I'm so glad to be here…

[NotHavinIt75Participant 39]

Hi guys.

I’m really glad I found this site and this movement because I’m sure you know how it feels to think that you are doing something wrong just because you aren’t doing exactly what every other person around you is.

It’s great to know that I’m not the only one who thinks having a job that I hate, a wife I don’t love, kids I don’t want, and a home I can’t afford is complete and utter bulls~~~!

It’s good to know that more and more men are starting to catch on to the idea that life is just too damn short and you need to make yourself happy and that there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that!

I worked as a hotel manager for almost 20 years and got p~~~ed on by the large companies I worked for over and over. Yet I always went right back to it, because that’s what you’re SUPPOSED to do if you lose your lousy 60 hour a week salaried job. Right?

Finally, I had enough. I won’t go into a long story here, but let’s just say that I caught the ultimate screwing from the golf resort I was working for when the travel and tourism industry bottomed out in 2008.

They kept telling us our jobs were safe, they weren’t laying anyone off, etc, etc, etc. Well, that was all well and good — until one day it wasn’t. Of course we got no notice. I went into work one day thinking all was fine and dandy and caught a punch to the gut. I went from pulling down 40K a year to $200 a week (before taxes) from unemployment insurance in the three minutes it took them to hand me my walking papers.

That’s when it all really started to click for me. During this time, I also went through numerous situations with women who outright took advantage of my kindness and then screwed me over. I won’t even go there, because I’d be here all day.

Anyway, after seeing just how unhappy all of my male friends from high school, college and after were, I decided that I was very happy I made the decision not to ever marry or have any kids. Yet, even though I’m happy, other people can’t seem to get their head around it. Friends are still always trying to “hook me up” with someone they know. People are always bothering me to go out and “do stuff” when most of the time I’m just as content (or more) to be left alone.

More than half of the people I know have been married more than once, and some of them are already on their third wife. I’m in my early forties. If you ask me, nobody should be on their THIRD wife in their early forties. S~~~, nobody should even be on their SECOND wife by that time!

Something I always wondered was why society thinks that marriage is a good thing when it’s an institution where more than 50% of people that do it fail at it. If somebody told you to jump off a bridge and then told you that you had a less than 50% chance of surviving, would you still do it? I know I wouldn’t. Yet, you’re supposed to run out and get all tangled up in something that has less than a 50% chance of working. S~~~, you can better odds at a blackjack table!

Anyway, sorry for being a little long winded. It feels good to get some of this stuff off my chest in a forum of like minded people.

If you don't want to do something, then DON'T!

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro glad ya found us .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Nobody Should ever be on/have to have a Second wife IMO.

Definitely good reads here.

Welcome and speak freely. Free Speech allowed here.Greatest aspect of this site. A place where you can express YOURSELF and your expieriences,wisdom, insights etc.

Cheers!

[Anonymous 3]

Hello NotHavinIt,

Welcome to the forums. Good intro.

NotHavinIt75 wrote:

I’m really glad I found this site and this movement because I’m sure you know how it feels to think that you are doing something wrong just because you aren’t doing exactly what every other person around you is.

First, this is MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way. Think a bit about that, how can it be a movement if everyone is going his own way? A movement demands everyone to follow a single way, and we wont have it!

We could say that a movement would be like an army structure, while MGTOW is like the resistance, an underground clandestine “organization”. It is very hard to fight such thing, because you cannot single out their members.

We also have members that use ghosting, a philosophy where you dont go around advertising your ideas or personal life.

This is especially important when you can be hurt by women, manginas, white knights, feminists or SJW. They go apes~~~ over the slightest “non-conformity” with their world view. So, we usually dont use our real photos, neither give personal information online, not even our jobs description: we all work at the pretzel factory…

This pretty much addresses your statement. NOBODY has a say in what you do in your life, and the best way to ensure this is to keep them in the dark. To feel like you are doing something wrong is the result of social indoctrination and social pressure. Get rid of both!

So, how is your love life?
A gentlemen does not talk about his conquests.

If it feels like 007 its because you are doing it right.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome NotHavinIt75. Born in 1975 myself. A generation of thinkers while the social justice “warriors” began their attempted takeover of all I had held dear.

Anonymous wrote:

we all work at the pretzel factory…

Speak for yourself, I used to be a big deal at the cracker factory. 😉

[Knight ErrantParticipant 179]

Welcome to the forum!

NotHavinIt75 wrote:

Something I always wondered was why society thinks that marriage is a good thing when it’s an institution where more than 50% of people that do it fail at it. If somebody told you to jump off a bridge and then told you that you had a less than 50% chance of surviving, would you still do it? I know I wouldn’t. Yet, you’re supposed to run out and get all tangled up in something that has less than a 50% chance of working. S~~~, you can better odds at a blackjack table!

And on top of the 50% divorce rate, you have to also consider how many of the other 50% men who remain married are happy, which I guess could be called a successful marriage. The majority of married men seem to be absolutely miserable after a couple years at most. This means that your odds of marrying and not regretting it are so miniscule one has to wonder why people still do it. Tradition, propaganda and “everybody’s doing it” mentality combined with self delusion prevents many from dodging the bullet like you did. Consider yourself lucky 🙂

I'm no white knight, Sir. Give me a strong suit of armour, a swift steed and the open road and stick the hand of the princess up your arse. I've no ring to put on it and I'm fresh out of fucks to give.

[Anonymous 6]

Welcome brother, we don’t play we just walk away and win anyway!

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

International Mgtow Day is rapidly approaching, prepare to celebrate

[~BSParticipant 3266]

Welcome!

MGTOW is more of a philosophy than a movement.

A movement implies organized resistance like feminism. Remember the landwhale march on washington because they didn’t like the election results (among other things). That is a movement, albeit not much more worthwhile than a bowel movement.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Welcome to your happily ever after brother. Tom Leykis has a session on Youtube where he argues that men do not benefit from marriage and can get everything from other situations (eg friends with benefits or girlfriend (non-cohabitating)).

Have you ever wondered why marriage is an obfuscated contract compared to prostitutes? By this I mean you know exactly how much and what kind of sex you will get with them, but there is generally no such thing with marriage unless you get a prenup and women would either disagree to it or the court would probably laugh at you and throw the prenup in the bin. Yet the finances on marriage seem to be sorted out without too much difficulty and considering women usually marry men more successful than them means that men are the ones usually financially penalised.

Therefore, marriage is a pointless waste of money. As Keymaster would say it’s like putting your hand in a box of grenades where half would blow up searching for one that is ‘not like that’. Haha no way I’m risking my well-being for women’s desire for financial security. Also, once your financially trapped women don’t have to give you sex anymore because they’ve achieved what they’ve set out to do.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Nothavinit 75
Beer’s in the fridge.
Looking forward to your posts.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to Nothaven, NotHavinit75, you’re among friends of a like-minded nature!

NotHavinIt75 wrote:

People are always bothering me to go out and “do stuff” when most of the time I’m just as content (or more) to be left alone.

Do who’s stuff? Your stuff? No, drop all your life’s tools and projects to WASTE YOUR TIME doing THEIR STUFF! F~~~ them and F~~~ THAT!

NotHavinIt75 wrote:

it’s an institution where more than 50% of people that do it fail at it.

The other 50% that survive consist of one matriarchy and one cuck miserably transformed into a gynocentric ASS RAG!

F~~~ THAT!

Welcome to MGTOW brother, make yourself f~~~ing comfortable!

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

welcome bro glad to have you.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[NotHavinIt75Participant 39]

I’d like to say thanks to all who responded with a warm welcome. Further proof that this site is going to make a good home for me.

I’m considering upgrading my membership as well because it’s very inexpensive and I think I’ve got a lot to say that others might want to hear.

If I upgrade will I be able to post audios & videos?

What do you guys think of the upgraded membership?

Is it worth it?

Would you recommend I go for it?

If you don't want to do something, then DON'T!

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

I had a very similar experience to you. What i love about MGTOW is that you can find the supporting logic for your views and dont have to waste time discussing it with your bluepill friends. You quickly realize those friends that are totally gone and those that have some freedom.

Let the good times roll

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Execration wrote:

Nobody Should ever be on/have to have a Second wife IMO.

Definitely good reads here.

Welcome and speak freely. Free Speech allowed here.Greatest aspect of this site. A place where you can express YOURSELF and your expieriences,wisdom, insights etc.

Cheers!

Amen!
Free speech here!

Definitely best aspect of this page!

I get banned pretty much everywhere else.

Monk

[CurmudgeonParticipant 64]

Welcome! Many of us have had the same “I’ve had enough” thought in our heads and discover the cause of our misery. Hope you continue to find your Peace in life’s journey!

No Bills No Boss No Bitch

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