I've caught a girl trying to exploit me! How to respond?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

I understand. The submitting to her professor idea was to keep her from trying that crap with some other unsuspecting man. What she can’t steal from you, she will try to steal from another.
Your friend is fortunate to have a friend like you. Good luck with your studies.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I am so tempted to recommend “helping” her by giving her completely wrong answers, but that’s more trouble than it’s worth.

You are there for your education, not hers.

Oneforfreedom wrote:

So how do I respond to this? I’m split between 1) ignoring and 2) writing a rude e-mail and 3) writing a kind e-mail politely telling her to f~~~ off.

Ignore her unless she persists. If she does persist, go with option 4) Write an HONEST e-mail telling her what she is asking for might qualify as plagiarism and explaining to her that if she is having that much trouble with the first lab she should be taking it to the professor, not other students, If you are still in contact with her professor, casually bring it up with him. Do not mention specifics, but tell her professor that she is having trouble with the class which you are not capable of helping her with and politely ask if he could help her with it.

Do NOT communicate via anything other than e-mail. SAVE EVERY F~~~ING CORRESPONDENCE. Blind copy them to a third party who also saves them. With any luck she’ll be history before too long; anyone who can’t handle the first lab in a class is unlikely to survive the term.

Oneforfreedom wrote:

The professor has free office hours, and tutors are free through the school. She doesn’t even have to pay.

Then she DEFINITELY isn’t seeking legitimate help with the class and simply wants to copy your work. F~~~ that.

Keymaster wrote:

A RISK she gets “angry”? OOooooooo scary.

Unfortunately these days all a woman has to do on campus is claim a man looked at her funny to cause a world of trouble and inconvenience for him. (And they wonder why male attendance is collapsing?) This is why it’s so important that @oneforfreedom get all his ducks in a row first so that should she become spiteful he can crush her right back and get her spiteful ass expelled instead.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

sidecar wrote:

You are there for your education, not hers.
Unfortunately these days all a woman has to do on campus is claim a man looked at her funny to cause a world of trouble and inconvenience for him. (And they wonder why male attendance is collapsing?)

100% agree. Thanks for sharing!

The world is a f~~~ing harsh place.

Amen.

Yet ignoring her is best as our pal and mentor Keymaster advised.

Yessir.

Please tell us what you are studying..

I’m studying medicine- going to become a doctor.

Study your ass off… get good grades and see if you can move into IT.
The pay is six figures in wages and benefits.

Med pays good too! 🙂 Thank you for the input. I was also expecting your regular real estate pep talk, Stealthy! Honestly, thank you for everything you’ve done- you’re a great member on these forums and I love reading everything you write.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

There’s helping and then there’s pretty much doing all the work for someone. she’s asking you to do all this preparation work, which she should be doing. The arrangement should be that you tell her what to do and she does it. Not the other way around.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

If she is hot – I’d reply with: “Nudes or GTFO”
If not – I’d say: “you’re asking for too much. Sorry, but I don’t have time for this”

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BigDParticipant 3024]

To be honest, I would set up a date and time in a public place to help her. Then don’t show. If she asks why you didn’t show, tell her you had other priorities. Then set up another date and time. Don’t show, again. If she asks why you didn’t show, tell her you had other priorities. Then set up another date and time. Don’t show.

Repeat until she either fails out of class, decides to learn on her own, or until her parents’ money runs out and she can’t go to school anymore.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Author]

Posts