I'm done

[CastigatedParticipant 26]

I’m done white knighting and simping for female validation, which is of no worth. I’m done feeling sorry for myself for not gaining that validation when I sought it out the most. Now, I understand how it is to give not as single s~~~ about it. I used to think I was a TFL’er for not be able to recognize or act upon when females signal “genuine” interest in me when I was in my early 20s. Now I laugh these used-up thots to derision.

I’m Castigator, a prior enlisted asshole in his early 30s who enjoys anime, skateboarding, metal, and videogames. I also enjoy the NFG attitude of going my own way. I lost my v-card on a deployment, and chased after women in my mid-20s to no real avail. A few dates here and there, but I was always “too nice”. When I separated from active duty around 25, I was going to college full-time while living with my parents, using my savings and the GI bill to support myself. Around that point in time, I would ask girls out left and right and get rejected or get one date. Now I have a car, a decent job, and a house, which means I’m a “catch”. I’ve dealt with multiple rounds of shaming from all the blue-pilled married guys and thirsty simps at my work for not wanting to date or even sleep with women in general or the specific thots at work. After showing them how little I cared for their opinion as well as explaining how little it benefits a man to deal with women under that capacity these days, eventually they all gave up. I would skillfully deflect the “who hurt you” shaming lines when my responses to their questions of “why aren’t you seeing anybody” or “why don’t you go get laid”. I can easily get along with all of the folks that I work with, but the know and respect my stance when it comes to having relations with females.

My introduction to MGTOW came from consuming Sandman’s content on youtube around 2014, but I did not make the step to digest and fully-internalize the redpill until the end of 2015. Now I enjoy his, TFM’s, huMan’s, and DDJ’s content on a nearly-daily basis. A good rub-out handles any urges for females, while the daily dosage of redpills helps counteract any bluepill urges. For those here who participate in short-term relationships, or those who pump-and-dump, do your thing. For me, I just monk it. But I must say, I’m glad to finally post here after lurking for over a year and a half.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome, Castigated! Love your intro. And thanks for your service in the military!

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

Welcome!

I’m a fellow monk… very happy with this decision, given the risks today.

After showing them how little I cared for their opinion as well as explaining how little it benefits a man to deal with women under

The three most effective words you can say to those would-be meddlers in your life are, “I don’t care.”

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Castigated.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Anonymous 42]

By 30 a man gets it, or he doesn’t! looks like wisdom took hold! Welcome to the counsel of wise men in foolish times!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello C,

Many Thanks for your excellent Introduction.

Castigated wrote:

Now I have a car, a decent job, and a house, which means I’m a “catch”.

Me Too.

Being MGTOW Monk made all a reality.

Castigated wrote:

I’ve dealt with multiple rounds of shaming from all the blue-pilled married guys and thirsty simps ………

They are addicts who have no control over their impulses.

Here is a discussion about one aspect of this addiction. Your feedback there is appreciated:

/forums/topic/blue-pill-men-are-really-pheremone-addicts/

Castigated wrote:

I would skillfully deflect the “who hurt you” shaming lines when my responses to their questions of “why aren’t you seeing anybody” or “why don’t you go get laid”. I can easily get along with all of the folks that I work with, but the know and respect my stance when it comes to having relations with females.

Bravo!

And well said!

Castigated wrote:

…who enjoys ….skateboarding

I learned when I lived in California as a teenager and have enjoyed skateboarding up until my late forties. And I taught my younger brothers and later my son to ride a skate board. We spent the summers riding together and exploring the cities, beaches, and parks. Back in the day, we mostly used our skateboards for transportation and self defense.

I built a custom one that lasted me twenty years.

In my thirties, I used a skateboard to make my rounds working midnight shift. I had to cover about seven miles every night and there was a lot of equipment to check.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 43]

Welcome Castigator! Glad to have you aboard. We’re drinking Oldschool’s beer today, he won’t mind.

I love that feeling when you’re so angry that you have to make a change, angry from being taken advantage of, angry when there is no reciprocity, and no return on civility. At that point all you can do is tell the world to f~~~ off and then go your own way.

Never forget, you are the prize and that women are competing for your resourses. There is your first bit of red pill wisdom for today. You are the prize. Once you know that, the rest of the red pill is easier to swallow.

If you have questions, please ask. No question is too stupid. Just post it up and see what happens.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome and thank you for your service! You have not “failed” with women – these broken creatures have failed you. Their impossible standards, penchant for drama and perpetual s~~~ tests have destroyed any value to a man they may have once possessed.
Now that you recognize this you will be able to remove an obstacle to peace and prosperity in your life.

[DocParticipant]

Welcome. Pull-up a chair.
Tower has the Beers.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Monk here also, it is all bulls~~~.

F~~~ that noise.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Welcome fellow former enlisted!

I almost got laid after visiting USO while I was in A-school in the Navy, but I purchased a magnet chess set from a store that was open late, and the other sailor who was going to pay for half of a hooker for me gave up trying to get me laid when he realize I spent my half, LOL.

Jeez! At least when I lost my vcard it was a gf not a hooker, and she had more 20 teeth.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

it is all bulls~~~.

Yes all of it and I mean all of it.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

obstacle to peace and prosperity in your life.

That really does summarize female significant others in a nutshell.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[JakeParticipant 908]

Welcome kick your feet up

[VerusParticipant 965]

Great introduction, wish I had things figured out at your age. Welcome!

[CastigatedParticipant 26]

Thank you all for the warm welcome. My failure has gained me insights into both myself and female nature that the blue pill could never grant.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome home brother!

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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