It’s nobody’s fault

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I’ve noticed how everyone seems blameless. You can chalk things up to whatever you like, but I’ve always hated that about human beings. Let me explain.

Whenever something happens, people have a tendency to say
-It was god’s plan
-It was fate
-It was never meant to be
-Oh, I can’t do “blank” because it’s not in my genes

People tend to arbitrarily limit themselves on things that are out of their control. Don’t get me wrong, genetics can make things harder, but people always absolve themselves of any responsibility in life. Like they have absolutely no control over anything, and they always chalk it up to something else. I’m not digging on religious people here, others do it with genetics and so they don’t work hard at sports. There’s a place for hard work and perseverance out there. If you work hard, you can control a great deal of your life. I know there are theories about free will and all that saying we have no choice in anything, but I’ll ignore that for now. I hope this jumbled mess came across ok. I just wish people didn’t make excuses so much.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[AttonParticipant]

I’ve had the problem in my past of blaming my issues on things outside of my control. Too often people do the same thing I did and still do to an extent. If you get past that you find yourself in a much better place.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Whenever something happens, people have a tendency to say
-It was god’s plan
-It was fate
-It was never meant to be
-Oh, I can’t do “blank” because it’s not in my genes

Perhaps you should ignore these individuals or simply tell them their only fault with their lives is that their mothers brought them full term.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Psychological projection https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

Is there a public speech by a prominent feminist that does not do this? Is there a social media entry by a dateless woman that does not do this?

Those who do not do this are quite rare in the general population. I avoid them as best I can, but the world is full of them, women and men alike.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

What you can control or change …. do so as you wish.

What you cannot …. you cannot. Spend no time on trying.

Many years ago I had a mindset change. It was very mgtow … it was …. F~~~ IT.

I don’t dwell nor blame. When I fail I either learn or walk away.

I don’t give it a second thought.

Don’t get me wrong … just like flying … I will fight s~~~ all the way to impact and won’t stop trying to pull up ….. but will walk away either having learned or not giving a s~~~ ….. or both.

Blame is for the weak ….. women …. politicians.

[UntamedParticipant]

Seem is the key word here.
No one is blameless. We all have a part to play in this world and no one can say they haven’t done anything to f~~~ their life up at some point or someone’s else, although these days the system is designed to royally f~~~ us in every way possible and imaginable but the “System” is made up of people of who are too afraid to lose their job or plain assholes to actually try to correct some wrong when they are able to.
This world didn’t get crazy and f~~~ed up all by itself. In my eyes we’re ALL guilty in some way or another but is it really useful to go around weeping for the blame we carry? I think not.
Let’s not forget also that as much as we’re guilty for certain things we are at the same time other people’s victims and it would make great disservice to ignore the fact that not all bad situations are initiated by those who “seem blameless” and that if there is one thing this society creates in its unrelenting push for inhalation it’s Victims of all kinds so let’s not pretend to live in the best ideal world while formulating thoughts and opinions about topics as tricky as Blame.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

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