IT IS NOT A MID LIFE THING

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

It is the celebration ” my money,my time and my Johnson is MINE again

[Gravel PitParticipant]

MGTOW truly is the path to self-actualization and INNER SERENITY. It starts with ceasing: stopping the seeking of validation, fulfillment and affection of a female. We do not need cuddles or mommy. We need breathing room. Room to THINK. Room to find our MALE Eagle. We heal the Eagle and we let the Eagle SOAR.

For me, the EAGLE HAS LANDED!

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I have been told by many women that me not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”. It is a slap in the face for an adult male to not be under a woman’s thumb.If a man has a new car that he was not able nor permitted access to the the fruits of his labor.That new corvette convertible and the outward happiness shown, may cause escape of other slaves from matriarchal societies plantation

[TaxGuyParticipant]

shovelheadrider wrote:

I have been told by many women that me not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”. It is a slap in the face for an adult male to not be under a woman’s thumb.If a man has a new car that he was not able nor permitted access to the the fruits of his labor.That new corvette convertible and the outward happiness shown, may cause escape of other slaves from matriarchal societies plantation

You must be a loser.
You must be gay.
You must be selfish.
You must live in your parent’s basement.
You must……………..

What you will NEVER hear them say:

You must be happy.

Order the good wine

[JVBParticipant]

shovelheadrider wrote:

I have been told by many women that me not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”.

Yip. Watch me bitch……..I’m just getting started.

Peace is > piece.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

shovelheadrider wrote:

not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”.

None of them understand. I TRIED to find a longterm mate. I put in my effort and time. A sustained effort bro. I kissed up to women. I made the first move. I was polite and sweet. I got in shape. I make more money. I don’t drink/drug or smoke.

Women just don’t like me for some reason. I dont get it. I guess its my personality (too weird) or that I just can’t hold my attention or interest on them…

I just dont play well with women. You know what I mean? There are fugly dudes with no money yet picking up pussy and sustaining an LTR is no problem to them! I dont understand.

What I do know is this. I put out MASSIVE VIBES for years and did all the little things to put myself out there and show women that I was available and that I was willing to be Mr. Right, a husband, a father, all of it.

I even dated and lived with a Single Mother bro. I was willing to be a CUCK, literally.

All I ever got back was betrayal, rejection, manipulation, crushed emotions and had the rug pulled out under me time and time again.

So when a MAN turns 30 and decides that he’s DONE being treated like that and that if any woman wants his TIME and PRESENCE then THEY NEED TO PURSUE HIM. That means that Im not chasing… <- this means you’re single for life because women will not pursue you.

So thats that. I dont consider myself INCEL, not at all. The problem was never with me. Im not involuntarily anything… The problem is that MODERN SOCIETY HAS SPOILED AND DISTRACTED WOMEN SO BADLY that they don’t even desire/need/want men in their life. This is why the birthrate is below 2 (an alarming statistic that shows we’re in REALLY BAD trouble as a species).

MODERNITY and Sexual Dimorphism is CLASHING AND COLLIDING in a death spiral for our species. WE MUST obliterate women’s rights OR (since we know repealing the 19th and misandric family court laws is impossible) we must remove sexual reproduction from being a private ordeal. Surrogacy will become the new norm.

But as for carrying on traditionally with a woman, marriage, kids, big house and pickett fence… that is a fairy tale. It just cant be obtained, I TRIED… women do not react to it. Instead, women want to spend all their time on Fakebook and buyng SUV Crossovers. They get bulls~~~ degrees and make six figures and f~~~ random strangers in bars… They’re not even on this planet anymore, they’re like dogs that have been dropped off at a boarding facility to play all day and chase their own tails. Except that 5 oclock never rolls around for the owner to come pick them up… its STUCK like that.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Its not that men are swearing off marriage. I challenge you to actually try and get married. You cant! Women are distracted and simply not available for LTRs, I can’t even score one-night stands. I guess Im not a practiced philanderer.

The only way you can get married is you’re clearly wealthy and some gold digger wants to live off you…

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

TaxGuy wrote:

You must be a loser.
You must be gay.
You must be selfish.
You must live in your parent’s basement.
You must……………..

Please, go slower! I’m writing this down!

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[AwakenedParticipant 35223]

shovelheadrider wrote:

I have been told by many women that me not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”.

Unfortunately, NOT wanting a wife and children in this backwards upside down Matrix has NOTHING to do with being selfish, but more about PERSONAL CHOICES.

I find it quite telling how a Woman wants her procreational CHOICES, but for some reason when a man makes HIS PROCREATIONAL CHOICES he’s labeled ‘selfish”.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh
Mid life, end of life, or a new life. It’s just a shaming tactic.
What a lot of people forget is that my life is MINE, and your life is YOURS. I do whats best for me, and others can do what is best for them.
If being alone, with boxed wine, cats, and having an external uterus due to gravity is in their future that is their choice.
If having old man b~~~~, having control over my assets, doing what I want with no-one trying to be my boss in my home and life, and being content with life is my future, then that is MY choice.
It’s not my beach and not my clam bake.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[BeerParticipant 11832]

They didn’t want to settle down when we were in our 20s, riding the carousel was more fun. I don’t want to settle down when we are in our 30s when they have a mountain of baggage. Seems pretty fair to me.

You’ll often hear women talk about how men feel entitled to sex. Well funny thing, once they hit the wall and fall off the carousel, they feel entitled to a husband. Guess what ladies, you aren’t entitled to a good husband any more than a man is entitled to sex.

Honestly though, if you just turned 30…you are just getting into your prime where the game changes. I had a girl offer to buy me a shot last weekend when I was out listening to a band while sitting at the bar of a local pub with my buddy. After I told her no thanks, she pulled out her wallet and whipped out a 100 like she was showing cash off and I was supposed to be impressed. After she left the female bartender was making fun of her for trying to show off a hundred after she flipped through a bunch of smaller bills. They get desperate, that s~~~ never would have happened if she was 10 years younger.

About 20 minutes after that one a hotter, younger one squeezed in between my buddy and I to order some fancy drink with a 10 in hand. It wasn’t enough. She pulled her purse out and was digging through looking for a few more bucks and I just said “Uh oh…she’s digging deep” as she was fishing around for a few singles. I got the look of death from her. What? Was I supposed to offer to help her out or something? I just laughed. She was back about an hour later with her female friend buying her a drink. Apparently she didn’t bring enough money for her own drinks and no guys were buying. All I could think was just wait honey…I saw what you’ll be doing in 5, 10 years tops a little earlier…not only will you be bringing money for your own drinks but you’ll be offering to buy drinks for guys if you want some dick.

After we had our fun at the bar we walked downstairs to a restaurant that was still open. The waitress was chatting me up. Apparently she was a couple years younger than me and knew me from high school. I didn’t remember her at all and had no clue who she was, but I just kinda acted like I remembered her because it seemed like the less awkward thing to do. At that point it would have been the easiest thing ever to just say “Let me get your number, we should go grab a drink some time when you aren’t working and get caught up.” I couldn’t be bothered though…she already hit the wall.

Late 20s to early 30s you start to notice the shift in power, and its not long after you start to notice it that its literally game over for them.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22593]

shovelheadrider wrote:

I have been told by many women that me not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”. It is a slap in the face for an adult male to not be under a woman’s thumb.If a man has a new car that he was not able nor permitted access to the the fruits of his labor.That new corvette convertible and the outward happiness shown, may cause escape of other slaves from matriarchal societies plantation

Having a wife is also selfish. Wives demand to be taken care of, thats why they marry. If thats not true why arent they marrying broke guys or guys earning less than they do so they can take care of the guy? Selfish. Like men must be some womans personal welfare supplier else hes selfish. No comparative stigma on single women. No stigma in only wanting to marry a guy who makes more than she does. Imagine if a guy had that standard for a wife. The women would be youre just greedy and lazy and care about money?!? Well thats how we see women who do this for millenia, sweetie pie.

Having kids is selfish.

The #1 and #2 reasons they all spout to have kids: dont you want someone to take care of you when youre old (total selfish), and do you want to die alone or surrounded by loved ones (selfish).

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Beer nailed it just then.

Beer wrote:

they feel entitled to a husband (after they ride the c~~~ carousel, carefree)

I roll my eyes when I see the 25-30 year old girl flaunting her sex appeal and thinking she is out of my league… these c~~~s have NO IDEA the wall even exists. In 5 years time she will be ruined for life with not one decent man willing to accept her. She’s no better than 2 day old leftovers in the fridge.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Having a wife is also selfish.

They love to talk about those studies that claim how marriage is better for men, married men live longer, blah blah. Well…I’d hate to be a burden on one of them. By me not marrying I am making an altruistic sacrifice on behalf of a woman, one of them will live a better life because they don’t have to take care of a lazy slob like me!

Gravel Pit wrote:

I roll my eyes when I see the 25-30 year old girl flaunting her sex appeal and thinking she is out of my league… these c~~~s have NO IDEA the wall even exists. In 5 years time she will be ruined for life with not one decent man willing to accept her. She’s no better than 2 day old leftovers in the fridge.

Funny thing about getting older…when I was 27 looking at a 27 year old hottie, the thought never occurred to me that in just a few short years there was a damn good chance on a 1-10 scale, they’d easily be at least -3 points from where they were right now. Now I’m 35…when I look at the same 27 year olds…all I can think is tick tock. Looks like their grandmother’s generation had it right when they prioritized marrying early in life. I hope they enjoy their cats!

[Branched offParticipant 11045]

Delaying marriage to ride the c~~~ carousel was the worst thing women ever did for themselves. In doing so they lose all their value.

Feminism kills women’s chances of long term happiness, security and love and also kills men’s chances too. When they are hot outside riding that carousel, they are still ugly inside because they want to cuck you or pump and dump you. When they are done riding and hit the wall or are just pre wall and desperate you simply don’t want them as they are ugly inside unable to ever bond deeply because they have ridden so many c~~~s and they are ugly outside because their fertility is fading.

We just have to make the best of a crap world thanks to feminism and avoid its ruined women.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Gravel PitParticipant]

cats and dildos is funny but its the truth!
If you go in their house, its a mess, and there will be at least one cat and a drawer full of vibrators and dildos..

This is not a joke, its the SAD reality for women over the age of 35

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10935]

Feminism told women that they had the right to f~~~ as many different men as they could whenever they had the chance. They justified it by pointing out that men do it too. Then when they hit the wall and their SMV plummets, the rules change in favor of the guys. Looks aren’t supposed to matter and you are shallow if you turn down some bitch because she is 40 pounds overweight or she doesn’t look young. You aren’t allowed to use the standards on women that were used on you when you were younger. Never mind how wrecked her life is with her kids and mounting debt. All of a sudden you are expected to over look all her flaws while she goes over her list of requirements her next man must live up to.
No thanks. I wasn’t good enough for you then and I am not interested now.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Feminism told women that they had the right to f~~~ as many different men as they could whenever they had the chance. They justified it by pointing out that men do it too. Then when they hit the wall and their SMV plummets, the rules change in favor of the guys. Looks aren’t supposed to matter and you are shallow if you turn down some bitch because she is 40 pounds overweight or she doesn’t look young. You aren’t allowed to use the standards on women that were used on you when you were younger. Never mind how wrecked her life is with her kids and mounting debt. All of a sudden you are expected to over look all her flaws while she goes over her list of requirements her next man must live up to.

I love when they want to act like the number of dicks they have taken prior to you should be a non factor. Well lets see, you’ve hopped on 20+ dicks before mine and want me to sign a marriage contract essentially saying my dick will be your last…but you can break that contract and take half my s~~~ whenever you want? Yeah…no thanks. I’d rather judge them based upon how they have acted for the last 10-15 years of their life than whatever bulls~~~ they are telling me right now, which is obviously just bulls~~~ so they can get their way.

[MonkParticipant 17069]

shovelheadrider wrote:

I have been told by many women that me not having a wife and children that ‘I was selfish”.

When you hear that you can smell the fear.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Gravel Pit wrote:

So when a MAN turns 30 and decides that he’s DONE being treated like that and that if any woman wants his TIME and PRESENCE then THEY NEED TO PURSUE HIM. That means that Im not chasing… <- this means you’re single for life because women will not pursue you.

Try having money and saying that. You CAN’T. If women find out I have any money at all they hound me. That’s why I try to make it look like I’m a poor dude.

I mean f~~~…just owning your own house is enough to get some of them to come after you like leeches. F~~~ ’em (though not literally!).

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