stop worrying about anything. Not even being fired. And like Peter, we just start seeing how far riding this stranger torpedo will take us. Even though we know doing so will likely destroy us in the end.

And you do not do this because you want to. Not because you have too. But, you realize have nothing to lose. And you realize that no matter how this turns out, even if you are destroyed, you will be better off than you have been.

Now, most of us that have reached the point where we are not violent not for the sake of those around us, whom have harmed us. We are not violent for the sake of ourselves. Our very souls.

When we reach the point most of use have done a little research into death. And not into the killed aspects of death. No. But, spiritual aspect. Some of us took a hard look at reincarnation and karma. And we realize that if we killed ourselves now, we would likely end up being reborn as another human being, back in this society corrupt society, in a worse situation than before.

It can always be worse. It can never truly be better. But, it can always be worse.

So, we try to stick it out as best we can. While we know that it is obvious that all those whom have harmed us. The society that has harmed us. The civilization that has harmed us. Is collapsing. Slowly. But, collapsing. We do not have to do anything. And if we stick around, we still get to watch.

And it all becomes a question for us. A simple two part question. Do we stick around, and watch the world set itself on fire, while we watch from a roof, in a lawn chair, with a tub of popcorn in one hand and a can of soda in the other?

You do not want to consume alcohol in this situation. You want to savor every moment.

Or, do we off ourselves, to get a head of the billion plus long lines of souls that are coming into the afterlife?

Because, that is what it comes down too. Society has insured we have neither no past, and no future in this current existence. All we have is how we will end this existence and what type of closure we will have went we get to the end of this existence.

So, I am all in favor of living. What I am against is just existing.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Great words of wisdom Hitman. For me, I’m staying in the fight and will never lose hope for a better day. I refuse to let anyone rob me of hope, especially the sorry ass feminist bitches of this world. Good words you shared with us.

[UntamedParticipant]

I’ve always thought Life was worth living. Even as an abused child at home and in orphanages, every day was a gift to me. I love life for all the surprises it holds, the good as well as the bad. There is always a lesson to learn and Goodness to give and share with other human beings and always the strive to understand Creation and the awesomely wise and powerful Being who wonderfully orchestrated it all into being.
What is a topic about Life without mentioning the One who created it and sustains it?

“I am the resurrection and the life. The ones who believes in me will live, even though they die and whoever lives by believing in me will never die…” “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

Life is sacred to me. My own and that of others. It is a gift to cherish and protect and whoever hurts Life hurts the Creator and eventually himself.

I was beaten, shamed, raped, robbed of my livelihood and children, falsely accused of a crime I was the victim of to begin with, lied to, made a fool out of, ripped off and ridiculed, taken advantage of and treated like cow manure yet throughout it all my love for life kept growing thanks to the Hope and Faith that those events had a point, a reason.
They did.
They made me who I am today. They gave me the mettle to withstand and recognize all the bulls~~~ of a world gone mad and they lead me onto this path from which there is no turning back, the path of a Man going his own way, the Untamed way. Untamed to the world but servant to only one being, the One who gave me Life and the ONLY one who truly knows and loves me.

So do not fall into despair, brothers. No matter how chaotic life gets, it is like a river with it’s calm whispering brooks and it’s wild out-of-control rapids. Every rock has its purpose and every turn has its reason to be, even though it wasn’t understood when we were children. Now we know a river will follow the topography of the land and every being will follow it’s nature.
Have faith, brothers. Things are the way they are for a good reason, even if we, with our limited brain, do not know the meaning of it all.

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” ” Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Said Yeshuah-God.With.Us

There is no Peace aside from Him and no Life either.
THAT’s what keeps me going and it’s truly a godsend when faced with the evils of this world.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 6]

Untamed wrote:

There is no Peace aside from Him and no Life either.
THAT’s what keeps me going and it’s truly a godsend when faced with the evils of this world.

Damn that was one powerful post Untamed.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

@hitman

I agree with everything you said, except lumping in wanting to watch the world burn as an anti-life statement.

Respecting other’s opinions and letting things play out is letting the world burn. It is neither a good thing or a bad. It is what it is. Just because the world is burning doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have a plan. You are just letting nature take it’s course to cull the population. A reset of society. Once this happens it is every man for himself to a certain extent. The strong will survive and the weak will perish. Then from the ashes a society shall begin anew. Then when the society becomes easy and complacent again, the burning shall come again.

It’s a vicious cycle, but a cycle none the less. As MGTOW we have decided not to play the game. We walked away. While others fight over the carcass better men have left, we are creating out own way. Let them fight. Let them burn themselves out. When it’s all said and done, who will be left standing?

I say work the system now the best you can, but do not rely on it. Always have an out. When it collapses, shed no tears and build a brighter future.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[UntamedParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Untamed wrote:

There is no Peace aside from Him and no Life either.
THAT’s what keeps me going and it’s truly a godsend when faced with the evils of this world.

Damn that was one powerful post Untamed.

Thanks, Marty. I only hope it helps a brother take care of himself. Life is never easy but Faith and Hope are there to hold us up and help us keep going on our own way.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 0]

Good words everyone,
It is Code Bunker that says it continually; find out what your passion is and throw yourself into it. Here’s a saying among bikers “For some there is therapy, for others there is motorcycles.” And ” You never see motorcycles parked outside a shrink’s office” Good Luck.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Wanting or letting the world burn, doesn’t mean a man has forsaken his own life, nor his goals, it simply means, in my view, when the call for help is demanded, he will answer, “no”.

Life is indeed precious, just don’t sacrifice it for others.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

OK Hitman, since you brought it up:

When I was in high school, I seriously contemplated suicide. I can say now that the reason was a form of PTSD. I was tortured by my older brother my entire life. When I was 6 he chased me with a butcher knife. When I got into the house first and locked the door, he put his fist through a window to get in. Beat the living s~~~ out of me daily, making sure that I never had one ounce of confidence. Funny, he’s a really good guy now and we get along great, but he was a f~~~er growing up.

So, here’s the weird thing. He moves away to college my junior year and the torture is over. I’m fine, right? That’s when you realized just how f~~~ed up things are. That’s when you realize the permanent damage. My dad has enough guns to fight off ISIS on his own, and I used to sit on my bed with a loaded gun, thinking “f~~~ it”.

Two thoughts got me through it: The first was thinking about my mom coming home and finding her son’s brains splattered all over the wall. And the second was thinking “I can do this anytime. I don’t have to do it today. I can do it anytime I want to.” How bad are things really today? Can you really not just give it one more day. And then one more day. And then one more day….

So, like you said, HOPE that tomorrow is a better day. And they did get better, and they still do. Even going through a divorce and having someone threaten to commit perjury in front of a judge to get her way, it was never THAT bad.

It’s probably not the best coping mechanism ever created, but it worked for me. I still struggle with the difference between low self esteem and just being humble, but at least I can recognize the struggle.

All that said, I f~~~ing love life. And you are right, it comes down to hope.

I guess the best advice I can give someone is this. You’ve already been through hell, so why not stick around and see if there is a heaven?

Order the good wine

[HitmanParticipant]

my heartfelt thanks to all of tou !
i love you guys even though we never met.
we share something that only we have ..the women-folk just don’t understand ..
that said, i have no hate towards women, in fact i alternate between pity and a desire to inform rhaem..not save them as i used to think .
keep up all the great work.
thanks again !
hitman..

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Yes,
keep living you’ll find something you like sooner or later,
even if it’s something small like a palm tree.

Hell if all of you didn’t choose to live, who would i be left to talk to on this earth
women and manginas?
(not that i don’t enjoy being alone but a little variety is always welcome)

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