Just can´t trust women

[KillmandrillParticipant 497]

Hi there MGTOW,
I´d like to introduce myself with an anecdote from when I was 5 years old, please keep in mind that I´ve never attended an US high school hence there´s the possibility that my spelling/grammar… would not always be 100%.

I was in kindergarten when one of the teachers asked me to accompany a girl of my age back home, since she just moved to our little town and possibly needed some help with the directions, so I did. On the walk home the call of nature got strong and I needed to take a leak somewhere. Looked for a good place and told the girl to stay where she was and went around the corner,out of sight, to water a tree. After a couple of seconds she followed me and saw what I was doing and went: “What are you doing there? Eeeh how awful.” She pushed me against the tree and I peed all over my pants. I had some load left and just turned around while still peeing and peed on her arm and dress. She ran away crying : “How could you do that, you swine?”. It did not take long after I got home when my mother called me from downstairs to tell me that the parents of the little girl had called and that they would pay us a visit. Later that day after my father had come home from work our new neighbours did show up and expected me to excuse myself to their daughter for peeing on her. I told my parents my version of the story. I did not feel guilty and that I did only defend myself with what I had at hand. My parents did not believe my version nor did they get how I saw things.How can a little crying girl be a liar? I did not understand the reasoning for the need of an excuse. They forced me to excuse and I was under tears. That was a break in the relationship between me and my parents. My parents did rather apply to the demands of society than to back up their son.

From then on I knew that people would rather believe a girl/woman that pulls on one´s heart strings than an honest boy/man and society expects you to give an excuse to them even when your right.I did not stop to defend myself anyhow when women attacked me in any way…

I decided never to have kids when I was 22yo. after cheating on death and lying in the hospital for crohn´s disease and what goes along.It was a rational decision resulting out of what I went through and I´d never wanted to pass on my genetic gift.
In my early years I was craving for love or what I thought it was. I never was the one to approach women directly although I´m somewhat of a loud personality but also know what it means to be decent.
My mother always wanted me to have good manners and be a gentleman. I stripped that off over the years due to the lack of reasoning and I´d rather be myself than to be pretend something else just to comfort people and women in particular.
I´m not willing to sacrifice my own personality and my time in exchange for sex. It´s just not so relevant for me and I´m not desperate for it.
When I watched other men in my circles over the years how they hit on women I just thought that they act like primates and never wanted to be that way. If I could not be loved for who I am then it just should not be.
Never had a LTR in my whole life just some casual encounters but that is long ago.
I´m a good observer and can draw my own clues. Am I red pill, not sure about that, if it requires reading all the recommended literature then probably not. My whole attitude is based on my own experiences.
I don´t like labeling or generalizations but if there is something that comes closest to what I am than it´s probably a MGHOW.

Greetings from a germerican in Germany

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsche

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

1. Your English is better than my German.

2. Welcome home brother! You are among friends.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Clockwork PenguinParticipant 50]

Greetings, Killmandril. And privet from a Rusky in America.

Guess we’re both the fresh blood around here.

In any case, your introduction was a pretty good read.

(Oh and, I didn’t really notice any/many grammatical errors, though I will also admit, I wasn’t critiquing you either.)

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

I make it a general rule to not trust anyone whom is not legally held responsible for their own actions.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings Killmandrill,

Appreciate the intro and story.

Some of the best men that I have had the pleasure of working with are just like you.

Congratulations on your freedom and I look forward to reading your posts.

Here is something that came to mind after reading your story:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Hello Killmandrill and welcome to MGTOW. Great story with a true lesson. So many men have been victimized by a women’s tears of shame.

It’s always great to have another member in this great forum. Take a look around and join in.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I agree, you simply can not trust females anymore. They will betray you anytime it suits their needs. They will steal from you. Lie to you. Manipulate you.

Any man who trusts a female is a fool. You have been warned.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Lol, like there’s any reason, too.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 42]

Faust For Science wrote:

I make it a general rule to not trust anyone whom is not legally held responsible for their own actions.

^^^Pure f~~~ing logic!^^^

Hey Killmandrill, I can only imagine what would have happened if you were taking a s~~~!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Anonymous wrote:

^^^Pure f~~~ing logic!^^^

Thank you. When I think of women getting away with destroying men lives by false accusations of crimes. With the women doing so for reasons ranging from financial gain to just to make themselves feel better. I remember that bearing false witness is, which is what falsely accusing someone of a crime is, one of the big ten crimes of the Ten Commandments.

By the rule alone. Not including adultery, and murder by abortion. Most western women are going to wind up in Hell after they die.

Realizing that, reaping what one sows really is true, does make it easier to live.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I agree, you simply can not trust females anymore. They will betray you anytime it suits their needs. They will steal from you. Lie to you. Manipulate you.

Any man who trusts a female is a fool. You have been warned.

That nails it , so true.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Well, overall, I think you are being rational.

You are considering all the fact and taking a cool headed and thoughtful look at your interests. No one else will do this for you, so you have taken it upon yourself. Wise, very wise.

People who pressure and shame you are not acting in your best interests. As a matter of fact, it is easy for them to do this since they will not be living with the consequences of these choices- you will.

If you rationally weigh the risks and rewards and come to this:

No Marriage, not worth it.
No Children, not worth it.
No LTR or cohabitation, not worth it.

And chose instead to retain your sovereignty, you are a MGTOW.

A Man Going His Own Way does not sign a legal agreement (marriage contract) to surrender his right to say “no”. Once you get married, you lose that to say no or leave as you want, when you want and how you want.

As an older man, let me assure you, it gets much easier and better with age. You seem smarter about this than many men I know twice your age. In time, you will learn more about what I mean.

Until then:

Retain your rights, retain your dignity, retain your sovereignty.

And welcome brother !

Frank V.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Welcome to the site. I also have an early memory of misandry like you. I was standing in the cafeteria line in elemtary school when the girl beside me decided, for whatever reason, to push me. When I stumbled, I bumped the person in front of me. The cafeteria hag came toward me and grabbed me by the wrist. When my teacher came, the hag told her that I was causing trouble. My teacher doubted the hag and asked me what happened because she knew I didn’t cause trouble at school. When I told her the girl beside me pushed me, she lost her faith in me, just because…… vagina. I’ll never forget that. The saddest part about our stories is that the adults in them actually think they are distributing justice. They are blind to their own bias and are often the same people who think they are pro-equality.

[KillmandrillParticipant 497]

Thank you all so far for the warm welcome!

@frank V.: I did not say in my introduction but I am getting 49 next month. “No” is one of my favourite words and thank you for your support and insights.

@Tiga K.: I have also a memory from school where a female teacher slapped me in the face. I think she thought I was trying to make fun of her (I was 7yrs. then). She wanted me to pronounce the word “gehen” (walk) with an emphasis on the last syllable so one could clearly hear the “e”. Nobody does that here. She had me repeat the word a felt 100 times and she still was not satisfied with how I did it. I told her that I cannot pronounce it like she does because I am not her and that I never heard anyone pronouncing it like that. She sort of compromised me in front of class and what began as a lesson turned in an argue that ended in her slapping my face. I told my parents the story. I don´t know what my parents did but shortly thereafter I was put in a different class. Stupid thing she was living in the neighbouring house and I had to see her every day and felt she hated me for being who I was. That was in different town from where the story with the girl happened.

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsche

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

wellcome Killmandrill.

yup, a lot of mgtow guys here have stories just like you.

[Mr. SmithParticipant 686]

You got a serious point here: female teachers. Over here in Germany you wont find many male teachers. In some schools it is less than 5%. There are many studies about this including that female teachers tend to reward behavior they see as favorable, aka female behavior. As a result grades of boys are in free fall and girls grades are getting better. Shaming tactics are applied on a daily basis against boys. There are even studies done by left wing feminist parties confirming female teachers cannot provide proper role models for boys. They know it and do nothing about it!
In the long run boys have no positive rewards in school and looking for recognition elsewhere. Those stupid feminists see this as a proof girls are more intelligent, because now they are getting better grades. Not quite true if you look at the facts: The knowledge female students have at the end of the high school (or Realschule in Germany) is less than in the 1970s, but they get better grades, anyway. The knowledge boys have collected, especially about computers and such stuff, does not count in this state, first because it was not taught in school, second because female teachers see this as irrelevant.

Of course I have similar experiences like you. First with my sister. From early childhood on she tried frequently such things just to gain power. She used the whole repertoire of lies, deception and threads. Instinctively I realized this is something deep in the female mindset and I think I was six or seven back then, because I was seeing my mother doing the same with my father. Somehow it helped me to deal with it.
Another story was in 2nd grade when we had sports. Some girls was peeping in our locker room. Yes, girls do this, too. When we told the teacher, she refused to believe us and made us apologize to the girls for false statement.

"I need men, real men, men with balls, certainly not sissies. I would never ask them to take an enemy position, but I insist that they follow me to that position. If you are one of those men, raise your hand." Napoleon Bonaparte

[KillmandrillParticipant 497]

@Mr.Smith
Seems we got something in common, home country and school education in Germany and a violent sister. I was in so much fights with my sister.. the last one we had (I was around 17) ended up with a bloody nose for her and a record at the police for me, what an embarrassment… she attacked me, as usual. I never started a fight with her, she had to learn she can´t rule me no more. I helped her so often be it with money or any other kind of support but she used any chance she got to knife me. She almost made me lose my right eye, still have a scar from that. I never got an excuse for that neither for all the scars she left on my body.So much to blood is thicker than water.

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsche

[Mr. SmithParticipant 686]

Here it was no physical violence but verbal and a lot of shaming, lies and more lies.

What I am asking myself all the time: Is it something genetic with women or do they learn it from there peers aka mothers, elderly sisters etc?

"I need men, real men, men with balls, certainly not sissies. I would never ask them to take an enemy position, but I insist that they follow me to that position. If you are one of those men, raise your hand." Napoleon Bonaparte

[KillmandrillParticipant 497]

@ Mr. Smith Lucky you, for not experiencing the violent side of women as early as I did. As for the genetics I think they are responsible, just like biddies pushing each other out of the nest to get more food and attention, sort of a sense for survival.

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsche

[ConstantineParticipant 4417]

Good on ya Killmandrill, and your grammar is fine.

How can a little crying girl be a liar?

Quite easily dude. It’s been said that in a childcare centre, whenever a baby girl cries, she’s immediately picked up and comforted. When a baby boy cries however, he’s just ignored. Seems that from the youngest age, boys are told to “man up”.

So I think that by the time a girl graduates to primary school, she’s learned that crying can usually get her what she wants. Because they seem to ingrain it in her as soon as she’s a foetus – or maybe even earlier.

Anyways, welcome to the site and enjoy your browsing.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

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