I'm a Bad Ass she said, and she liked it.. until

[Anonymous 5]

A woman i had wasted four recent years on expressed to me that she believed that I “was a bad ass”. Now fellas I look at myself and know that my definition of the term must run absolutely contrary to its real meaning! I’m not running around knocking big guys off of their motor cycles or anything like that , but if confronted with her stone walling and aggressive behavior i would give it back in the same measure and kind, but she would get all belligerent and defiant with me. So maybe what she really means is that I wasnt about to tollerate any of her bull s~~~ , constantly reminded her that I made the rules and it was her obligation to keep within the limits of those healthy boundaries I had set in place.
But could she keep those healthy and very reasonable boundaries, absolutely not, that is why i am no longer with her.
Brothers Reclaiming Their Manhood B~~~~ this type of woman is one of the most dangerous kind out there , she claimed to be “a Good Woman”!
This woman loved the hippie bulls~~~ of the 60s and 70s, free love, flower children and the most feminist movements in this nations history. That stupid relationship was nothing but an emotional roller coaster ride from the moment we began talking till our last conversation which ended with this phrase from me” dont you ever try to communicate with me again, either through my family or friends, because my response to you will keep you waiting a very very long time. Like forever.

She wanted to wear the pants in this relationship, when in the beginning of the relationship she claimed she was a very subnissive woman to and for her man, which just turned out to be one of thousands more lies she spewed out of her pie hole.

I have chalked it up to another lesson taught , another lesson learned for the incorporation of MGTOW as a way of life from that point on!!!

[WallyParticipant]

AWALT, this woman was textbook, promising one thing and doing another.

Anonymous wrote:

Brothers Reclaiming Their Manhood B~~~~ this type of woman is one of the most dangerous kind out there , she claimed to be “a Good Woman”!

Make no mistake, there is only one type of woman, good on you for getting out of this situation.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

You have it figured out nevets61. Say one thing/mean another. Riding the roller coaster of a relationship with a women will make amusement parks seem mild. Congratulations on exiting that ride. Stay away from women, AWALT.

Keep your hands and penis free from women at all times during the full duration of MGTOW, till your fixed. Then your pass expires for each new ride after you have used your few remaining tickets. Then onto to another ride.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[HitmanParticipant]

women lie and the sky is blue.
just how it is.

[Ronin11Participant 208]

she claimed she was a very subnissive woman to and for her man, which just turned out to be one of thousands more lies she spewed out of her pie hole.

When women lie like this you have to wonder if there are more lies than truth coming out of their mouths.

There are no good women only degrees of bad.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

But could she keep those healthy and very reasonable boundaries, absolutely not, that is why i am no longer with her.

Exactly as it should be.

She wanted to wear the pants in this relationship, when in the beginning of the relationship she claimed she was a very subnissive woman to and for her man, which just turned out to be one of thousands more lies she spewed out of her pie hole.

It shouldn’t matter if she wants to “wear the pants in the relationship” if there’s no relationship. When dealing with a woman, any woman, one of the most important things you can tell her is: “What relationship?”

[Anonymous 5]

See sidecar the thing is when I first met her, she claimed she was the opitomy of “good wife material”, and I bought into her deception, the first month was grand and great, then she allowed her niece to move in, and her niece was using drugs , crack to be exact, and before I knew it this ideal women switched gears and did a complete 180 on me, she had started using weed, and little by little the witchy biatch showed up, and she didnt care anymore about working on the relationship, when I would “Skype” with her she would answer the call and then leave me there waiting for hours, And you are right that is when I initially said I had had enough and cut it off. For two months I didnt hear a word from her, and then i recieved an e-mail from her and I fell right back into the bull s~~~ until the next falling out.
It was not so much that we didnt have a relationship Per say, she was widddleing down my resisntance to the things she wanted to be in charge of anyway, you know one argument at a time, and I like a good mangina would comply. Because she dangled the hope of us finally being together, and her undying love for me like the proverbial carrot in my Blue pill f~~~ing face.
I let all of the things I didnt want in a woman , become part of the biatch I came to know, and I caved in like the goodlittle obedient boy she wanted me to be. Always with that carrot in my face. But part of me knew that it was going to end the way it ended. Did I want that , no I was tired of failed relationships being the constant in my life, and I was in it for the long hall, I was determined to make this one work !!!
But as we all All Of My Manhood Ball Recovering Brothers know if its not there , then its just not there, and it will never be there and start running for the god damn hills.
But all of the odds have been stacked against us finding a nawalt Since s~~~ass biatches decided feminism was and is the new standard.
And that biatch knew how to use feminism and deception to her ultimate benefit, and I was again left holding my guts in a bag wondering how the hell did I get myself into such a mess again, wasting all that time.
Do I blame her absolutely ,is it right for me to blame her ? well of course it is!!! It was not I who tossed her to the curb, and it was not I who when asked the question”are you sure this is what you want?” who said “yes”.
But I do blame myself for sticking it out for so long when I knew in my heart I knew better!!! After I witnessed with my own eyes her deep hatred towards men, and her hatred towards me in particular. I am responsible for staying inspite of that knowledge. And thats all the responsibility I need to own.
Side car there is more to this than I want to divulge, but as time passes I will tell more about this relationship.

Sincerely:
Steve

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

See sidecar the thing is when I first met her, she claimed she was the opitomy of “good wife material”, and I bought into her deception,

I don’t need to go any further than that because the rest of your story is all too common. Experiences like yours are the reason why we say AWALT.

But that’s beside my point, which is this: Whether or not a woman is “good wife material” or “good relationship material” or whatever should only matter to a man looking for a wife.

But why would any man look for a wife? Why would any sane man want that? Especially these days and in this legal climate.

A wife is nothing but a huge f~~~ing liability any more.

Sure we’ve all been sold a lie by “society” about what a wife is “supposed to be”, but that lie is no more real than El Dorado or leprechauns or unicorns. The reality is we can’t actually have such things as “good wives” because such things do not exist any more. They have become an impossibility, a contradiction of terms, and not even oxymoronically.

A wife of any stripe, bad or supposedly good, is a bad thing, and a dangerous thing, for any man to be stuck with.

A large part of Going Your Own Way is learning this truth. It’s a disappointing truth, perhaps, but a truth nonetheless.

Once you stop giving a f~~~ about having a wife, a woman can’t use the lie of being “good wife material” against you.

tl;dr: the trap becomes irrelevant once you know all the cheese is rotten to the core. If nothing else, be thankful you can’t fall for that trap ever again.

[Y_Participant 4591]

There is no such thing as a ‘good woman’. Never was or will be.
It is a contradiction of terms like ‘holy satan’ or ‘dry water’
This is the lizard brain talking to your dick to jump off the cliff.
Listen to your spider sense – it’s never wrong.

[narwhalParticipant]

From what I’ve seen, there will be a character trait a man possess that draws her in. Once she ‘has you’, she will do all she can to challenge and beat that character trait out of you. If you change, she is no longer into you because you are not the man she married. If you do not change, then your a stubborn bastard.

Don’t play the game.

Ok. Then do it.

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

I think ultimately men are somehow schooled on the idea of ethics and moral codes and good character. We read Plato or Descartes or Emerson and we take it seriously. Or perhaps it is Churchill or Jefferson or Washington or Nelson that gets to us. Each guy has a go to ethical character. Women seem to be sitting in the same classes, but for whatever reason they just don’t give a s~~~ about any of that stuff. Somehow they grow up in a different world even though they are sitting beside us.

Let the good times roll

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