Miles again, recently introduced, fresh MGHOW of two days.

I have spent the weekend, getting back on my feet, as such I decided to dip into my savings and go for a shop for some new shirts and some good quality leather shoes (as a man, I have found shoes to be some of the greatest investments one can make in life, I could start a whole new thread on the importance of a good pair of leather shoes), and as a man of science, noticed what you all call the married man effect, but with the causality of such results being an utter commitment to not giving a f~~~ about anything except what I wanted.

I had made up my mind on what I wanted and was basically in the zone of going on my own little mission and what I noticed was in every shop I went to , every girl that served me was a s~~~ loader keener than what I’ve experienced, I always dress smart and today was no different, but I was getting much more active responses and help. Example was when buying shoes, girl asks me if I need help, I’m fine, 2 min later I go and get her, say “you’re mine for the next 10 min, I need black oxfords, capped, same with the tan, no brogues, make sure the leather is genuine and the fit, slim, no rubber soles, off you go (said with a smile)…next ten min she went out of her way to do everything double time.

Is it a confidence thing, is it an aura, does making a conscious decision not to care, change a subconscious perception or trait that is picked up.

Same at the bar. Went to see my brother who runs a bar, and was getting looks from a couple ladies, I was just sitting there nursing a white russian (and a few more after that haha) and I’ll be f~~~ed, the glances coming my way, It must be something subconscious.

Was an odd experience.

but seriously, i think it is something about just not giving them attention and not giving a f~~~

makes them wonder why-since ofcourse they feel entitled to your attention(they take it as a challenge to gain said attention)

keep doing you bro.

makes them wonder why-since ofcourse they feel entitled to your attention(they take it as a challenge to gain said attention)

Had this happen to lots of guys I know: 1) they don’t give a f~~~ about a chick 2) said chick seems to get interested 3)guy thinks he has a chance with her 4) said guy tries something 5) guy gets ignored 6) bitch is happy because she felt desirable, got attention and an ego boost.

Ignore them, they’re not even worth thinking about.

Confidence ….. not giving a s~~~ … will raise a man up.

Beck straight, head high, shoulders up and chest out. That in turn gives a confident stride.

Women look at a broken man and are disgusted by him …. even though it was women that broke him.

You sir …. are the stallion they want to break.

Call it … the mgtow effect ☺

… It must be something subconscious….

I think so too. When I stopped caring, or when I had a steady girl, then it seemed like they flocked to me.

Here’s another example. When I was school aged, I was bothered by bullies. Almost immediately after starting martial arts lessons, the harassment stopped. It was like magic.

But then I realized that its simply a confidence thing and a IDGAF attitude that draws them in like a tractor beam. They just want to be noticed by the confident men, it lets me know that its still a mans world.

I suppose it’s another example of their complete lack of logical flow in thinking.

You are the king of the no f~~~s my friend.