Just saw a husband get demeaned.

[UnbelievableyetnotParticipant 512]

 I just came back from Asda store (UK version of Walmart)

I’m a 30 year old MGTOW, I don’t engage in gynocentric dating (no man should really)  an I’ve never been married. I  joined  because I had to share this experience:

 I just came back from Asda store (UK version of Walmart) where  this prune faced fat woman berated her husband. (both looked about sixty).  When he put the food in the bagging area of the fast lane self checkout she said in a commanding (nagging) tone “Don’t throw the food put it down like this (shows him). He said he wasn’t throwing it and she said “yes you were, when I say you’re doing something, you don’t argue with me, just accept it. You always argue back.!” And he actually let her talk to him like that! He just put his head down and obeyed. It’s like she was talking to a child, nay an infant. Seriously. The tone in her voice was as if she saw him as completely inept. Didn’t care that I could easily hear.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

happens to often, all you can do i chuckle since you know you will never let yourself be put in that situation.

FEELSGOODMAN

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I would have given him one of my MGTOW.COM cards.

Who knows …. maybe …. just maybe.

[UnbelievableyetnotParticipant 512]

After he kept quiet and accepted it, her tone got more pleasant after that, and he seemed to reciprocate so the sad thing is that if I had said something, and asked if he was gonna let her get away with that, you know he’d defend her. If he was given a MGTOW card I would be surprised if he wouldn’t give it to her. Like a reflex. Hand it to him, it instantly goes to her.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Unbelievableyetnot wrote:

If he was given a MGTOW card I would be surprised if he wouldn’t give it to her. Like a reflex. Hand it to him, it instantly goes to her.

Oh that would have been sooooo much better. Could you imagine her viewing this site?

Reading the forum and viewing the videos ….. she might of even had a heart attack ☺

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Isn’t it funny how women talk to men like children, when women are the more child-like themselves?  They’re like the bossy children that tell others what to do when they don’t get their way.

Anyway, glad to see another new one on his page!

[RoyDalParticipant]

I saw such a scene when I was 8 or 9. I’ve never forgotten it. It may explain my pathological fear of marriage. It certainly did nothing to alleviate it.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

I just about got hit by a couple in a truck on Sunday. I was at a Four Way stop and was the next to go but I noticed a truck coming full bore like it wasn’t going to stop at the stop sign. I waited and sure enough he didn’t and he didn’t stop because his wife, GF or whatever was busy throwing a tantrum in the passenger side. I honked my horn, he hit the brake instinctively but was too late and blew through the Stop sign missing my front end by less than a foot. As he passed in front of my car I saw his woman snack him in the head, still furiously yelling at him. Instead of being angry he nearly hit me, I actually felt pity. He has to deal with an abusive c~~~, if someone did that to me I’d eject them from the car immediately. I wouldn’t stop.

[PokeParticipant 10]

How embarrassing for that guy. But, he is evidently a blue pill mangina set in his ways and unable to defend himself. It does however make one want to blurt out after looking down at his wife’s lower body; I know who wears the pants in your family, or No respect for men here, or Psst! Your wife is part of the slut walk. Of, course in that situation, all that can be done by people close by, is to remain quiet, calm, and let him suffer alone. Hopefully, a friend will help him become MGTOW!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

My father would eventually cave. Mom and Dad would go back and forth like that, but it wasn’t because he was weak, or a beaten dog, it was just to keep the peace. One day my Mom ridiculed him . I was about 21. “OH LOL!! You’re just USELESS in the kitchen!!!”. I said: “And you’re useless in the garage or at fixing the roof. So how is it a problem?”. Spun her around so fast. I laughed just like she did. Dad thanked me later for it.

English wasn’t his first language and so he wasn’t as “quick” to think up a good one. So I stepped in. Took the red pill early in life.

Love little every day episodes like this. Thanks for sharing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[conscientiaParticipant 6]

Lets dissect this. I believe, that:

Based on experience, he suppressed his instinct to fight back, because he thinks, that arguing with her is pointless, because:

• Argument with women is not about who is right or wrong. It is about who wins, emotionally, thus, who has the last word.
• In case she would not receive ‘last word’, she will not let it rest and this ‘hangover’ effect of this argument would last thousands of times longer that the twenty seconds it took to actually go through this argument, and he would have to experience cold looks,  public shame and  passive aggressiveness until she retaliates in some other way, because, given his silence now and her ‘don’t argue with me’ reply, he has not held his stance till the end for a long time and first several times it would change he would experience ‘the bitchiness package’.
• He is quite old. He might not have power to fight back anymore, since there are no other perspectives for him to build something again from zero, given his age and move on. Moreover, he might have actually started to believe that what she says is right and given old age he has no mental power left to reanalyse it . “No matter how big the lie is, repeat it often enough, and people will buy it”.

Solution:

1. Tell the logical sequence of arguments, why she is wrong (even though it is not going to work, IT IS IMPORTANT)

“The last thing I have pleasure in is you bitching about thing that is as irrelevant as untrue. No I wasn’t , Yes I will if you are wrong, and there is a reason why I do it, which is: you are wrong”.

2. Define your final position and let her see it.

Cold, flat faced, it-is-not-getting-to-you reply: “I am not blind or incapable of understanding the concept of gravity”

3. Ignore every single of her replies occasionally answering to her bitching.

Phrase, like “I made myself clear enough” will do.

4. Act as if nothing has happened.

“Would you like to go to the movies today, woman?”

“No!” she replies angrily, coldly or in any form to not hide her bitchiness.

“Alright, home then”,  with a smile on the face.

The reason, why stating the logical argument is important is the division between a man acting upon a rational conclusion and tyrant. It is important to stand up for what you believe is right without being an asshole in process, because it defeats the whole purpose of defending your belief, like curing cold using antibiotics infected with malaria.  If denied such thing, she could later on accuse you of not providing a reason which could potentially fire up a new argument. Even worse, when she came up with other co-branching issues not actually relevant to the case, which is in nature of female .

The main point for stating your logical argumentation is making sure she knows what to expect when situation with same template arises. Without explanation, she could easily do it again, and it would actually be unfair for her to not know, why she is being treated like that. And If she doesn’t,  I am the asshole, and she indeed is a victim.

This was my natural way of sorting things out. I would share more, but would not unless this became a closed society with secure entry only for proven members, which would have met in real life. (Which, hypocritically, I am not myself). Any c~~~, including the ones who are working for someone in leads of an opposing movement of I-have-stubborn-refusal-to-shave-my-pits can register here and, frankly, posting something strategically relevant here is like telling to a poker player your cards in advance.

 

[PokeParticipant 10]

Conscientia, Yes, I was reading your notes and it made me think of another way to handle this. This below is an excerpt from a book called; The Way of the Superior Man. I have yet to try this, but it makes sense to me.

Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her

A man’s track record means nothing to the feminine. A man could be
perfect for ten years, but if he’s an asshole for 30 seconds his woman acts
like he’s always been one. The feminine responds to the moment of
energy, forgetting her man’s history of past behavior. A man’s past behavior
is irrelevant to his woman’s feeling in the moment. But men base
much on another man’s history of behavior, so they think their own
track record should count for something. But to a woman, it doesn’t.
It’s been a very tough and late day at work. You finally come
home, and your woman is upset. You forgot that you were supposed
to have dinner with another couple that night, and the
time has passed. Your woman is furious.
“I’m sorry I’m late, but this was an unusual day,” you say. “I
haven’t worked late for months, but I had to today. You probably
can’t even remember the last time I forgot a date together we had
planned. I hardly ever forget those kind of things.”
“Well, you did today. And that’s what counts.”

There is no use trying to mitigate her anger by referring to
your great track record. To the feminine, history is irrelevant.
What counts is the feeling in the moment. If you let her down
now, it doesn’t matter that you haven’t let her down for months,
or even years. Your past successes mean nothing to her present
feeling of your failure.

For you as a man, it is probably easier to forgive and forget an
occasional mistake made by another man who has a great track
record. What p~~~es you off is when a man lacks integrity and
continually fails at his word. But even big mistakes are fairly easy
to let go of when made by a man who is otherwise impeccable.
You know he really does his best, and this mistake was a rare exception.
But, for the feminine, the past is entirely irrelevant. One
wrong word in the midst of a five hour lovemaking session that
was otherwise perfect could collapse your woman as completely
as if you had spent two hours making mistakes.
Instead of getting angry because she’s so upset that you made
one little mistake in a long series of successes, instantly shift the
energy between you. Remember, history is irrelevant to the feminine,
so your mistake is as easily forgotten as your successes. As
soon as you see she’s upset, immediately assume happiness. Shock
her with your love. Make her smile and laugh with your humor.
Lick her neck, or lift her off the ground and pretend you’re King
Kong. Surprise her in some loving way, and the emotional slate
will be wiped clean. Your momentary failure will be effectively
vanished, as irrelevant as the long line of your successes.

Restore love and happiness in the present moment, don’t justify
your little mistake by referring to your long line of successes.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Great share!

For any Mgtow that ever feel lonely, go to a local mall, costco, walmart, any one of these big stores where you can sit, eat and people watch………..   Now look at the men who are with women,

watch how they act, their posture, their body language, their facial expressions, even laugh if one of the girls checks you out and how the man will sometimes glare at you, it’s funny!

you can tell new couples because they are in that pre 3 month period where they actually think they still like each-other, disregard them their time is coming.

but the married manginas walk behind, sometimes they are hard to see because they are hidden behind whales, but it is truly a site to behold, they look like beaten dogs, miserable,  they will get sent on tasks to pick up stuff so she doesn’t have to walk, and he obeys…..

and if you’re lucky, you will witness her bitching at him….

Be thankful that isn’t you and have a laugh!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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