Let's Share Some Red flags

[WolfParticipant 890]

This chick should have a red flag tattooed on her forehead…

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=83180811

[peterfaParticipant 833]

This thread is just aggravating my PTSD like all hell. F~~~ en eh.

[DarthWParticipant 70]

Wolf wrote:

This chick should have a red flag tattooed on her forehead… http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=83180811

Her “Profession” as “Free Spirit” merely tells me “Unemployed” wherein my “financial stability” is required to pay her bills.

[BDParticipant 1146]

DarthW wrote:

“Free Spirit”

Lol reminds of the “Entrepreneur” chick that tried to get me to quit my career to follow her around in one of those pyramid schemes, watch out for those brain-dead broads!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Anonymous 13]

When she accuses you of beating your children.

Oh, too late, I should’ve seen the other red flags.

[felixParticipant 406]

Bright guy wrote:

She came out of a long term abusive relationship with some A-h#le.

That should be a serious wake up call.  Basically you are seeing your future when tells the next guy your the A-h#le.

I remember once I found this message on my machine that basically told me to “Stay Away From Her.  I’m a Cop. I’ve got a GUN and will f*cking KILL YOU!”

The funny thing is that I had no idea of who ‘HER’ was, or what the hell any of this was about.” 🙂   This woman had found some guy, wound him up like a twist toy, and launched him into the world like a mis-directed cruise missile with a malfunctioning GPS.  The poor guy has no idea he called the wrong number and essentially threatened to kill a total stranger.

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[felixParticipant 406]

Here is a SUPER BIG REDIE.   Your standing next to her when she decides to buy something and her credit card is declined.  THEN she starts looking through her wallet for a card that she thinks will pass… AND SHE HAS EIGHT OF THE DAMN THINGS.

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[BeerParticipant 11832]

felix wrote:

Here is a SUPER BIG REDIE. Your standing next to her when she decides to buy something and her credit card is declined. THEN she starts looking through her wallet for a card that she thinks will pass… AND SHE HAS EIGHT OF THE DAMN THINGS.

HAHAHAHA!  It could be worse…if she starts looking at you instead of for the next card!

[Terminus EstParticipant 145]

Excellent topic, thanks for posting.

Over the years I have worked out a few red flags that I always watch for, particularly if I am considering someone for long term relationship. I find that these are absolute must- observe rules.

 

Red Flag: She works in mental health. This includes counseling, mental health nursing and even social work. Do not be fooled into thinking that a higher degree such as psychiatry absolves her of this rule because she is of higher status. Mental health professionals are drawn to this work because it resonates with them because of personal history. Discretely spy out her family mental health history as well.

Red Flag: She flirts/dates/f~~~s you while still married/involved with someone else.  If she does this to someone else, she will in time do it to you. Don’t be naive and think that you’d be different. I have known a few quality but non single women whose attraction to me was noticeable but who scrupulously kept their distance only to suddenly pop up like a cork some time later when their relationship was concluded. These are the ones you want. Run from the others.

Red Flag: She has a pseudo career such as bicycle mechanic, yoga instructor, dog walker, wedding decorator, interior designer or any such nonsense that proves she has never grown up or applied herself.  You are looking at dating a parasite that will magically become unemployed exactly three months after she gets you to marry her.

Red Flag: She asks about “what you do” as soon as she meets you. She criticizes your car, clothes, etc. This woman is a parasite. She is shopping, not dating. Instead of bragging about your assets, learn to downplay them or even lie about their existence. The women I got along with best were the rare breed who simply liked me from the start and shared in my early financial trials with a light heart. You have nothing to lose on this rule.

Red Flag: She hates her father. She is a third generation feminist or thinks she is. She has friends who view you with suspicion for being male. You may as well be dating a girl member of ISIS for all the peace you’ll have in your relationship.

Red Flag: She constantly makes you prove your worth to her and you are always on your toes or on hot coals around her, terrified of doing something wrong. Good relationships are actually easy. They flow naturally with no one stressing the other out (this includes you).  It should be fun and not a drama fest. If everything always seems like a battle and you are always fighting uphill, leave.

Red Flag: She wants to change you. She almost immediately begins trying to alter your dress, politics, employment, school major, diet, etc. This woman is not looking for love, she is trying to assemble a host. Reasonable: Honey how about the nice brown leather shoes, since we are going to the symphony. Unreasonable: Let me take you shopping. You are the sum of all you are so if she’s trying to change those, she isn’t into who you are and that spells trouble. A good woman may not comprehend your WW2 reenacting but will enjoy that it makes you happy.

Red Flag: She is disrespectful. In public or in private. Acceptable bitch test: the girl who good-naturedley ribbed me about my trouble remembering how to tie a bowline, despite having been in the navy. This served as a flirting opportunity and was fun. Unacceptable: the woman next to me in a bar a few months back who was on a date but started chatting with me, even insisting that I have some of the chicken wings her date bought. I declined. This type of bitch test is simply rude and disrespectful. Props to her date for winning the bitch test by ignoring her disrespect and talking to some guys instead. He should have left though.

Peace my brothers!

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

<span style=”font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”>”Red Flag: She wants to change you. She almost immediately begins trying to alter your dress, politics, employment, school major, diet, etc. This woman is not looking for love, she is trying to assemble a host. </span><em style=”box-sizing: border-box; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”>Reasonable<span style=”font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”>: Honey how about the nice brown leather shoes, since we are going to the symphony. </span><em style=”box-sizing: border-box; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”>Unreasonable<span style=”font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”>: Let me take you shopping. You are the sum of all you are so if she’s trying to change those, she isn’t into who you are and that spells trouble. A good woman may not comprehend your WW2 reenacting but will enjoy that it makes you happy.”</span>

 

had to dump a hot ex willing to f~~~ me, but before she did, she heaped this stinking steaming pile of abuse over a period of about 6-8 months, until i could not put up with it anymore.  I was about to bang her for the first time, and it all came flooding back.  every single nasty bitchy s~~~ty c~~~y thing that a controlling bitch of a woman could say came roaring back, and it murdered my affection and my boner for the sex she wanted.

 

I dumped her ass on the curb a week later.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[neoidealistParticipant 0]

When she has her friends follow you around.

idk what that mean but cant say it ended well lol.

 

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

I feel like everyone has expressed the most important red flags. I guess one I can throw out, even though it’s basically NAWALT. When she says that she is cool with something that you love, and loves them herself. I have stated this elsewhere so sorry for the repetition. I love video games, she stated in the beginning she does too. We played lots of old school games, especially Mario bros. Then a couple of years in, the SNES starts collecting dust, I asked her why we don’t play anymore, she’s like “I just think it’s childish” So this is while I’m playing some Halo on the 360, she’s like you waste to much money on games and it’s a waste of time’ Fast forward a few more years, and now she’s like why don’t you play games as much, you don’t do the things that you love anymore.

 

[BDParticipant 1146]

Gunslinger wrote:

“I just think it’s childish”

The change of character can usually be attributed to her acquiring the values of the friends that she has been hanging around,

I am going to guess that she is submissive in friend circles and really ignores her own self interests to impress her friends/or co-workers.

It is not an excuse, but I literally went through the exact same situation. She acquired new friends, and then…

She told me to “grow up and that we were adults and shouldn’t be playing video games any more”, I straight up told her “F~~~ off, nobody tells me how or what I should or shouldn’t be doing”

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[EndwatcherParticipant 81]

She has a vagina, thats a red flag

 

She constantly trys “fixing” you when there isnt nothing to “fix” but refuses to examine the fact she has done the dishes, cleaned the clothes or made the bed in weeks…red flag

 

Has kids with another guy….red flag

 

Can only hold a job for less than 6 mths…red flag.

 

 

[YAZParticipant 140]

Red flag:

 

She’s been divorced more than once.

S~~~ man, one divorce in my lifetime is more than enough.

 

 

 

 

Whore Magnet

[UmbreonParticipant 152]

Red flag: she’s talking about her “f~~~ed up” ex for long stretches, especially early in the relationship.
She’s not over him. Also, she has poor taste in men and possibly STDs, especially if he was a druggie.

Red flag: All or nearly all of her friends are female.
Expect the common breeder wildebeest who feels entitled to everything and has her echo chamber tell her how right she is and that she can do no wrong. Any “nice girl” act will drop as soon as she thinks she owns you and she will gain 50 pounds. Alternatively, she has secret guy friends who aren’t really just friends. F~~~ buddies aren’t friends, so in her mind, it’s not a lie.

Red Flag: She has guy friends and won’t let you meet them.
When she says she has guy friends then refuses to let you meet them it’s clear she doesn’t want you to know them for a reason. Double warning if she met them in a bar, club, or other hook-up scene.

Red flag: Her eyes are neon blue, wolf-like gold, or “stop light” amber and it’s not contact lenses.
This is an AIDS symptom. Full blown AIDS can destroy the cells that color the eyes leading to unusual eye colors. Run for the hills and warn your friends.

Red Flag: She’s sweet, compliant, and very interested in marriage.
The huge warning is the “marriage” thing. She’s getting you on the hook so she can bleed you dry. The “perfect girl” act will end as soon as she’s knocked up or the marriage papers are signed, whichever first. This is especially true if most/all of her friends are female: they share plans and encourage each other in secret.

Red flag: she openly wants kids and coos at children
She doesn’t give a hoot what you think: she will get pregnant with or without you and make you pay for it. Condoms get sabotaged. The lube gets oil in it. That depo shot is actually a vitamin shot. The birth control is tic-tacs. If she can’t find another way, she’s f~~~ing some guy she met on the bus and she thinks you’ll never know as “all her friends are girls”. Breeders are always the worst.

Red Flag: She bathes 2-3 times a day and/or talks about how “clean” she is.
She’s a skank and terrified of getting tested as she knows she probably has STDs so she bathes compulsively instead. Get yourself tested, guys, and get her tested, too, if you want to hit that. Around 80% of the time STD infected people don’t show symptoms.

Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

Red Flag: She’s sweet, compliant, and very interested in marriage. The huge warning is the “marriage” thing. She’s getting you on the hook so she can bleed you dry. The “perfect girl” act will end as soon as she’s knocked up or the marriage papers are signed, whichever first. This is especially true if most/all of her friends are female: they share plans and encourage each other in secret.

 

Had an ex once try to withold pussy unless i married her.  met her at a friends party recently after the breakup, said exactly one word to the greedy little c~~~.  “hello” and then completely ignored her existence for the rest of the party.  Felt so f~~~ing good to do it! >:D

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[HashParticipant 21]

How she treats/talks about her dad is a big red flag.

This example stands out: Her dad’s a retired army pilot and a high ranking officer. She was used to him being away all the time and only coming home for short periods. As he retired with s~~~ ton of money saved over the years she now finds his constant presence irritating and complained to me all the time. She lived off his money her entire life and still likely does yet she can’t even tolerate his presence.

I ignored that red flag because she had a damn fine ass…

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

xgreenlanternox wrote:

Eyeswideopen wrote:

4.) “We don’t fight enough” – (I am a extremely relaxed personality.)

That’s not a red flag – that’s a mental patient.

That’s f~~~ed up wouldnt less fighting mean happier relationship? I would f~~~ing run away as fast as A harr being chased by a wolf

[techadmParticipant 59]

When that being that lives with you bleeds for five days and doesn’t die…

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