"Let me check with the wife"

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

You’ve got to let these guys go. Sit them down over a pint and tell them the following:

“Brother, I’m going to tell you the truth. I think you’re making a huge mistake with this woman… hell, ANY woman… and I can’t sit here and support you while you give her the power to destroy you.

So I’m going to let you go do what you feel you need to do. She’d make you stop hanging out with me eventually anyway, so I’m just calling the shot now myself. You’re on your own from here on out. Godspeed and good luck.

Just remember, though, that when you get through the other side of that meat grinder, I’ll be here for you. You’ll have my couch, my beer and my empathy and I’ll help you get your s~~~ straight and your life back together. Until then.”

Then pay the tab and walk.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

A while back I was telling my sister how I was going to hop on a train to visit some friends. It’s like a 1 hour drive each way. My brother in law JUMPED on the opportunity and offered to drive me there; obviously just so he could get out of the house. He did a 2 hour round trip drive on a week night, just so he could get out of the house. I guess my sister is that nagging to him.

Resident cynic.

[AussieParticipant 2509]

It’s even worse when it comes to spending money.

There is a great shop near here that sells high end power tools and other nice toys.
Above the cash register there is a sign that says:

“It’s Ok, we asked your wife and she said you could buy it !”

" I feel threatened "

[AussieParticipant 2509]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Oh man, that reminds me of a buddy of mine, everytime I call and ask to come over, he always checks with his girlfriend.

That was me in my first marriage, aboslute s~~~ty life.

Now, in my second life I simply say I feel like doing something and it’s no issue:

Me: “I think I want to spend a week smoking weed in Amsterdam and visit a few heavy metal festivals in Europe ”

Her: “OK sweety, do you want me to find you a good airfare? Do you need some money? ”

I paid my dues now I have it pretty good.

" I feel threatened "

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

black_knight wrote:

LionOnTheLoose wrote:

Women seem to have this awful contradictory mind where they secretly hate the things they claim to want, and want the things they hate.

There’s a neat nugget of truth. If only this could be packaged as a little red pill and dispensed to young boys. It takes men nigh on 30, perhaps 40 years to understand this fundamental principle in its entirety.

Thanks a lot, maybe one day I’ll start selling MGTOW merch with a few quotes on like this! 😀

Aussie wrote:

It’s even worse when it comes to spending money.

There is a great shop near here that sells high end power tools and other nice toys.
Above the cash register there is a sign that says:

“It’s Ok, we asked your wife and she said you could buy it !”

I laughed so much at this–brilliant!!

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

surfdude12 wrote:

Just this weekend a friend goes “let me check with the BOSS”

He couldn’t meet up.

Why? His daughter is having sleep over with 2 friends

His wife is there

But said she needs him & he can’t leave

W….T….F

That is standard – friends must be removed from the equation. Can’t have him having fun when she isn’t around

I have put up countless stories about this on here

number 1 is faking an interest in something he does with his mates. She goes with him until the mate(s) lose interest in asking him to go….then she stops going. All he has at the end of it is her which is exactly what she wants

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Whenever I hear “Let me check with the wife”, I also hear in my head “Because my b~~~~ dropped off and my wife might know where they rolled to”.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

No matter how my life goes, that is one phrase I will NEVER utter again…even if it costs me my life.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 12]

As much as their lack of independence disgusts us MGTOW…

They serve a function.
They are a reminder, a speck of red pill dust in our daily interaction.
So keep those men around and keep laughing at their sad ass faces when you do whatever the fook it is you wanna do.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

bigboy83 wrote:

Whats this c~~~ obsrssion on controlling men?

Don’t know. Had a check out lady at the grocery store who was in her 50’s try to get me to go through her line three times.

First time she asked I kept walking without paying attention.

Second time I kindly said “I’ll just use the self-check out”

Then she tells me that since I had beer I’ll need to get help anyway and it’ll take longer.

Even something as silly as that situation, you can see their need to control and organize.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I need married male friends just so I can flaunt my freedom in front of them and enrage their wives.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 1]

Yes, they always have to get permission from the Wife. They also have to report back at regular intervals on the phone with Status Updates. She can call him home at any time. That’s what happened to all my friends. That’s why I rarely ever see them anymore.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

I need married male friends just so I can flaunt my freedom in front of them and enrage their wives.

I just cut to the quick and don’t have them, since their wives will eventually demand they no longer associate with me, and I’m not so hubris as to think I can beat a pussy. Well, I can, but not in that way.

As someone who was effectively cult-conditioned (isolated from my friends and support systems) by an ex-wife, I understand the amount of power blue-pilled men give to their wives.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Wally wrote:

I noticed that men in the church would refer to their wives as their “better half.”

She’s the BOSS because of crap like that.

There’s irony in that considering the bible says otherwise.

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Anonymous wrote:

They serve a function.
They are a reminder, a speck of red pill dust in our daily interaction.

This is so true. A recurring theme on these forums seems to be how it’s easy for a MGTOW to let down their guard and get lured back into a trap set for him by another woman if he’s not vigilant. I think these little reminders really help us to avoid that.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I had to check with my first wife. My second wife, hell no. She had to check with me. She did the finances but when it came to financial decision making it was all me.

Then she spent us broke and when we were out of money split with our kid to move 7 hours away without even a word of warning.

So, no, I don’t ask for permission and no, I didn’t put up with her just up and leaving me. I had full custody of my son back within 48hrs.

Your wife is not your friend.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Don’t even waste your breath on these guys… they won’t believe you, until they get divorce-raped and end-up skint. They have to learn for themselves.

“Let me check with the talking vagina”… VAGINA SAYS ‘NO’!
What a tool.

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