It's scary to see how many early 20 guys marry

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Why hell why would you do that to yourself, where were those fellas parents when they decided to do that s~~~.

It’s not like the times of our parents when you married young and were too ashamed to get a divorce, this is divorce, alimony and child support by the age of 25 F~~~

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I think it’s called being young and ignorant even though at that age you THINK you know everything.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

I did it at 21.

Largely based on the backwards way I was raised.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

The bigger question is why or why would a man in his 40s or 50s do this? A young man has little to lose but an older established man has MUCH TO LOSE!

there is a guy in my church–50ish who is sniffing after this 30 something c~~~ who has a severe case of the baby-rabies and yes he is planning to do the unthinkable—become a beta provider. WHY WHY WHY?

[TwistParticipant]

freedom wrote:

where were those fellas parents when they decided to do that s~~~.

Fathers have been eliminated in so many cases that the only story line comes from dear Mommy.

[Anonymous 7]

Steady tail with raging hormones.
PLUS
Female manipulation.
= You’re f~~~ed.

[Anonymous 3]

PistolPete wrote:

The bigger question is why or why would a man in his 40s or 50s do this? A young man has little to lose but an older established man has MUCH TO LOSE!

there is a guy in my church–50ish who is sniffing after this 30 something c~~~ who has a severe case of the baby-rabies and yes he is planning to do the unthinkable—become a beta provider. WHY WHY WHY?

This is my take too.

If you are going to get married, at least do it while you’re young and horny, to a young virgin who is also horny for you.

WTF is wrong with these older men marrying? They’re so thirsty and they chase after used up older women. It’s so idiotic.

[Anonymous 6]

I always said that especially when i saw those Duck Dynasty guys. They all got married in their 20’s. None of those women are gonna leave now, because their husbands are rich!!

Even their kids are getting married young. I guess they figure, it makes no sense in waiting. If you have a girlfriend, you might as well just make her a wife. That s~~~ is odd to me. If you are in your 20’s period, You have no business getting married. For WHAT???

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Young dumb and full of cum.

Everyone was shocked when I said I was getting married as I’ve been so anti-marriage since a teen. I thought that would make her happy and bring us closer. Boy, was I wrong. Never again.

[CG27Participant 302]

Whenever I see or hear about men getting married I just find it completely bemusing.

The argument against marriage for men is so strong that I’ve yet to see anything even close to a reasonable counter argument.

What does a man get from being married that he can’t get without being married?

Certainly nothing good that’s for sure. I can defiantly see why marriage benefits women I can see why marriage could benefit children (if the marriage lasts) but for a guy there genuinely is no benefit. The only reason I can think of which might explain why some guys think it’s a good idea is because they’re religious and marriage is supposedly what you’re meant to do. However, many of these guys or couples who claim to be religious are likely having pre marital sex so how religious are they in the first place?

It’s a shame that so many guys have to get burnt themselves before realising that relations~~~s/ co habitating/ marriage is a bad deal.

The single biggest threat to your happiness is women and the only way to win is to not play the game

[IRuleMeParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

The bigger question is why or why would a man in his 40s or 50s do this? A young man has little to lose but an older established man has MUCH TO LOSE!

there is a guy in my church–50ish who is sniffing after this 30 something c~~~ who has a severe case of the baby-rabies and yes he is planning to do the unthinkable—become a beta provider. WHY WHY WHY?

I agree. If you marry young, at least when the divorce hits, you can still rebuild in your 30’s or 40’s. It’s harder to rebuild in your fifties and higher. Like having kids. If you DO have them young, at least by the time you’re midlife, they’re out of school. But having kids at 40 and over is ridiculous.

[X11Spectator 4520]

Quiet a few church kids here signed up for no sex before marriage.

They are now marrying real young so they can indulge their horny desires.

Don’t think it will end well for a lot of them. Will see in 20, 30 years time….or less.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

I am in my mid 20s. What I am seeing is, only those guys who didn’t have much luck with girls are getting married early. Mostly to their first or second girlfriend. All the PUAs and who were popular among girls are still unmarried.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

I have a 20 something co-worker is heading off to the Alter of Doom VERY SOON……

So F~~~in SAD, but He’s going to be the Real SAD one, He just doesn’t know it YET !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 3]

Morpheus wrote:

I am in my mid 20s. What I am seeing is, only those guys who didn’t have much luck with girls are getting married early. Mostly to their first or second girlfriend. All the PUAs and who were popular among girls are still unmarried.

Most of them are full of s~~~.

That is why so many of those famous PUAs marry post wall women, then apologize for everything and s~~~ all over each other. Mystery, Neil Strauss, all of them. ROK is trying to turn into tradcon after all the s~~~ they spewed too.

It seems like it happened every decade. PUAs talk up a good game, trick young men, young men figure it out and turn on them, it all blows up and then a new wave of suckers comes in and the same thing happens. If you have no morals and can get in on it, I guess now is the time to market to another naive crop of sexless 20 something year old men.

High SMV women do not allow themselves to be used, because they want to keep their SMV high. The guys getting married young are the good guys that these high SMV women covet.

Then the rest of the garbage sees that, and they snap up the average guys, and that’s where most of the problems are—average men and women. Then after that is the worst of the worst, the trash women screaming where are all the good men, with the lowest SMVs, pretending they are the most attractive of all.

Now none of this is a guarantee, the only guarantee is just never get married. But the dopes that get married later on are picking from the guaranteed failure pile.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

CG27 wrote:

What does a man get from being married that he can’t get without being married?

The young guys get tired of chasing the vagina. They honestly believe among other things that getting married will give them a 24/7 all access pass to their “loving wife’s” body. Reality sets in the first time she says “not tonight” or gives him an attitude for wanting so much sex.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Anonymous wrote:

If you have no morals and can get in on it, I guess now is the time to market to another naive crop of sexless 20 something year old men.

I really do not give a s~~~. Tried giving a few red pill to others. But to no vain. If someone spews a red pill first, then only i bother to explain to him the entire story.

[Anonymous 3]

Mr. Spock wrote:

CG27 wrote:

What does a man get from being married that he can’t get without being married?

The young guys get tired of chasing the vagina. They honestly believe among other things that getting married will give them a 24/7 all access pass to their “loving wife’s” body. Reality sets in the first time she says “not tonight” or gives him an attitude for wanting so much sex.

If they are religious or in another time, they would be right. The Bible literally states ownership of spouses’ bodies belongs to each other.

Marital rape is a legal fiction made up in the 70s, along with no fault divorce, that spread throughout the US and gutted it.

And of course, historically, adulterers were stoned to death.

The West has refused to give any and all authority and rights of husbands or protect the sanctity of marriage for a long time now, instead making it a joke and a means of cuckolding and emasculating manhood.

It is quite idiotic for men to marry today, but again, it’s worse for older men. I can still give a pass to young men. I just can not give that pass to any man in his mid-20s and higher, and with any woman over the age of 20.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

IRuleMe wrote:

I agree. If you marry young, at least when the divorce hits, you can still rebuild in your 30’s or 40’s. It’s harder to rebuild in your fifties and higher.

I don’t think that is even true. You might lose out on a smaller dollar amount because you’ve had less time to accumulate wealth…but you also lose out on compounding time.

If you marry at 25, then divorce at 35 and lose 100k of cash that otherwise would be invested in the market(which isn’t even a huge amount compared to what some guys on here lost in divorce), then retire at 65…that 100k in the stock market if you average 8% per year would have grown into 1 million dollars. In the long run you got f~~~ed over just as hard as someone who lost a half million in their 50s.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Beer wrote:

El C~~~o Punto wrote:

I agree. If you marry young, at least when the divorce hits, you can still rebuild in your 30’s or 40’s. It’s harder to rebuild in your fifties and higher.

I don’t think that is even true. You might lose out on a smaller dollar amount because you’ve had less time to accumulate wealth…but you also lose out on compounding time.

If you marry at 25, then divorce at 35 and lose 100k of cash that otherwise would be invested in the market(which isn’t even a huge amount compared to what some guys on here lost in divorce), then retire at 65…that 100k in the stock market if you average 8% per year would have grown into 1 million dollars. In the long run you got f~~~ed over just as hard as someone who lost a half million in their 50s.

A person in their 40’s and 50’s has to start over with more time and resources having been invested. Give a woman half your s~~~ in your 50’s. Give a woman half your s~~~ in your 20’s. It’s not the same. You have a bigger mountain to climb in your later years when you’re approaching retirement. In your younger years you can always get a better job and earn more money. That doesn’t often happen in your twilight years.

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