Letting Go of the Fantasy of Female Companionship

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

It’s hard for me to let go of my natural instinct to chase after women. The biological impulse to have sex haunts me daily. And meanwhile, the logical part of my mind warns me to make careful decisions about dating so I won’t mess up my future.

I live in a society that won’t allow me to “have” a wife. Therefore, I must let go of my fantasy—my vision of having a wonderful life with a female companion who loves me. It’s a fairy tale that’s been in my mind since I was a teenager. I know that I can’t tell anyone what to do because we’re all free to do what we want. That’s why many of my relationships didn’t last long. Sometimes I think to myself, “Why do I still care?” since I know this world is set up to steal whatever a man works to gain.

I think it’s best to hold onto my wallet, and plan my future carefully. The one thing I have control over is my mind. I’ve decided that I can’t have serious romantic relationships with women. Many of them can’t be taken seriously and lack empathy for others. Since taking the red pill, I’ve learned to judge women by their ACTIONS instead of what comes out of their mouths. And their actions tell me, LOUD AND CLEAR, that they are not capable of making intelligent decisions when it comes to long-term, committed relationships with men. If I’m going to date, I have to find women that will accept a “friends with benefits” situation. No relationship beyond that can be meaningful, as far as I’m concerned, because many women have unrealistic expectations for men.

I just can’t hang onto the idea that I can someday have a long term romantic relationship with a woman. I don’t see how it’s possible in this modern world. People are selfish. People change their minds. That’s the reality I’m faced with. In order for my life to be enjoyable, I’ll have to focus on other aspects, such as: my hobbies, my relationship with my family and friends, my education, my career goals, my investments, my vacations, etc.

“Someday you’ll find the right woman and you’ll be happy.” I’ve heard variations of this phrase many times from people who were older and wiser than me. But they don’t understand the heartache I’ve felt when the women I’ve dated got bored with me and rode off into the sunset with other men. It is a cruel thing for anyone to expect me to keep trying, hoping, and playing the fool for desirable women when the world is set up to despise men (like me) who are nice, kind-hearted, and reasonable. The assholes have always gotten the hottest, sweetest heifers in the herd and I’m convinced that it will always, always, ALWAYS be that way! Since I don’t feel comfortable being a jerk to women, I know I will lose the dating game over and over again. So again, I ask, “Why do I still care?” After all these years, I shouldn’t. But I still do. Even though this world is unjust, I believe that I should be living in a world of justice.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[ghostParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

The assholes have always gotten the hottest, sweetest heifers in the herd and I’m convinced that it will always, always, ALWAYS be that way!

Just let it be, brother. I sympathize with everything you’re going through. We will all be dead one day, so who cares.

[Anonymous 42]

Only the patriarchy had a system that a man could get a grip on wild monkey female nature. Gee, has it really been 25 years since the video “girls gone wild”?

A new video (girls gone insane) is long overdue!

[Anonymous 54]

Companionship.

There is the desire, and there is the reallity.

Long term, they make lousy companions.

Great adversarys, they’re into that.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Great adversarys, they’re into that.

This is a good point to remember.

[Anonymous 54]

I had an epiphany about female companionship last night.

Laughter.

I love haveing a woman around to laugh with.

I was watching a vidio called, I made a robot that serves me soup.
Chick was cracking me up.

I realized thats what I initaly likes about my bi polar ex.

I met her on her slightly manic side. ( didnt know what it was at the time)
We would laugh oure asses off. But it wasnt real.

One way or the other, the laughter stops, and the power srtuggle begins.

Thats not compamionship in my book.

Sad, but true.

[Anonymous 12]

I would assume it depends on what you mean by female companionship. If it is just sex than you have to wonder about so much, is she just doing it because she is trying to lure you in to a relationship, marriage, rape charges etc?

For me, I like the idea of it being a mutual form of connection and intimacy but I have found that sex for women is just a means of transaction.

So lets move onto the idea of a relationship. What do women really bring to the table in that respect? Again, is she genuine? What can she give me that I can’t do myself or rent for that matter? Am I expected to sit there and just be happy that a modern woman likes me enough to tolerate me?

For me there is just too damage, too much water under the bridge that has happened. Once the curtain has been lifted on women it’s hard to see them as beings you can trust and have genuine interactions with.

Also remember the arseholes may get the hottest heifers as you put it but the arseholes are also putting up with all of their s~~~ and in many cases paying for the fun of that years and years after the relationship/fun has ended.

[SMADParticipant 651]

Modern dating follows this metaphor:

You open a door to a room. In this room, there are thousands of boxes. In one, maybe two of those boxes is a diamond. In some others, lesser gems – rubies…sapphires…down to quartz and finally lumps of dirt.

In most boxes, however, are snakes and explosives. Some snakes are more venomous than others and some explosions are worse than others.

The contents of these boxes represent women.

Now – some guys will continue opening boxes to see whats inside, and continue to get bitten or have things blow up in their face. After a while, the venom and the explosions just aren’t worth it. Some men are literally killed by these events, some men survive and learn from those experiences (i.e. MGTOW)

For me, I have said goodbye to the “Box Room” and have walked away and closed the door. I look beyond the door to a wider world. I choose the path with the least “hills” so that I can see more clearly any hazards that may approach me. Every so often, a snake might wiggle out of its box and try to catch up with me. Other times, you walk along the path and overturn a pile of dirt to find what you think is a precious gem, only to find that its still just a polished turd.

If you wish to explore a box that may happen along your journey, just hope its not a Lemarchands Box…

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[UntamedParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

So again, I ask, “Why do I still care?” After all these years, I shouldn’t. But I still do.

That’s the misery of this whole gender war they started some decades ago. Young guys getting f~~~ed out of having a wife and a family of their own and other guys getting f~~~ed because they wanted a wife and a family of their own.
I understand it’s hard to come to the full realization of what feminism broke without falling into despair at the thought of never having a loving wife to share life with but it’s the reality of today and it isn’t going to change just because we want it to. In fact, it’s only going to go worse.
Everything is going to get from bad to worse.
Part of being a Man is to understand the environment you live in and act accordingly and the social environment feminism has created is simply not conductive to have a family. You can accept that and take care of your base urges intelligently and safely or keep banging your head against the wall for days and months and years asking useless questions like ” Oh why, why, WHY!!”
I got royally f~~~ed but I’m content with the life and the family I’ve had and at least I can say I have had a wife and do have children while young guys see their future devoid of all that thanks to feminism and its evildoers.
I suggest you do some introspection and try to understand yourself.
In the olden days, before feminism and its evils, marriage and children was the preferred path for a man because those things added to his quality of life but what would marriage and children add to your life today?? I’ll tell you: 0 , zilch , nada. Not only that, it’s more likely to destroy you completely.
When your mind errs to the thoughts of having lost something – that you haven’t even gotten in the first place – something you can’t even define since you’ve never lived it, ask yourself this: Do I really want what’s real out there or do I want something that my imagination makes perfect?
Your base instincts will play tricks on you and your imagination will help. That’s why we have guys in here forever waiting for their Unicorns.
Don’t be fooled or deluded, brother. The life you think you want doesn’t exist anymore. The woman you think you want doesn’t exist either.
Hold fast to reality and keep your head about you. It’s better to want and not have than have and not want it anymore when it’s too late and the government + Court + Bitch gang-rape comes your way.
If you need to f~~~, which I believe these existential questions emanate from, get a Lady and go at it.
If you live in a country where prostitution is illegal then get a f~~~ buddy or pump’n’dump or move out, because you’ll never cease to want to kick yourself in the ass when you find out that you latched onto a whore and made children simply because your biology dictated it.
A Man’s life is much more than getting a bitch and procreating rugrats. Sex and weemins are overrated and the media’s job is to make you salivate for that s~~~.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 18]

Few hundred thousand, if not few million years have gone into making you desire women.

It was the case with your ancestors. Before the male and female polarity. Even without the sexes, nature has enough life forms that reproduce asexually.

Keep the desire in you. If you try to kill it you will lose grip on reality and sanity.

Admire women, respect women, love women, but in the end do not bargain with women.

Red pill kills a man’s idealism. It is hard to offer a woman any of the positive aspects above because they act and behave in despicable manner.

To trust a woman is to be deceived.

The pain is the death of your inner mangina. The f~~~er is weak but can take years to die. Doesn’t help that society and women in general keep performing CPR on him to keep him alive.

Death to inner mangina is MGTOW 2.0.

We’ll get there one day brother. Hang on tight.

[SMADParticipant 651]

SMAD wrote:

Death to inner mangina is MGTOW 2.0.

The boy must die in order for the man to live.

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The pain is the death of your inner mangina. The f~~~er is weak but can take years to die. Doesn’t help that society and women in general keep performing CPR on him to keep him alive.

Death to inner mangina is MGTOW 2.0.

We’ll get there one day brother. Hang on tight.

Hanging by a thread some days.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Keep the desire in you. If you try to kill it you will lose grip on reality and sanity.

Admire women, respect women, love women, but in the end do not bargain with women.

I like this. I am going to think about this.
The Monk guys have their say, I like hearing this too.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

I have found it helpful to come to Peace with my Blue Side.

I don’t think that it’s possible to eliminate it, but I think that it’s VERY Realistic to MANAGE it with Red Pill Logic.

That Blue Pill s~~~ will pop in your head, and as long as you treat it like ANY OTHER FANTASY that you may have, and subdue it with Red Pill Logic then it can’t work against you.

When that Blue Pill S~~~ starts a Poppin in my head, I dissect it for what it is, remember the blue pill Simp that I USED to be, remember how important these LIES were to me, and then I LAUGH MY ASS OFF because NOW I KNOW THE TRUTH.

Then I MOVE ON, realizing that this s~~~ will come back, and I will be there even STRONGER Next time to BEAT IT THE F~~~ DOWN !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ghostParticipant]

I only need to be reminded of the day I was arrested and taken to jail. Why do I keep forgetting that? Why do I keep forgetting the hell I went through? I need to write everything down and plaster it over the walls in of my rooms. That way, I can just walk in there every time I think positively about women.

[Anonymous 54]

ghost wrote:

I only need to be reminded of the day I was arrested and taken to jail. Why do I keep forgetting that?

The power of pussy! I have worn the silver bracelets

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22516]

I put a lot of guys in the I dont trust them category as well.

No women, a lot of guys. It can be very disappointing when you think about it too long.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Gambit is starting to sound just like me.

That’s disturbing, in a bad but nice way.

Hahahaha.

Hey venom I think we have another alien down here.

Hahahaha

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

And about the sex thing, give it Time.

There is a moment where sex is Soo meaningless that you say “what for?”

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Gambit is starting to sound just like me.

That’s disturbing, in a bad but nice way.

It’s inevitable.

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