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[AndyharperParticipant 13]

Hi,

My life has been a tragedy ever since I hit puberty. Ater failing couple of relationships, now I have commitment issues. I even fear befriending someone. Trying hard to keep my sanity together.

I liked this group .

Thanks for letting me in

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Andyharper wrote:

Ater failing couple of relationships

Be very aware of what you blame yourself (and accept responsibility) for… and there’s a VERY high probability you can dump most of that baggage at the door. A “failed relationship” isn’t YOUR fault as much as you have been led to believe.

Everyone blames the man for that. Especially her.
Some men are too quick to accept responsiblity for it too.

For example… let’s say she messed around. Society would call her an “independent female” who’s looking for love wherever she can find it…. while you would be a “bad boyfriend who didn’t take care of her needs”. Anyone can see the bulls~~~ in that.

How the hell can a relationship even “succeed” when this s~~~ goes on.?

Take a load off for once and don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s good that you are, but when you’re “sanity” is affected, it’s time to take a break from that.

Welcome to the forums.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Andy: Welcome. Glad to add you to the group. What one might call a commitment issue others might call sanity. Go easy on yourself. You are among friends.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 43]

Andy, start asking us questions, and you just might find that a lot of us went through the same things you did. Then if a bunch of us were s~~~ on in the same way, maybe it wasn’t me at fault starts to creep in.

This is the red pill. And it will be bitter. It will be the worst thing you ever tasted, and then suddenly, things become more clear. You can never go back to the way things were.

Welcome brother.

[LexParticipant 117]

Welcome Andy

Its a lot easier to enjoy the journey when your not trying to please someone that will never be happy no matter how much you give.
As Keymaster said don’t be so hard on yourself. Take a load off browse the forums take sometime to find what makes you happy than go for it.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Hi Andyharper, and welcome to the forums. Methinks you are very lucky to have the right kind of commitment issue — commitment phobia. I spent the greater chunk of my life being Mr. Commitment, and guess where that got me. That’s right, in the same place as you. Don’t worry, after binging on the forums archives for a while you’ll realize that the problem is probably not with you.

Again, welcome.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings AH,

Andyharper wrote:

…….now I have commitment issues.

That is the language that women use to denigrate men.

It implies that they are perfect and men are the problem.

It ignores the fact that a commitment to slavery and legal theft is totally insane.

Andyharper wrote:

……I even fear befriending someone.

Assuming “someone” means a woman, here is a response:

With friends like that who needs enemies.

Anyhow AH, why is your introduction so slight?

Is English your native language?

Kindly provide more details about your life without revealing your secret identity.

Feel free to add more details about yourself in this introduction thread in the reply box below. For example, answer the following questions:

How old are you?

Education?

Work situation and career aspirations?

Living situation?

Fun stuff that you do?

Besides keeping your sanity, what else are you doing with your Red Pill awareness?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[bladeParticipant]

Hi andy welcome to a new beggining brother . If you stick with us you in time will see life in a totally different way .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Andy
You are safe here.
We all went through our blue pill years.
Time for the red pill. I have trust issues, too.

[Anonymous 42]

Andyharper wrote:

Hi,

My life has been a tragedy ever since I hit puberty. Ater failing couple of relationships, now I have commitment issues. I even fear befriending someone. Trying hard to keep my sanity together.

I liked this group .

Thanks for letting me in

Thanks for letting me in[/quote]

Get that brainwash thinking out of your head! We’ve been bombarded with subliminal messages that tell us sovereignty is somehow the ill to be avoided.

Happy wife, miserable life!

What happened to women in this age of spiritual darkness is written in biblical prophecy as the end times, just get in, sit down, and hang on for the ride of your new turbocharged life!

Once you’ve acquired the knowelage we take for granted you’re not going to want the filthy slop modern women have to offer.

I’m at the point where I’ve turned down a good number of women wanting everything from sex to help with their multiple self induced difficulties.

modern women see us as disposable utilities that aren’t even human, and when we don’t bend to their narsistic will then we’re no good monsters to be brutalized both physically and psychologically.

Time to leave the garbage dump you’ve been hoping to find a diamond within. The MGTOW philosophy will wash off all the gynocentric stench that makes every man ill.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Andyharper wrote:

Hi,

My life has been a tragedy ever since I hit puberty.

– oh has it? this tragedy is called adulthood. But by becomming MGTOW you can add a whole lot of comedy to it. So cheer up!

Andyharper wrote:

Ater failing couple of relationships, now I have commitment issues.

FALSE! Not you did fail the relationships, the relationships did fail. As relationships are commonly a thing between at least two persons, neither one of them did fullfil the other ones expectations and that why the whole project “relationship” did fail. There is noone to blame for it. Don’t think, it would be your “fault”. Even if you cheated, she is to blame as well, as she could not fullfil your desires (just to name an example).

Andyharper wrote:

I even fear befriending someone. Trying hard to keep my sanity together.

That is something you will have to sort out for yourself. Some are made for being alone and are happy this way, others need companions. In general the human is a social being and therefore made to have friends. As you try to link to others here, it appears you are not that much “afraid” to befriend.

I assume you being a rather young man, probably still figuring out his own position in life. congratulations! you are already smarter than i was, it took me more than 40 years to at least partially understand, what you know already.

So Mr Harper, welcome and cheer up!

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Andyharper!

Recommendation for a good self-help book:

“Life Code,” by Dr. Phil McGraw (yes, *that* Dr. Phil). It’s a self-help book on spotting narcissists, users, and abusers. Once you know how to identify and deal with backstabbers and trouble-makers in your life, it will bring you a lot of self-confidence and peace. It also has some good tips on how to act around people, project yourself more confidently, that sort of thing. Good all-around self-help book, if you’re looking for some basic coping-with-life info.

Welcome!

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Welcome Andy…You are home sir, kick your feet up and read, read, read away…Video’s, forums, any questions that have been wondering around in your mind, yes sir, those are all answered here…Well, as best as any of us can anyway…We are glad you are here sir….As far as blaming yourself for anything, stop it now…It is a tactic used against us just for being male….Don’t listen to them…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome!

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Andy. What everyone else said is accurate. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Realizing you have been lied to your entire life through propaganda, is a tough road. Keep searching for the truth. You are going to be pleasantly surprised. Welcome to the forums of like minded men.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome. Don’t let women define your worth. That extra X chromosome that they have over you doesn’t mean s~~~ to your success and happiness. Stick around. Keep reading. We are here.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

Wish I had commitment issues about 25 years ago – I committed, now i have issues.

Let the good times roll

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Better to have “Commitment Issues” than “Can’t Get the F~~~ Out of this S~~~Show” issues.

Welcome Aboard!

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