it hurts so bad first post

[danielmgtowParticipant 19]

it hurts so bad i barely see my daughter ,now talking about my childs mother ..it hurts so bad because the things she had said to me has left and impact on my life .the things me and her have been through has effected for years even causing more trauma in other relationships i have turned into a loner and a very smart man but only to realize i am so small in this big world .i wish that i could change back the clock of time and really just have been more patient more understanding but i am now 26 years some say that is young but really i feel like 80 i have one daughter i am so ashamed of myself because i barely know her but she still treats me good and loves me as her dad the few times i get to see her .me and my baby mother always fighting even sometimes getting out of hand .to protect my daughter sake i completely stay away but i feel tarnished because now i feel like part of me my child that i brought into this world i am away from my mom and family gets to spend all the time with her while i am pushed to the side of none existance women only know you when things are great it seems like they are colder ice in a fridge for over 10 years if they cannot controll you its not talking they are not respecting my at all all i have is my pride i am not rich if i give them my pride then what am i left with i ask god the higher power to give me the strength and confidence to face life but this hurts so bad its a pain that maybe i say i deserve maybe my mistake not listening earlier to family caused this i do not exactly know but i do know that it hurts i do know that i walk around like i am the tuffest man alive but i do know that it hurts thank you if you are listening i hope you gain wisdom from this article and maybe you advice can strengthen me and my pain can avoid you from that hurt to stay in balance stay deligent patient and very understanding to your friends and family .

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Welcome brother and so sorry to hear the s~~~ you are going through.

danielmgtow wrote:

i am now 26 years some say that is young but really i feel like 80

You are one of the, if not, the youngest on this site who has gone through s~~~ and found this website as refuge.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Daniel:

Welcome. You say that your daughter loves you and that you love her. So focus on that. Today doesn’t define the rest of your life. Figure out how to spend more time with her. Trust me, it goes by fast.

Order the good wine

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the fold.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Welcome to the sanctuary.
Sorry about your daughter.
Can’t really relate so got no advice.
Good luck.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Dan, what are your future goals? You say that your daughter loves and respects you, then that’s great news it wasn’t in vain and you can work on ensuring she has a good upbringing rather than relying on the toxicity of her mother’s advice or the degenerate, blue pilled crap from society that’s meant to poison your daughter’s mind.

However, at the same time you’re also in distress and very upset from all the chaos that just recently erupted in your life. But you must change your situation around and do something productive or you will be swallowed whole by the darkness you’re in.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro . I will come back to this thread later when i got more time .

You are in the wright place . Lots of good bro’s on here . Remember you are not alone .

Humor is good medicine .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[UntamedParticipant]

Welcome to the club, brother.
Tell yourself that everything that happens to you now is necessary in order for you to grow into a new life, a C~~~-Free peaceful life.
Just like the caterpillar who suffers in the cocoon to come out changed and full of vibrant colors, you also will come out at the other end of this hellish experience with renewed vigor and a colorful outlook on life.
The pain and anguish are just some of the things that drove us out to MGTOW and start the long process of healing and claiming sovereignity over our lives, our bodies, our choices.
Too many Men aren’t as lucky as we are to be able to enjoy free air or even live. Many of our brothers are languishing in prison over false accusations and the least fortunate of our brothers have exited this world through suicide.
I was almost part of the latter group so hear me when I tell you that what you’re thinking today, what you see and feel is not YOU but the results of abuse on your person.
Don’t beat yourself over the head for what you had NO control over. Had you been able to be and do everything perfect like you might wish I bet it would not have made a difference.
Don’t let your X mold your reality and continue to control and hurt you through your child. I know your daughter is young and it’s the hardest when they are yet it isn’t over. You’re still a father and you can make a difference in your daughter’s life if you start taking care of YOURSELF now.
What good are you going to be to your daughter 10 years down the line if you’ve fallen without the will to get back up?

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[bladeParticipant]

When you say pain bro is it depression with like physical pain . Mulling over things in your head over what has happened and can’t help having those thoughts ?

I just want you to know things will get easier . Things can change in the blink of an eye .

There are many men here including myself that were close to the end . Some like myself threw knowledge on this site have had our situations change a bit when it comes to our kids .

I once thought i was going crazy and thought i was the problem . Phsycologists i found the worst in my journey with councillors been at the better end . But this place was golden . It litterally saved my life . No where else did i find help like i did here .

Keep your contact going with your daughter don’t give that up . Mothers of today like fighting with there daughters . Curious if your daughter is in her teens .

My daughter’s were brain washed against me by there mother and the legal system . Now they are all for me . One is now living back close to me with older sister after been badly abused . She is a force to be reckoned with for a young teen . She is good at speaking and is putting the people that put her in that environment in her target . Young teenage girl attacking the hive .

Her words the other day after a call she made .
VVVVVVVVVVVVVV
“THEY CAN’T RUN AN OFFICE HOW THE F~~~ CAN YOU RUN A COUNTRY .

LOL . Thats me girl

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 6]

You’re in the right place. Many of the fellas have been through what you’ve been through, they know what you’re talking about. MGTOW was created for you.

[danielmgtowParticipant 19]

thanks brother

[danielmgtowParticipant 19]

thanks alot

[danielmgtowParticipant 19]

lol thats funny bro thanks

[danielmgtowParticipant 19]

thanks alot brother

[Anonymous 1]

You say you feel 80 that will change. Focus on yourself and your well being. Start cooking at home for yourself. Get active and live Your life. If you hit a low spot, come here. To vent to seek advice.

[danielmgtowParticipant 19]

i will thanks alot good advice

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

Welcome home dude, take a seat on the couch, browse your way through the other stories of the sheer ass pain that other men have gone through.

Love may hurt, but divorce can kill you.

Spend your time on here scouring these pages for motes of wisdom and lock them deep in your brain! Their are so many stories of men who have their lives destroyed and have dealt with some serious mental and emotional ass pain on here and they described how they dealt with it.

Find your peace of mind, find your center.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Take a deep breath and breathe. Everything will work out in the end. It may take some time, but karma will come back and do right by you. Stay the course and fight the good fight. Stay strong for your kid.

MGTOW SPEED.

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