I´m being selfish for living my life

[HawkeParticipant 197]

Commencing vent.

So I´ve encountered a topic in news showing some statistic on how young men btn. 25-29 doesn´t have/doesn´t want kids and family. Whatever – nothing surprising – ever now and then mainstream media recirculate the same BS, slap in some interviews, preferably at least one feminist and one socialist politician.

What is worse – stances of my countrymen. Lets filter out feminists, SJW and other morons with special agendas. The rest are people who must´ve choked on blue pills. Some findings below:

– Children are greatest joy of life, they will find out sooner or later
– Selfish assholes all they think is themselves
– And that´s why our nation will go extinct
– This is because their education, carreers, blah-blah…
– (All females there) I want a child, ASAP! But nobody wants one with me! -> big lolz on that one!
– You´re thinking only about money on economics, you will die in sadness without having a child!
– plus lots of variations of above

What make me puke is how those people treat others with opposite opinions. Public shaming of course. Guys not wanting kids were litteraly nuked. But one thing made me Hulk rage. There was a blue pill kid saying that even if he wanted kids the real problem is finding the right partner which is impossible. Go figure. Then thease s~~~s tell him: “You should lower your standards, the real point is to sacrifice some comfortable parts of your life.”

Hot f~~~ing damn! Are those guys serious? Can´t imagine what would happen if I publicly stated my opinions on the matter. Maybe the police would visit me I don´t know. Luckily since I´m basically stealth I don´t even want to.

So to summarize: I´M BEING SELFISH for living my life the way I want to and trying to be happy. The only right way is to have children as soon as possible, doesn´t really matter with who, just to improve statistics, saving my nation from extiction and doing my only mission for our great society! And if I finally have a kid it doesn´t really matter if I can afford it as long as I have one. What do I want to do with my life – totally irrelevant. Remember I live my life for other people not for myself.

Mmm. Very nazi. Much Hitler. Nice doing my fellow citizens.

Look I respect the opinions of others and always will be. That´s one of the points of free world. S~~~ if you like children and they are the one meaning of your life thats great I´m happy for you. Enjoy them raised them right and I hope they´ll make you proud. Your life your decision. But do NOT f~~~ing judge me for having different goals than you and not living according to society´s checklists.

Maybe socialism did this to our country. We were in lockdown for fifty years and the only thing people could do with their lives was to have children and marriage as soon they turned 18. Maybe it stucked in their heads.

As for that exctinction they fear so much, even if the threat was real I don´t much care. It´s not like our country contribued much to anything. Besides if our females want children so badly there are always lots of refugees willing to make them.

Vent complete. Resuming normal operations.

Qui audet adipiscitur - Who dares, wins

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

Women want kids, men want a dog.

Just sharing..
STEALTHY’S WAY…
If you turn off the TV you just turned off about 95% of social brainwashing and programming.

If you really are getting on mgtow road, killing TV is step #1.

#2, get a fleshlight. That solves the pussy problem.

#3 get a dog. Now you have a pal.

#4. Live a cheap bastard life and get out of debt.

#5. Plant a nice spice garden and cook and live well.

#6. Get snipped. You might cone across sone tail. Just do not get trapped.

#7. No f~~~s given. Feminism thrives on overwhelming the male mind with clutter. YOU decide what is important, not sone c~~~s at the Huffpost.

#8. Read your ass off. It will make you a better man.

That last one will transform your life.

And for you oroductive mgtow…dig into yoyr career and projects.

Stealthy

True dat

[Anonymous 42]

Roger that Hawk, ILA reported a vent door on his radar!

@hawk, Your country isn’t the only one full of socialists. The property taxes around here only go one way>>>>far above the actual value triggered by the S&L over appraisals and under qualified loan recipients. All the aftermath of a Clinton, Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, Acorn fiasco! All the governmental progressive policies initiated one by one (starting generations ago) has transformed the people into docile dimwits being slowly ground into the poverty and disparity of central planning over their god given instinct and common sense.

Everyone ends up sitting on their asses waiting for the government to fix everything, while these dimwits continue to write more and more needs to add to the overwhelming list and overwhelming gauntlet of administrators to fill the ever expanding lists.

F~~~ the vent! Implosion is inevitable!

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

Hawke wrote:

There was a blue pill kid saying that even if he wanted kids the real problem is finding the right partner which is impossible. Go figure. Then thease s~~~s tell him: “You should lower your standards, the real point is to sacrifice some comfortable parts of your life.”

This is probably the one double standard that p~~~es me off the most, if I want kinds I have to lower my standards and sacrifice my comfort in order to have a chance and still run the risk of losing them in a divorce, but if she wants kids, I have to man up, raise my game to meet her expectations of me, sacrifice my comfort to give them to her and still run the risk of losing them in a divorce?

F~~~ that, she wants kids? let her up her game and convince me that she’s a worthy mother for my children, and let society convince me that my role as a father will be valued.

I’m not holding my breath on the latter and so far I’ve yet to meet a single woman in my life who has even come close the former. So I guess I’ll just carry on being a selfish bastard happy living my life on my terms and enjoying all of the fruit of my labour.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

You’re called selfish for wanting the same things that women want and get handed for free. Wow, you don’t want kids? You must be SELFISH. I’ll tell you what’s really selfish. Women get what they want, and the minute they stop they leave.

No more money because you lose your job? She’s gone. You and her have some kids and now she doesn’t want any more? Divorced, she’s gone, you’re out on the streets, and broke. She can have everything she wants and you’re supposed to work to give it to her. Why? A man isn’t allowed to be happy, have his own wants and desires, have his own goals and dreams, he has to work solely to support a woman so that she can have what she wants, so she can be selfish.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

If people were truely selfless, then they would be adopting starving orphans from a third world country rather than producing their own offspring. But they are just as selfish as singles and want a family for their own selfish reasons. Its funny how terrible they are at hiding it! Ever heard the old shaming tactic that goes “You will die alone”. They say that because they think their spouse will be there to take care of them when they are old. If not their spouse, than there children. They, just like singles, are always thinking about themselves.

“You are so selfish for living the way you see fit and not bothering anybody else. Now I will shamelessly promote myself as the example of selflessness that you should strive to become! I was gracious enough to allow my husband marry me even though he doesn’t make as much as my dad and only remind him of that once I’ve burned through our savings. When he doesn’t fulfill every chore on my honey-to-do list, I only disrespect him in front of our kids for 10 minutes and alleviate the rest of my hurt feelings through shopping therapy with his credit cards. One of our kids is even his! I had the other with Chad Thunderc~~~ during a rough patch in our marriage where he wasn’t fulfilling his real man duties. If you become a real man and stop being selfish, you’ll attract a real prize like me.”

[Anonymous 54]

So I guess the persute of happiness is just for women. F~~~ THAT !!! I have a right to be happy.I do not have kids,I never wanted them .Man the carp I have taken. Iv been Gmow for over a decade. The s~~~ i take for that.I am lucky I enjoy solitude. I don’t need blue pill white night mangina f~~~ing pussys to keep me company.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I no longer care if I’m perceived as selfish with my life choices. As each year passes and I hover at middle age, I realize how brief and fragile life can be in the scheme of things. I literally have no time to worry; only time to do those things that seem relevant to my chosen path.
I’ve never been married and I don’t want kids. Saying that i don’t want to pass my own traits and genetic makeup is part of it. having someone rely on me to a great extent is another; I need my freedom. Call that selfish, it’s just a fact. Yesterday, today and maybe tomorrow .. I think very little (if at a all) about relationships. I’m more concerned about daily tasks that I’ve committed to. I get up early and find myself busy every day usually until dusk. That’s just the way my life is right now. As I posted in another thread, I could even use some help, especially with office related items but have decided to spend a few dollars on upgrades and see if see if technology can eliminate the need for a helper. I believe it can. I also send and receive lots of delicate and fragile parcels and have no way to avoid this task. It requires real care with packaging. I could certainly use help basically full time in that area; it’s the one real time sink. Seeing if I can stay independent of the need for others. I believe with the right technological shortcuts and tweaking I can remain a one person entity.
So, what is selfishness? Not pursuing a relationship? Not sharing one’s life with another? I don’t know and I believe those questions are now on the back burner for me. I have scratched and clawed all my adult life to try and have the ability to live in a way that will give me some freedoms to set my own agenda. I have succeeded in a few ways and failed miserably in others as i now find that some of my own choices, my own path is now taking over the vast majority of my time and life. The one saving grace is that this is my own path, if i’m busy and running around all day with little time for what some would define as fun .. at least I chose this journey. No one thrust this lifestyle upon me. For that, I am thankful. I’m not lonely, I’m not sad and I’m certainly not longing for the additional burden of a relationship. I have some pretty nice nature around me. In other words; today, I may be labelled by some in society as selfish for not sharing my remaining time; but that’s the way it is and to deviate from my current life and routine would mean leaving the path that, to this day, has kept me somewhat free.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

i eat shaming tactics like tic tacs.
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MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HawkeParticipant 197]

Thanks for the input guys.

I really don´t give a rat´s arse if the whole nation calls me selfish unless they try to make some kind of law out of it. It´s just interesting to see how the majority of those hypocrites seem to be programmed the same way though. And how they are too quick to define things like selflessness and such.

If there was a natural disaster/war/or whatever, food handed as rations and if I took everything for myself while holding a gun pointed to everyone´s face I say NOW that´s being selfish.

But how exactly am I selfish by living alone, not wanting relationship, spouse and children? I´am spending money, paying taxes and all the other shyte goverment enforces just like everyone else. Why not start calling old people who don´t/can´t work selfish as well by their standard?

But ask any of them if they are happy with their lives. Bang, there! Most of those guys I know preaching about selflessness etc. can´t even figure out s~~~ in their own families. Then ask them how their finances are holding up. Then ask their kids how happy they are. There. May-day May-day May-day. So I don´t think their ways are universal key to happiness as they claim to be.
Sometimes I even heard rants about all those good things they missed and how they wish they could turn back time. Cough cough MGTOW.

Maybe it´s even envy on their side – what happends if a guy with a s~~~ty life meets other with a happy life? What I observed from today´s society I bet he wished the other one had s~~~ty life too. Sadly. But this is stuff that belong to philosofical corner.

Bottom line is I´m happy with the way I live and wouldn´t want it any other way. And if that means being labeled as selfish then I´m proudly selfish and I´ll wear that like an armor.

Qui audet adipiscitur - Who dares, wins

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

@ Hawke

You’re right, what is selfish anyways? Nearly everyone prioritizes their own well being over others, so its a matter of deciding how much self serving behavior qualifies a person to be labeled as selfish.

I may be single, but I also try to be considerate of others. Just yesterday, I saw a man with a confused look on his face as I was walking to my internship. A lot of people would’ve ignored him but I made eye contact and stopped when he returned eye contact and walked toward me. He said he was lost and explained where he needed me to go. I took a moment to give him clear directions and then continued walking to work a minute or two late. As a mgtow, I know where my priorities lie, but I don’t use that as an excuse to treat others like s~~~. Even though feminist love to think of us as socially awkward mysoginist, I’d take the time to give those directions to a women as well. Because unlike the feminist, I like to treat people as equals.

And being equals, I will not tolerate an unequal relationship even if that makes me “selfish”. I treat others with respect and respect myself enough to know I deserve the same. I have standards and will not “make sacrifices” because someone else is enough of a hypocrite to call me “selfish” for not validating their own choice in life.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Hawke wrote:

But ask any of them if they are happy with their lives. Bang, there! Most of those guys I know preaching about selflessness etc. can´t even figure out s~~~ in their own families. Then ask them how their finances are holding up. Then ask their kids how happy they are. There. May-day May-day May-day. So I don´t think their ways are universal key to happiness as they claim to be.
Sometimes I even heard rants about all those good things they missed and how they wish they could turn back time. Cough cough MGTOW.

And there is your tactic when they ask. Just ask about their life for a few minutes. When they start to complain, then just say “So why the f~~~ should I take your advice? I’m happy and you’re miserable. Let me know when YOU want some advice.”

My other favorite is “What ever made you think that my life is a democracy where you get a vote? For the record, it’s a dictatorship.” I’ve used that one before. The other one I’ve used before is “I really hope that someday I have my life so dialed in that I have the free time to go around fixing other people’s lives. It must feel good to have your s~~~ THAT together.”

You could always go old school with dad’s favorite. “Well, opinions are like assholes, everybody got one.”

Order the good wine

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9549]

I live my own life my own way. If that makes me selfish, then I’ll just have to live with that, at which I don’t mind. It’s the woman who is selfish, because she wants her stuff at the expense of the man’s hard work.

I hate the part where woman think that men are obligated to them and kids, when we’re not. I don’t want to have a wife and kids, and the more I see other people’s marriages and MGTOW examples, the more on my own I get.

Hell, if I had won that Mega Millions last night and not that Indiana person, I would really be on my way, and disappear.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

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