Left the bar! Tired of the game they sell

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Worked really hard for some time, only have this weekend off then back to working overtime entire next week.
So had a couple of beers by myself yesterday, all my friends had plans with their women….typical.

Anyway had a pretty good time by myslef. Watching a movie and playing some online games, chatting with other gamers and cruised the regular forums. Decided to meet some people IRL so i went to the local pub.
I was pretty much sober when i arrived, ordered a beer and sat down at the bar just looking around at the drunk people, groups of males trying to get attention, groups of females ignoring them. WTF why cant people just enjoy each others company?

In the bar there are 3 islands of girls packed together like sheep and around them men are floating around, drunk to the limit. The only way they get brave enough to approach these ice queens is to drink alot! And then they get rejected since they are too drunk and so the weel spins.
These girls didnt even look that good, but they really hold all the cards since all these men want them anyway. This made me so f~~~ing annoyed that i didnt even finish my beer, i walked out the door and went staight home.
I wish men would start ignoring these bitches and enjoy each others company, let them sit at their f~~~ing table wondering what’s wrong with them.
There’s absolutley no balance between the sexes and it’s so f~~~ing obvious once you start taking the red pill. I feel ashame of myself when i look back on my blue pill years.

Ill just stop with this s~~~ now, its enough. Its not worth the work for getting laid. All the f~~~ing lies and smiles you have to give em is eating me up from the inside. F~~~ing attention whores, they are all prostitues in one way or another even if no cash is changing hands.
I have to get rid of this need to get female attention i carry with me, this forums helps, hobbies and working out is great but this s~~~ is not easy get over.

Just needed to share some thoughts, see you in the forums.

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Go do your work and overtime. Earn the cash. Become the guy they can’t do without.

Build your universe and women can just foxtrot oscar.

Now and then … one may stray across you for your assets.

You’re red pill now. Use her as she would use … and crush you.

Build your world.

[WallyParticipant]

Limpan, I feel the same way, it’s not easy getting over.

I was reading the other day about what is commonly said about MGTOW in that the majority of us are one blowjob away from going back to the farm, but if one has truly taken the redpill which I think if we have all truly done our research and listened to other men then there is no going back.

Crap like what happened at that University that cancelled the symposium on male suicide was a major red pill moment for many men I imagine.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Good observation. You’d be surprised what you notice if you just sip a beer and observe. Hence, leaving the bar scene. Probably dating myself here, but I come from the days of Taverns and Pubs. They are all but gone and all that’s left is ‘sports bars’. I become completely disgusted and leave bars only after a few drinks because:

WTF why cant people just enjoy each others company?

Exactly. Bunch of adults playing junior high f~~~-f~~~ games.

I wish men would start ignoring these bitches and enjoy each others company, let them sit at their f~~~ing table wondering what’s wrong with them.

Don’t despair, it does happen. 2013 Stanley Cup playoffs. Final game. Bar is packed. 8 chicks we’re out for a ‘girls night out’. They we’re done up to the nines and completely f~~~ing ignored. All the guys we’re cheering, slapping each others back and celebrating our victory.

Fuck this planet.

[RoyDalParticipant]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Go do your work and overtime. Earn the cash. Become the guy they can’t do without.

Build your universe and women can just foxtrot oscar.

Now and then … one may stray across you for your assets.

You’re red pill now. Use her as she would use … and crush you.

Build your world.

What ILiveAgain said raised to the hundredth power = 10¹⁰⁰ x [what he said]

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Women will only notice you if you ignore them and when they approach you, you reject them, oooohhhh, man that feels good. Have only tried it a couple of times, but still. Highly recommended!

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

Women will only notice you if you ignore them and when they approach you, you reject them, oooohhhh, man that feels good. Have only tried it a couple of times, but still. Highly recommended!

Yep done it a couple of times! its a great high!

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Cap285 wrote:

Don’t despair, it does happen. 2013 Stanley Cup playoffs. Final game. Bar is packed. 8 chicks we’re out for a ‘girls night out’. They we’re done up to the nines and completely f~~~ing ignored. All the guys we’re cheering, slapping each others back and celebrating our victory.

Sounds like an awesome night out!

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

these days you pretty much have to be drunk to find women in bars attractive.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

LonerBoner wrote:

I have to get rid of this need to get female attention i carry with me, this forums helps, hobbies and working out is great but this s~~~ is not easy get over.

It’s not at all easy to get over. You’re biologically and genetically programmed to mate with females. Look up ‘limerence’ and ‘corpulins’ online; it’ll give you a nice intro as to why you’re attracted to women.

When you were a boy, girls seemed stupid and pointless. Then junior high occurred, and hormone receptors clicked on in your body. And girls became ***fascinating***. And you visually learned what cues indicated the presence of these hormones, and you quickly became reinforced by those cues. Once you realize these are just chemicals twisting your mind, it becomes a lot easier to realize that women are still stupid and pointless.

Even if we lived in a normal (i.e., not collapsing into socialist feminist oblivion) society, where women knew a place that made stronger families and saner children, you’d still unfortunately find women stupid and pointless. That’s why, traditionally, men have clubs all their own to get the hell away from the hens.

Cap285 wrote:

You’d be surprised what you notice if you just sip a beer and observe.

I noticed I don’t like hanging out in bars unless it’s with other mgtow, oddly enough. I get tired of watching blue pillers – even married ones with kids – act all courting-season with the whores around me.

Cap285 wrote:

They are all but gone and all that’s left is ‘sports bars’.

I am constantly astonished that so many Westerners seem incapable of being in a room without a television going. In the odd border city I live in, cafes on the street – whose main purpose is to enjoy the street and the pedestrians and whatnot – have televisions up. Many of them. Few people actually watch them, and most have the sound off. Um. What?

Just remember, when you feel like you love a woman or miss her, you’re just missing/loving a projection of you own fantasies.

The horrible, horrible realization we all come to at some point before or at the point of becoming mgtow. I was programmed by society, books, movies, television, religion, culture, etc. to think that women were a certain thing. Women are not this thing. I chased girls and women *literally* for forty years, from age 5 to 45. While accomplishing a variety of other things in my life, women and relationships and sooouuulmateunicorn were honestly my main focus; the result being a frustrating and largely wasted life. I loved fantasies. I was handsome and smart enough, and “won” many of the women I pursued, and had marriage and long-term relationships, all of which ended in chaos and female drama. I loved a fantasy. I never loved reality.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

I loved a fantasy. I never loved reality.

Good quote. And it is always to unplug.

[RennieParticipant]

Just remember, when you feel like you love a woman or miss her, you’re just missing/loving a projection of you own fantasies. In reality that being you’re projtecting onto is just a squirrel trying to get a nut. And she has no problem playing into your fantasies to get at your nuts.

That’s pretty sad, but it explains alot. It’s all a cheap illusion.

Elric Greenstone wrote:

The horrible, horrible realization we all come to at some point before or at the point of becoming mgtow. I was programmed by society, books, movies, television, religion, culture, etc. to think that women were a certain thing. Women are not this thing. I chased girls and women *literally* for forty years, from age 5 to 45. While accomplishing a variety of other things in my life, women and relationships and sooouuulmateunicorn were honestly my main focus; the result being a frustrating and largely wasted life. I loved fantasies. I was handsome and smart enough, and “won” many of the women I pursued, and had marriage and long-term relationships, all of which ended in chaos and female drama. I loved a fantasy. I never loved reality.

I also played this game for a few years, but stopped after realizing it was all stupid. I do regret the time wasted on them.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

I am pretty mad at myself for wasting my money and playing the game as well. For so many years I believed that if I didn’t go out that I was missing something. Turns out that was right, I’m missing my money! Seriously, drinking at home is much better and safer.

1. You don’t have to worry about driving drunk and possibly injuring someone or yourself OR getting pulled over for a DUI. The punishment for any of these can be expensive and extensive.
2. You don’t have to deal with all the competitive PUA’s, White Nights or Manginas. These men act like incredible douche bags in the hopes of impressing some bitch.
3. You can listen to the music that you want and watch what you want on TV uninterrupted or not at all. You control the atmosphere in which you can enjoy your drink.
4. Even if you were to reel in some tail, are the potential STD’s, unwanted pregnancies or false rape charges really worth it?

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

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