Is this weird?

[singledad984Participant 201]

The past year since my divorce I’ve dated girls mostly just to sleep with them! I live in a small town of 2000 so my options on women are pretty limited! I live about 55 miles from the nearest big city. So 90% of the girls I’ve met I’ve had to drive 55 miles to meet. And most of them I’ve slept with and that’s all I want is sex and nothing else but here lately something weird has happened! I don’t even want sex anymore! After I think about driving 55 miles and dropping $30 on gas and another $50 on beer and dinner in hopes of getting laid I think screw this it isn’t worth it! So I just stay home and to be honest I don’t chase pussy anymore! Unless it shows up at my front door I’m definitely not having sex Bc I sure as hell not spending time and money chasing it!! I got better things to do like watch the last season of  Sons of Anarchy on Netflix or play with my b~~~~ for that matter!! Is this strange that I really have no desire to put forth the effort to get laid? Seems like that time and money could be well spent on my career, my house, or something else!

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Sex just isn’t what most of these women are asking for it, indeed. Especially considering the most likely scenario is she won’t give you head and she will lay on her back and be a boring c~~~. If the most likely scenario is she sucks my dick and rides me like a champ, maybe I spend some money on her. But wasting time and money on the off chance you can get a boring lay, man f~~~ that s~~~.

[BONEParticipant 448]

Nope, not “weird” at all…take that word and throw it in the garbage, I don’t know about you and other guys here but I take big offense when somebody calls me or the way I live my life “weird”, It’s one of the most shaming words in the English vocabulary. As far as you driving 55 miles to f~~~ women AFTER divorce is concerned, now I can’t speak from experience but it seems like when most (if not all) men get divorced they go on a sex rampage, f~~~ing and dumping everything in sight…if that’s what you gotta do to get over the divorce then f~~~ it.. know im saying? f~~~ all the women you want. In the end, Yes it is all pointless and that to me is the journey of MGTOW, stepping the f~~~ back and realizing all this s~~~ was pointless.

[TheReaperParticipant 27]

Nope, not weird at all (At least I dont find it odd)

I too dated quite a bit after the breakdown of my relationship, spent the money, met the girls, got laid…..repeat.

However I found that I was getting sick of doing all the running around and spending cash that could be put to other uses. the sex wasnt that great and half of the time I would have had more fun at home or out having a few drinks with friends that I actually give a s~~~ about.

 

I am now completely off sex, it dosent interest me in the slightest for the moment and I haven’t bothered for over a year, is this weird? possibly, does it make me happy? absolutely, and to me that’s all that counts

[Anonymous 11]

Facing a 110 mile round trip plus having to spend $80 hoping to get laid, I can fully understand it just not being worth it. I live in a city that attracts hordes of tourists and can take a $5 cab ride to multiple meat markets. It’s not worth the expense and effort to me either considering how many snakes they have in their heads and considering how many other c~~~s could have been in that hole over the prior 24 hours.

[AntaresParticipant 208]

singledad984 wrote:

So I just stay home and to be honest I don’t chase pussy anymore! Unless it shows up at my front door I’m definitely not having sex Bc I sure as hell not spending time and money chasing it!!

Never let “if you’re not getting laid you’re a loser” (or weird) mentality set in. It’s a form of traditional shaming language designed to keep you chasing women whether you want to or not. If you want pussy, chaise it. If you don’t, don’t. Just don’t feel too bad if you keep away so long and realize what a waste of time and energy it was. Some guys want it bad so it’s worth it, some guys don’t.

singledad984 wrote:

I got better things to do

You’re damn right you do.

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

It’s straight up cost / benefit analysis:
 . . . . . . . (gas money + beer money + time + putting up with her s~~~ + listening to her s~~~) > (pussy)
Ergo, f~~~ it.
Seems counter-intuitive when you believe the lie society has rammed into you head since birth, but blatantly obvious when you see thru the lie.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Nope not weird at all, in fact its normal to become accustomed/bored over the same routine even moreso if you drive 50 miles for it. Never been married divorced so thank god for that, been in a few LTRs and when they were over. I’d go off on these broads like Wilt “the stilt” but after repeating the same cycle, it got old rather quickly especially after I saw how generic these women were, they’re all carbon copies of stupid. Why the hell should I have to pay for their time, I shouldn’t.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[narwhalParticipant]

Not weird at all.  After my divorce, I similarly wanted to go out and get laid, but the thrill wore off after a while.   For me though, a part of that was just wanting to know ‘I still had it’ after the ego crushing divorce, and I won’t presume your the same.  Now, I can’t find the want to, and I’m perfectly fine with that.

Ok. Then do it.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

There’s a high end jewelry store near my home. I drive past it all the time. There are some really beautiful, but useless things in there that are WILDLY overpriced. I don’t shop there. I keep my time and money and don’t feel weird for that decision.

There’s also a high end nightclub near my home.

(Replace ‘jewelry store’ with ‘nightclub’ and re-read first paragraph above)

Both paragraphs are equally true…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

got divorced two years ago, but haven’t even chased tail at all since.
not like I don’t want to f~~~, but it’s just way too much work
my bulls~~~ radar is just so sensitive now, that I don’t see myself putting up with any of it.
go find some manginas or players ladies.
I am not interested
call me lazy, call me weird, call me loser – whatever you want.
I’ll just smile in your face and tell you to go f~~~ yourself
out of the game, out of the gynocentric system – not going to pay for anything, ask or gravel, not gonna tell you compliments, not gonna try to explain myself… two words: not interested.
don’t even want a hooker.
if you want it honey – you might get it if you seem alright. but you would have to find me and prove yourself worthy, because I won’t do it. I know my worth and I don’t need your approval or flashy things to prove it.
This is me GMOW and all you needy parasitic stupid entitled cuties can go look for some manginas or PUAs. I am not turning into them just to get in your panties. It’s not worth it.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RedHeadedStrangerParticipant 204]

You sir, are a f~~~ing weirdo.  You do not belong here.  Get the f~~~ out.

[RedHeadedStrangerParticipant 204]

RedHeadedStranger wrote:

You sir, are a f~~~ing weirdo. You do not belong here. Get the f~~~ out.

haha, that was fun for me, just kidding, and welcome to my world =)

[BONEParticipant 448]

Lol wow.

[EnlightenedMGTOWParticipant 291]

Don’t live your life around others’ approval and do whatever the f~~~ you want. End of story.

Marriage is the disease, divorce is the cure. MGTOW is the vaccine.

[singledad984Participant 201]

 

 

Don’t live your life around others’ approval and do whatever the f~~~ you want. End of story.

Great advice! After all that’s what mgtow is all about correct?

 

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Yup. Red pill does not end with women and gynocentrism. It’s more than that – it’s about stopping living up to others approval and expectations; it’s about seeing through propaganda and social engineering, it’s about understanding money and politics, it’s about soaring through the matrix of bulls~~~ like in GTA 5 for PC mods and using all the tools of the matrix to your advantage how you see fit.
Sure you’d think it might seem a bit weird for blue-pillers at first, but:
1) why would you care what blue-pillers think? It is their own business
2) they won’t really think you are weird after they realize you’re miles ahead of them, so you’ll earn their respect, they’ll envy you , and they themselves might start taking red pills!
Godspeed MGTOW

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RoyDalParticipant]

I made the same decision. (And I know I’m not weird!)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[lukeylalaParticipant 56]

I haven’t had sex for just over 2 and a half years. I just cannot be bothered to spend money and waste time ‘chasing tail’ anymore. The ‘weird’ thing though? I’ve grown as a person more in those 2 years than my whole life.. Focus on yourself and good things will happen.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Hi, KGB

I agree:

they’ll envy you , and they themselves might start taking red pills!

But if they don’t take the red pill, and very few really do, they will hate you as they envy you.

Sour grapes.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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