LAZY, good for nothing, wives/moms

[The ApprenticeParticipant 59]

Do you have any personal stories of your (Ex)wife or mother becoming lazy after marriage, sitting around all day, watching TV and becoming very short tempered if ask to do anything? I think you just heard my story. I’m just curious to see how common of an experience it is.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Actually after my ex wife and I got married she actually cleaned around the house more.  Finished college got a job etc.  In fact she stayed busy to the point that I believe that she has an Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder.

She got lazy in the interpersonal department.  No sex, no affection, nothing.

I blatantly told her that “You better start f~~~ing your husband or he will find someone else who will”.  It was about like trying to move a glacier.

I started f~~~ing someone else.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[The ApprenticeParticipant 59]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Actually after my ex wife and I got married she actually cleaned around the house more. Finished college got a job etc. In fact she stayed busy to the point that I believe that she has an Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder. She got lazy in the interpersonal department. No sex, no affection, nothing. I blatantly told her that “You better start f~~~ing your husband or he will find someone else who will”. It was about like trying to move a glacier. I started f~~~ing someone else.

The way I see it, she used you for support to get her fulfillment and she didn’t really care about you. In one way or another, I think women end up using you and it’s not the favor for favor sort of thing.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Agreed.  However, my blunt forays in to reality when it came to sex with my ex wife were less motivated by a desire to get laid and more giving voice to my overall discontent with the state of my former marriage.  To be honest, my relationship was over long before I began to tell her things like this.

But I was trying to illustrate that a relationship takes work and a commitment of emotion and time.  Work.  To shirk your responsibilities around the house is not a healthy thing, but to shirk your relationship is another form of laziness, and in the end, a betrayal.

I’m sure that more than one of us has looked at the laundry piled around the hamper and still have put it off to another day.  You pay for that by not having a clean shirt and socks when you get up one morning.

Leaving off putting time in to a relationship can be looked at the same way.  You pay for that by having your man pack his bag and go his own way.  The part the really p~~~es me off is that a woman will have the unmitigated gall to act shocked and surprised when you do.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[survivorParticipant 610]

Mine made sure she got plenty of rest, although 12-16 hours of sleep seems a bit excessive. Don’t forget endless hours of playing video games and watching soap operas when she was awake. No cooking, no shopping for food. No sex. Essentially abandoning the children. No cleaning around the house at all. And throwing herself into a paltry part-time job of 15 hours of week that pays pennies. And later that position even got a pay cut! And she still kept throwing herself into it! Lazy, good-for-nothing, ungrateful witch who knew the things she should have done but refused and then complains about the consequences and results when she knew bloody good and well to do them to begin with. Oh the pain and sorrow that could have been avoided and turned into happiness!

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[RoyDalParticipant]

I’ve been in long term relationships, but never married. My LTRs were about evenly divided between spick ‘n’ span neat and won’t clean up the cat turds lazy. They all started withholding sex after they had the hook set.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[foolsgoldParticipant 5653]

Mine worked full time when we got married. Down to part time two years into it. Once the kids came, not at all. She then decided it was time to get rid of me and find something “better”. What she didn’t realize is that she didn’t have the goods anymore to trap any other man she desired. Once she figured out she hit the wall, she started asking me to come back. That was less than 6 months after she got rid of me.

9 years later she is still trying to get me to come back. I don’t think she will ever stop trying. I could show up with a hot chick when I pick up the kids so she gets the message. I’ve chosen not to do that and took the high road instead. I’ve noticed there is a delusional period after they crash into the wall. She wasn’t any different. I guess I rub it in once in a while. I occasionally will thank her for throwing me out. Of course, not in front of the kids.

[WolfParticipant 890]

foolsgold wrote:

Mine worked full time when we got married. Down to part time two years into it. Once the kids came, not at all.

This is a common progression for women. She starts out independent, working full time, and actually lives her own life. Then the relationship progresses to common law and/or marriage, and she slowly starts to change her ways. She starts getting tired, becoming more and more dependent on you, and eventually she becomes the polar opposite of what she was when you first started dating her.

My last relationship was like that. She started out working as a manager of a retail store making 45K/year with benefits. Then she was fired and had to go on employment insurance for a while. She got a new job, but it was 35K per year. Then after about a year of that, she started being tired all the time and missing a bunch of work without pay. By the end of our relationship, she wasn’t working at all. She had a mysterious illness that made her tired all the time. She spent her days in bed and stayed up all night watching her shows recorded on the PVR. It was pathetic.

[experiencedParticipant]

As a better man posted,

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

happened to my ex-wife, which is one of the main reasons why i divorced her.  She became incredibly lazy and still is.  Worst example of it i can think of; i was in the living room watching tv.  the living room is attached to the kitchen because it was an open concept design.  she turns off the kitchen light and, because i had the living room lights off, it became darker than i wanted to watch tv, completely dark actually.  while she was still standing beside the light switch, I asked her to turn the light back on because i was using it.  well she just loses it.  “turn it on yourself.  i’m not your slave, if you want it on…” and blah blah blah.  raising her arm to about shoulder level to undo what she had done was too much work for her.  starting an argument was a better use of energy.  i could not believe it.

a buddy of mine told me about a piece of chicken his ex-wife dropped on the kitchen floor and she refused to pick it up.  she walked over it several times and just ignored it.  literally stepped directly over it several times.  finally my buddy says “can you pick up the piece of chicken you dropped”  she says “no. if you don’t like it there, you pick it up.”  now was it laziness or was she just trying to p~~~ him off or both?  probably laziness until he asked her to pick it up, then it turned into i’m going to p~~~ you off because how dare you tell me what to do.  these were grown women too, not children.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[experiencedParticipant]

98% of these columns’ worth is that young men will read them and see that once you’re married, THERE’S NOT A F~~~ING THING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. NOT A F~~~ING THING and women know this. These gentle lilies would prefer them to never find out, hence their all out hatred and contempt of mgtow.

 

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[The ApprenticeParticipant 59]

Wolf wrote:

foolsgold wrote:

Mine worked full time when we got married. Down to part time two years into it. Once the kids came, not at all.

This is a common progression for women. She starts out independent, working full time, and actually lives her own life. Then the relationship progresses to common law and/or marriage, and she slowly starts to change her ways. She starts getting tired, becoming more and more dependent on you, and eventually she becomes the polar opposite of what she was when you first started dating her. My last relationship was like that. She started out working as a manager of a retail store making 45K/year with benefits. Then she was fired and had to go on employment insurance for a while. She got a new job, but it was 35K per year. Then after about a year of that, she started being tired all the time and missing a bunch of work without pay. By the end of our relationship, she wasn’t working at all. She had a mysterious illness that made her tired all the time. She spent her days in bed and stayed up all night watching her shows recorded on the PVR. It was pathetic.

OMFG! THIS!!!! “I’m tired, I’m sick, I can’t do anything” and then watches TV all day. Of course the tiredness/illness fades when they are doing something they like but when you ask them to do something they will snap and have a freak-out temper tantrum session.

[The ApprenticeParticipant 59]

uchibenkei wrote:

happened to my ex-wife, which is one of the main reasons why i divorced her. She became incredibly lazy and still is. Worst example of it i can think of; i was in the living room watching tv. the living room is attached to the kitchen because it was an open concept design. she turns off the kitchen light and, because i had the living room lights off, it became darker than i wanted to watch tv, completely dark actually. while she was still standing beside the light switch, I asked her to turn the light back on because i was using it. well she just loses it. “turn it on yourself. i’m not your slave, if you want it on…” and blah blah blah. raising her arm to about shoulder level to undo what she had done was too much work for her. starting an argument was a better use of energy. i could not believe it. a buddy of mine told me about a piece of chicken his ex-wife dropped on the kitchen floor and she refused to pick it up. she walked over it several times and just ignored it. literally stepped directly over it several times. finally my buddy says “can you pick up the piece of chicken you dropped” she says “no. if you don’t like it there, you pick it up.” now was it laziness or was she just trying to p~~~ him off or both? probably laziness until he asked her to pick it up, then it turned into i’m going to p~~~ you off because how dare you tell me what to do. these were grown women too, not children.

God damn, this similarities are freaky.

Have you ever heard the saying that goes something like this… “Women are a mystery” when it comes to dating or whatever.

BULLS~~~! Women are all the same, it’s no mystery once you’ve taken the red pill.

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