It happens

[ThrasherParticipant 37]

If there’s something that the majority of my acquaintances (including my parents) have said to me is that “dating just happens” or similarities like:

“Someday you’ll find someone”

“You can’t just predict it”

“You say that you’ll never date in your life but tomorrow you might say otherwise”

I have never dated in my whole life (I’m 17 years old) but after researching about MGTOW and reading the stories from lots of men who dated/married/divorced I thought it would be wiser to take the advices and use them to avoid relationships with wimmenz. Without considering that where I live, feminism here had dominated young minds.

What is your opinion about this? Do you really think that dating “just happens”?

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Bulls~~~. Everything’s cause and effect. You only s~~~ if you eat food, you only p~~~ if you drink. You only date if you try to. Hell, for women it might “Just happen” ,but for men it won’t happen unless you go out and make it happen. It will only happen if you put your mind to it. This only highlights typical female attitudes towards life. They expect and think things just happen.

As a man, I know different. Men build space ships, sky scrapers, and the whole damn world. That didn’t “just happen”. Women sit around and wait for things to “just happen” and men go out and make them happen. It won’t happen if you don’t want it to, and you take the precautions to make it not happen. You have the power, brother. Use it how you want to.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[ThrasherParticipant 37]

It won’t happen if you don’t want it to, and you take the precautions to make it not happen.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Silverstone. You know, women might see things this way not only for dating but what bothers me is that there are dudes out there who also say the same s~~~. Somehow, these dudes are the same whose relationships didn’t last much longer and only dated “innocent” gals (and by “innocent” I mean girls without much common sense).

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Dating “just happens” for women.
Men make dating happen. Women don’t do much in that equation – they just say “Yes i like that c~~~tail” or “No that sushi tastes gross”, are the recipients of free drinks, dinners, etc.

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Welcome to the world of dating. First of all:

1. Nothing ever happened if women was in charge of dating (especially not first dates).
2. Men put in the most effort when it comes to dating & courtship

This one cracks me up: “I want to be equal, but it’s a men’s job to ask me out”

[Anonymous 26]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Everything’s cause and effect

I concur…. NOTHING in a man’s life that is within his control happens without him deciding to act or not.

You eat well and exercise regularly, your body will take care of you.
You keep up regular maintenance on your vehicle and don’t drive it like you stole it, and it will last.
Your wise with you finances and don’t blow your cash on trinkets and crap you don’t really need, and your in a better financial situation.
You drink once and while and don’t get drunk every weekend, and you won’t age so quickly and have your liver and other organs fail early.

I could go on and on with examples…… it happens for women more easily (as other members have pointed out), because that’s the way nature designed it. When a female in the animal kingdom goes into heat…. the males compete during the rutting season for the dominance to breed.

Mgtow philosophy (and maybe someone else can add to this if am off)…. even ten females are in heat, am walking away. WAIT…. bad example.

Ten UGLY women go into heat…… am running away (am only human for f~~~ sakes)

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Thrasher wrote:

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Silverstone. You know, women might see things this way not only for dating but what bothers me is that there are dudes out there who also say the same s~~~. Somehow, these dudes are the same whose relationships didn’t last much longer and only dated “innocent” gals (and by “innocent” I mean girls without much common sense).

Then those guys are whipped mother f~~~ers. They like to sit back and think they’ve made the right decision in life. It’s like how some people are loyal to a brand just because they bought a ford orr chevy. They are loyal because their ego is invested in that brand. And some men are invested in this idea of relationships even though they are miserable. You’re only miserable if you let yourself be.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Heed the advice of the previous posts. They have nailed it, one and all.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[chirParticipant]

MattNYC is spot on. Men are the initiators of dating. Once again s~~~ don’t get done unless the man initiates the chase. Women simply throw out some bait and wait for the man who wants it the most to initiate the chase “date” and get set on the hook for dinners, and other entertainment. If you swim by the bait it p~~~es women off because you have depreciated their sexual value. Thusly you must be a woman hater. This is how they recover from rejection. Try to shame the man and then take the mantle of victimhood.
As MGTOW we just keep on swimming. Let the blue pills get hooked, landed and gutted.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[Anonymous 11]

I found that my return on investment for dating is very poor over the years. I’ve quit dating in the traditional sense. I used to be that initiating fool. Well, no more free dinners on me.

Now, I just put myself in places where tourist women way younger than I congregate. Sometimes lighting strikes. Little or no effort is required on my part. It happens then.

The best part is that they leave.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

17 is very young. Society likes to tell you that you should be a player at that age, but don’t listen. Hell, I didn’t even hit my full height until I was 19. Don’t let anyone tell you how fast you should grow up when it comes to dealing with women.
I was always told growing up that some woman would catch me, whether I wanted it or not. Bulls~~~. If you don’t make the first move it is very unlikely that anything will happen. I am 57 now, and I can tell you that (in my experience) the old adage that “a man chases a woman until she catches him” holds largely true.
I’m 57 now, and have not been caught. I have dated and got laid some because, well, penis. The carousel always needs horses. A few women even thought they had me caught, but when the jaws closed I was not there. No babies, no commitment, no guilt. I claim no special status or skill, just a knowledge that they can’t control you unless you let them, and that common sense is your armor. It worked for me, your mileage may vary.
Most women are cowards when it comes to risking rejection. It stings them more than a slap across the jowls. They will twirl their hair, make eyes at you, wave their titties in your face, but if you don’t make the move nothing is gonna happen. That part is up to you. Even if you do “date” them, if you haven’t been careless you can turn away at any time. They will have no power over you beyond what you give them. The risk to their egos is too high.

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