Is it wrong if i date a woman?

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

Sup gents, currently i’m dating a chick from the university who is 26 years old and i’m 21.

What are your thoughts on dating as a MGTOW? is it acceptable or not? I’m really really curious.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[Anonymous 7]

MGTOW means just that.

Who is to tell you otherwise? Do your thing the way you want, but just know the issues involved.

Be aware of the pitfalls and enjoy your life as you wish.

No worries, for we will be here for your return.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

IntellectualSavior wrote:

Sup gents, currently i’m dating a chick from the university who is 26 years old and i’m 21.

What are your thoughts on dating as a MGTOW? is it acceptable or not? I’m really really curious.

Dude…brother..why are you asking for our permission/approval?

We are all going our own, way. I know that at your age, you are trying to fit in socially. When I was 21, I never followed trends/the crowd.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

MGTOW means just that.

Who is to tell you otherwise? Do your thing the way you want, but just know the issues involved.

Perfect answer.

I do encourage you to learn and recognize as many redflags (AWALT tricks) as you can.
Use the word ‘no’ immediately when you feel like saying it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Not at all. Use your Red Pill knowledge to your advantage, you have resources other men do not.

Anonymous wrote:

Who is to tell you otherwise? Do your thing the way you want, but just know the issues involved.

Well said.

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

Anonymous wrote:

Who is to tell you otherwise? Do your thing the way you want, but just know the issues involved.

^^So this seems to be what everyone agrees upon until now.

I asked this question because i kinda get the vibe that most people think “otherwise”. I know the redpill, i swallowed it and would never return from it. just wanted opinions, so thanks for those who shared their opinions.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[narwhalParticipant]

Stop thinking in terms of wrong and right with your decisions. Start thinking about the consequences of your actions. Dating comes with inherent risks. Do you know what they are? Have you taken actions to mitigate risk so that you’re comfortable with it?

Ok. Then do it.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

We will warn you of the dangers of the bear trap. If you stick you own hand in the trap it is your own fault.

[Anonymous 6]

Hey Bud, I echo what the others have said here. YOU are the only one who can decide for yourself what it is that you’re going to do in a situation like this. You know the score, so act accordingly. You’re a welcome member here and seem to have inculcated the knowledge that is generally passed on here. Now I don’t know how things are done in your neck of the woods when it comes to dating but I’m sure that you’ll manage it through a red pill lens.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Two things to consider:

(1) You are always one phone call away from a world of s~~~.
(2) Unicorns don’t exist.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Are you asking for permission?

You are a men among men… why should you ask for permission?

Do what ever the f~~~ you want.

Some guys here monk it out, some date, some are married, others hire scorts, others use sex dolls.

Go your own way. No one ever said you can’t marry… it’s just stupid and a bad deal.

GO YOUR OWN WAY

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 18]

When you date a woman you also make concessions to your time and resources.

If you think its worth it, go for it.

The term ‘dating’ has a connotation of emotionally investing in a woman. In its blue pill glory – do not get emotionally attached to her. But you will.

Learn from it what you can.

[Anonymous 12]

As long as you still go your own way, and not give her any sorts of authority, any power to direct “the movie of your life”… then i would say go for it.

beware of false accusation, oops pregnancy and other dangers though.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I mean… it’s fine but you’re not really ‘red’ pill you’re more ‘purple’ pill maybe?

Anyways just be weary , know the risks, the games women play especially with pregnancy and manipulation and see the s~~~ tests coming and call her on them. Basically have a back bone, her pussy isn’t that great and there’s million other ones out there so dont’ take no s~~~.

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

narwhal wrote:

Have you taken actions to mitigate risk so that you’re comfortable with it?

Kind of did, no sex until now don’t know what future brings though.

Anonymous wrote:

I’m sure that you’ll manage it through a red pill lens.

Well this is actually also a test for me to see if i’m really a red pill. I believe that i won’t fail because i didn’t until this day, i’ve had many chances that i returned thanks to redpill. I would jump on them without even thinking back in the days.

Carnage wrote:

GO YOUR OWN WAY

Point taken sir!

Anonymous wrote:

When you date a woman you also make concessions to your time and resources.

If you think its worth it, go for it.

To be honest, i always postponed a long term relationship because i was so focued on improving myself, right know i’m a scholared student, everything that i’ve postponed up until now seems to be haunting me, it’s like i feel regretting and i don’t want that, even if i get burnt i will be happy to know that i got burnt because i was playing with fire. I still don’t want a long term realtionship though, just giving examples here.

Anonymous wrote:

As long as you still go your own way, and not give her any sorts of authority, any power to direct “the movie of your life”… then i would say go for it.

I think I kind of done that, kindly told her that one day when i have the chance i would leave my country to go to USA with or without her, no matter what. And i see her “when” i want to see her, she adjusts accordingly with no problem. if it changes, i’d say adios. i’m not attached deeply, not anymore.

KevinStyles wrote:

I mean… it’s fine but you’re not really ‘red’ pill you’re more ‘purple’ pill maybe?

I’d say that i’m not. At first i was but now i know every woman is in it for themselves, no matter what and no matter how well they sugar coat it.

Thanks everyone for the advices, I think I’ve got my answer.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Is self abuse wrong? Yes it is wrong in so many ways.

Don't care

[KeymasterKeymaster]

IntellectualSavior wrote:

What are your thoughts on dating as a MGTOW? is it acceptable or not? I’m really really curious.

Well as a “MGTOW” you don’t need anyone else’s permission on what’s “acceptable” in your personal life. How awesome is that. Are you maintaining your own personal sovereignty above all else? You don’t even need to answer that.

Otherwise No single mothers.
If you date a single mother you’re a fool. No offense.

Take her + the kid to DisneyWorld for a day, act like a father, and you could be paying child support for a kid that’s not even yours. That’s unacceptable.

As a man of experience ( only ) there is an argument to made about “warming up on older women”. But I never dated a woman who is older than me. I had a ONE-night when I was about 19 with a 32/33 year old and never again.

IntellectualSavior wrote:

What are your thoughts on dating as a MGTOW?

My PERSONAL thoughts…. “sex if it’s free”.
But even then, I would be extremely discerning.

Otherwise I really don’t see the point. I’m just busy.

IntellectualSavior wrote:

Is it wrong if i date a woman?

I wouldn’t presume to tell you what’s “wrong” for you. Doesn’t the world already tell men that too often? Part of the reason we exist. Date a woman on YOUR terms if you like. Or don’t. It’s that simple.

Forget the 5 letters of “MGTOW”. You’re a man. Take it from there.

Instead of asking “is it wrong?”? . . . . ask yourself if it’s RIGHT.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

Anonymous wrote:

Be aware of the pitfalls and enjoy your life as you wish.

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

Dude…brother..why are you asking for our permission/approval?

narwhal wrote:

Stop thinking in terms of wrong and right with your decisions. Start thinking about the consequences of your actions. Dating comes with inherent risks. Do you know what they are? Have you taken actions to mitigate risk so that you’re comfortable with it?

Carnage wrote:

GO YOUR OWN WAY

Fit yourself into the MGTOW equation any way you want. good luck on you journey

[OldBillParticipant]

IntellectualSavior wrote:

What are your thoughts on dating as a MGTOW?

I’ve been a MGTOW longer than you’ve been alive and I dated. I dated less and less frequently as time went on, but that was more of an age thing than a MGTOW thing.

What I didn’t do was let a woman control me in any way. One s~~~ test, one attempt at control, one presumption of ownership, and it was done. I was on a date because I wanted to and not because I had to.

is it acceptable or not?

Only you can calculate the risks for yourself. That being said, ignoring the risks is not calculating them.

Choosing to date only to find yourself charged with domestic violence, paternity, or in the clutches of some sociopath or BPD woman and you have only yourself to blame.

You know the risks. You need to remain aware of them.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[JVBParticipant]

All good advice by these fine men. Until you figure it out do not!! Knock this bitch up.

Peace is > piece.

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