In sickness and in health ?? Did I agree to that?

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    I havent spoken to this subject, well….. as uncomfortable as it is to do so I must address it.
    I have already told you how old I am and for the sake of not babbeling on for two years, this subject is very near and real to my life as anything else could be.
    I am a disabled veteran ,as well as on social security disability. Some guys will say man you are sucking off the government tit, and judge me for doing so. But I pray that those who would judge me that they would climb into my shoes / body for just one day if they needed a better perspective on my situation. My disabilities for one have nothing to do with drug or alcohol addiction, My issues have to deal with disorders with my c-spine (neck) lower middle back and chronic breathing issues, and chronic pain. I am on medications out the ass, a narcotic in its almost lowest dose so that i can function and still live alone without having someone come in and have to pay for that.
    So onto the topic at hand it has been 100% of the time my experience with women who marry and find out that their man needs some kind of medical help will , they will turn on you, no matter how certain procedures may help you or make your life and problems better and easier and potentially safer to endure. A wife especially should be the exception to that rule, for after all did she not vow to you to stay with you through “sickness and health”?
    Whilst serving in the Navy I completely dislocated my shoulder and not know to me I had torn every ligament away from the structures they were attached to, which in turn supports your arm with the aid of your muscles in and around that area. It was early in my tour of duty that the disslocation occurred, and was told that if i completely dislocated my shoulder more than three times it was imperative that i seek treatment with surgery being part of that option, they called it elective at that time. Fast forward 10 years after that injury, I am married and I have done a very good job of guarding the joint. working hard labor intesive jobs, including lifting very big and heavy people out of their homes on gurneys , as a mechanic, but no matter what the job I guarded that shoulder. Maybe my instincts were spot on when it came to with how the bitch would in the end treat me.
    I had already disslocated my shoulder more than three times while in the service, and the navy hospital knew how bad it was via an examination of the joint.
    Then one day I felt something i had never felt in my right arm, and this pain was intense and ran down the length of my right arm all the way to the tips of my fingers, I immediately went to the VA in california and consulted with them as to how they wanted to proceed with treatment. Physical therapy was absolutely out of the question , the muscles in my arm fatigued almost immediately. So I went home to my ever so kind and loving bitch. {SIC} to discuss this with her, and her response was this and i quote” if you have the surgery. I will immediately divorce you, I will not be seen married to a cripple”. So that kinda threw the “in sickness and health” vow completely right down the f~~~ing s~~~ter, right?
    8 more years passed and I decided after I left her immediately I wanted to get the surgery done asap. It took a woman whom herself had extreme physical issues to understand what I needed to do and she helped me get it done. The doctors were initially going to go in with the orthoscopic tools they had but when they saw the results of the damage I had indured over the years they had no choice but to open me up and get it done right and completely.
    The second nefarious , self centered, narcissistic bitch was with me after I could no longer work, I had degenerative joint disease and my neck and lumbar spine were degenerating and still are for that matter so much that it made it difficult to sleep in bed, so my recliner is where i slept back then and up until recent I do today still use it.
    So i went to see my primary care doctor at the VA who suggested that maybe a hospital bed would be in order and I could just shove it next to the bed my everloving bitch ass land whale was using so we could be closer I in turn agreed that would be a nice thing.
    But I shoudve noticed the steam and running snot rolling out of the mother f~~~ing bitch ass bulls nostrils and ears, and when i got home she laid into me and she made this ultimatum and I again quote” If you bring that bed into this house I will divorce you”. What a loving picture of marital bliss, her loving and caring ways preceed her, and I am overwhelmed by her sympathy and empathy, {SIC}. that fat bodied and fat assed bitch didnt want me in the same bedroom as her, because it would interfere with her hmmmm extra curricular outside of marriage vows activities, now wouldnt it.
    Now before I go into my tyraid about these situations, allow me to present what a spouse is supposed to do when a loved one needs medical help. This fat ass wipe of a mother f~~~ing bitch suffered from obstructive sleep apnea,going to sleep with her in the same bed was like climbing on top of a locomotive and asking the engineer to put that baby on full throttle and trying to go to sleep on the open end of the exhaust pipe !!!
    I digress though this condition if not treated could kill her.
    I did not complain about the surgery she underwent, the inability to kiss her durring this time nor the lack of sexual activity for the sake her surgery. I stood by her helped this biaatch with everything she needed to get better and healthier, and the thanks I got in return was a threat of divorce if i slept in a different bed, although only inches away from her. but the bed was not the issue Gents not by a long shot, and neither was my physical issues, lightbulb time !!!!!!
    This mother f~~~ing turd s~~~bag ,s~~~ ass poor excuse of a human being didn’t mind when I spent months on end sleeping in my recliner a convenient 20 yards from the computer in the bedroom where she was doing all of her dirty deeds with other men online. Oh and as a way to get me to move quickly out of the room and house she would start vacuuming right where I was sitting, because she knew that the dust she stirred up would cause me to have an instant asthma attack. that bitch was no home maker or cook , everything she cooked had cheese and massive amounts of butter on in and under it. I think she was trying to give me atheroschlerosis of the heart, clogging my arteries with cheese crap.
    My Recovering Your Manhood B~~~~ friends and brothers these tactics and things are not unique to me, infact there are plenty of men who have suffered and endured more than I will ever experience , and I feel for you. I feel your pain, and how much it hurts you to know that some stupid c~~~ could do anything like this to honest and decent , giving, loyal, good men like yourselves.
    Those c~~~ ass abusive bitches are gone out of my life and will never be allowed to gain access to me again. and as hard as it might appear to be, I dont have any issue with telling every single fem c~~~ to take a long walk off a short but very high cliff.
    You may notice that its quite obvious that I could care less what any bitch thinks, weather playing MGTOW or not. Bitches are nothing but game players, manipulators. who will rip your guts out and shove them back down your throat if by doing so it profits them.
    these so called vows:
    I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.

    are absolutely meanningless to all bitches
    They hold no weight, the gravity behind the meanings only seem to hold us men in a state of constant lifelong servitude,men hold honor in a more higher esteem then any bitches i have ever known. I dont say these things for effect or drama I have a tried and proven record of every woman i have had anything to do with break every one of their promises, vows and to the sanctity of marriage as well as their faithfulness to me.

    They will gladly strip you of your wealth while bedding any man they can, remove your children from you and insist that you pay for them with the consent and approval from the courts, whose blind and equal balances have been surplanted with corruption and abuse of men and fathers with impunity and prejudice !!!

    If dumbass bitches want to know why MGTOW is continuing to gain mens attention , and momentum, and growth, reread the above agin , and if you still do not comprehend it get out a dictionary and go word for word to find and address the meaning of those same said words !!!

    Sincerely : Steve

    #390836
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    Anonymous
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    WOW NEVETS, JUST WOW!
    That takes hypergamy to a whole new level but I should not be surprised. Makes all my issues seem small in comparison. Keep posting. It helps.

    #390851
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    Northern Soul
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    Welcome nevets61.

    You really have been through it – it takes a mighty strong character to deal with all of that.

    Those c~~~ ass abusive bitches are gone out of my life and will never be allowed to gain access to me again

    This is excellent – you have made the right call.

    #390927
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    Deus Ex Machina
    Deus Ex Machina
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    First off thank you for your Service and all you’ve done, your high tolerance for pain is nothing short of incredible. I use to work in Admin department on a Army Base right after college (Civilian contractor) and boy were my eyes opened to Military wives and how evil, manipulating and nymphomaniacs they are. I remember being in dining hall once and over hearing a conversation between a bunch of Women talking if something “went wrong” to their Husbands while being deployed.

    What I heard disgusted me to a point of not even being able to finish my lunch. One girl said that if her husband came back without a working dick she’d f~~~ His friend (who was his SGT) and leave. I then heard another women say if she had to wipe her husbands s~~~ she would poison him rather than deal with that type of “degradation”, keep in mind this was not a jovial chatter, they were very serious in tone, every sicking comment was met with an evil cackle and sniveling remark met with high praise among them. I can go on and on with things I saw and things i experience while working on that office, it was not only eye opening but disgusting as well.

    I was also approached numerous times from Military wives and had numbers slipped in my drawer, my coat pocket one of them had the audacity to text my friend and point blank ask: “Wanna f~~~?” . A buddy of mine was even approached by a 6 month pregnant army wife who wanted to be His f~~~ buddy while her Husband was in Afghanistan. I witnesses and heard abhorrent behavior from these so called “Loyal Wives”. My Buddy eventually quit and when an opportunity arouse for another job elsewhere, i took it and RAN.

    Since then I have this semi haunting memories of these women telling the most disgusting stories of infidelity and manipulative behavior, while smiling and laughing like it was a huge goddamn joke.

    "If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

    #392398
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    Sky-O
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    I had the flu once for about three days, and by day two she had already started turning on me.

    I could see it in her eyes while I laid in bed with a serious fever.

    It was almost as if her internal brain wiring was alerting her that the male she was with was showing signs of weakness and she needed a backup plan.

    If I had, for example been dying from some kind of life threatening virus, there is no doubt in my mind that once I no longer had a pulse, she would have had another c~~~ in her within 24 hours.

    They are sociopathically calculating.

    #392450
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    Pedal, run, row
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    One of the first red pills that made it past my blue pill conditioning was when I was dealing with medical problems and fighting to save my career (medical standards) and my wife was suddenly ready to monkey branch, and a friend of mine made the comment: “It is amazing how every guy I know who goes through this end up with their wife divorcing them…” It was just a casual observation on his part, but I looked back on my career and I will be damned if it wasn’t true. Medical problems, legal problems, financial problems, and the wife was out.

    As a fellow veteran, thank you for your service. Fight the good fight and be glad you are free of her.

    #393479
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    Anonymous
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    To the original poster, thank you for your service and thank you for sharing your story. I’m a veteran as well and I can tell you how despicable military wives are. I have never been married myself. I had been propositioned a few times by some of the “wives” to have a good time. There is no loyalty with these women and I don’t know why men in the service give them the time of day. In the end, women are manipulative so I can’t blame men for thinking that women love them the same way that they do. I am just grateful that I never got caught in the marriage trap.

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