Is this the matrix?

[eng_87Participant 122]

Evening gents,

Miles again, recently introduced, fresh MGHOW of two days.

I have spent the weekend, getting back on my feet, as such I decided to dip into my savings and go for a shop for some new shirts and some good quality leather shoes (as a man, I have found shoes to be some of the greatest investments one can make in life, I could start a whole new thread on the importance of a good pair of leather shoes), and as a man of science, noticed what you all call the married man effect, but with the causality of such results being an utter commitment to not giving a f~~~ about anything except what I wanted.

I had made up my mind on what I wanted and was basically in the zone of going on my own little mission and what I noticed was in every shop I went to , every girl that served me was a s~~~ loader keener than what I’ve experienced, I always dress smart and today was no different, but I was getting much more active responses and help. Example was when buying shoes, girl asks me if I need help, I’m fine, 2 min later I go and get her, say “you’re mine for the next 10 min, I need black oxfords, capped, same with the tan, no brogues, make sure the leather is genuine and the fit, slim, no rubber soles, off you go (said with a smile)…next ten min she went out of her way to do everything double time.

Is it a confidence thing, is it an aura, does making a conscious decision not to care, change a subconscious perception or trait that is picked up.

Same at the bar. Went to see my brother who runs a bar, and was getting looks from a couple ladies, I was just sitting there nursing a white russian (and a few more after that haha) and I’ll be f~~~ed, the glances coming my way, It must be something subconscious.

Was an odd experience.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

you sure they didnt see your wallet?

but seriously, i think it is something about just not giving them attention and not giving a f~~~

makes them wonder why-since ofcourse they feel entitled to your attention(they take it as a challenge to gain said attention)

keep doing you bro.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

a banana wrote:

makes them wonder why-since ofcourse they feel entitled to your attention(they take it as a challenge to gain said attention)

Had this happen to lots of guys I know: 1) they don’t give a f~~~ about a chick 2) said chick seems to get interested 3)guy thinks he has a chance with her 4) said guy tries something 5) guy gets ignored 6) bitch is happy because she felt desirable, got attention and an ego boost.

Ignore them, they’re not even worth thinking about.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

When ‘under the thumb’ a man will …. all subconsciously … drop his shoulders, walk with head down and look ‘stooped’.

Confidence ….. not giving a s~~~ … will raise a man up.

Beck straight, head high, shoulders up and chest out. That in turn gives a confident stride.

Women look at a broken man and are disgusted by him …. even though it was women that broke him.

You sir …. are the stallion they want to break.

Call it … the mgtow effect ☺

[RoyDalParticipant]

eng_87 wrote:

… It must be something subconscious….

I think so too. When I stopped caring, or when I had a steady girl, then it seemed like they flocked to me.

Here’s another example. When I was school aged, I was bothered by bullies. Almost immediately after starting martial arts lessons, the harassment stopped. It was like magic.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

I used to have a theory “that women could smell if you’re getting laid on a regular”, because thats when they all came flocking.

But then I realized that its simply a confidence thing and a IDGAF attitude that draws them in like a tractor beam. They just want to be noticed by the confident men, it lets me know that its still a mans world.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[Great-OzParticipant 226]

In my past experience I’ve noticed a…I suppose you could call it an aura, that is given of by those who have made the decision to stop caring. The more I deplete my concerns for female approval the more they seem to try and earn it. Honestly, I can’t fathom why as most of there women I’ve made my lack of concern for then quite clear in the past, but I’ll be damned they sure try to impress.

I suppose it’s another example of their complete lack of logical flow in thinking.

"Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

The number of s~~~s I’ve ever displayed is 0. The number of women who seem to want to engage in conversation with me with my literal no f~~~s to give is way higher than it should be. It might even be more if I were sociable in general and still seemed not to care.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[Great-OzParticipant 226]

@ Helen be damned

You are the king of the no f~~~s my friend.

"Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I personally don’t waste my money or time on women. Strippers can be just as bad. They get all p~~~sy and s~~~. I rather do my own thing. Apparently their parents haven’t taught them respect.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[felixParticipant 406]

I learned that trick by time I was in college.  Be aware that as you get better at this the girls get hotter.  It is really easy to suddenly find a girl that will snap you back into the Matrix.

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[clint englandParticipant 341]

Mango Ingaway wrote:

 

Had this happen to lots of guys I know: 1) they don’t give a f~~~ about a chick 2) said chick seems to get interested 3)guy thinks he has a chance with her 4) said guy tries something 5) guy gets ignored 6) bitch is happy because she felt desirable, got attention and an ego boost. Ignore them, they’re not even worth thinking about.

This is the best reply on how to look at the attention a man of indifference gets from women. In my own case i often get more attention from the ladies and in particular a hot neighbour of mine who surprise, surprise is a single mother. What they don’t get is that guys like me really aren’t interested at all, yes there is the undeniable physical attraction they have going on but no little slitty is bringing hassle and stress to my life, no way!.

I’d sooner earn my money, chill at home and do whatever i choose.     MGTOW Forever!

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