If You Had To Choose…

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

…between marrying a woman (who has a kid), or spending the rest of your life as a single man while watching money accumulate in your savings account, which life would you choose?

Being rejected by a woman is emotionally painful, but life goes on.

https://people.com/crime/indiana-man-fatally-shot-girlfriend-rejected-marriage-proposal/

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[GrumpyParticipant]

Me.
I chose me.
Rejection is nothing to me, and I get over it fast.
I dont get angry when I’m out fishing and one fish doesn’t take the bait, another will take it sooner or later. Same with hunting.
Most definitely the exact same perspective with jobs and women. They are more likely to be wrong for me, not the other way around.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[GregB0Participant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

spending the rest of your life as a single man while watching money accumulate in your savings account, which life would you choose?

Option B ensures that you will always live your life.

If you choose to later have a women within it, you will have the money and resources to spend as you wish. On yourself as it pleases you to do, not as it pleases her or due to the needs of her child.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[AutoliteParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

…between marrying a woman (who has a kid), or spending the rest of your life as a single man while watching money accumulate in your savings account, which life would you choose?

I’d stay single my entire life for a McDonald’s gift certificate and 50 AirMiles…

[JVBParticipant]

………let me think about that. I’ll be back.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 42]

Choose?

I don’t have to choose, I made my choice!

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Single. Like it is even a question ?

Frank V.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Since KM is not here, I’ll post his wisdom.

Being rejected often means you are doing everything right.

With women this is natural.

The more noble, polite and open-minded you are, the worse women feel around you. They are afraid of you taking off the moment you see that they are full of s~~~.

Choosing my own way wasn’t a matter of choice for me.

It just turned out that way.

C~~~s never landed on my airport because I subconsciously knew to avoid them and not give them power. After my childhood, this was logical.

But then my job required to develop a public standing and making the right appearance all of the time.

And this drove me to the point when women outright stayed away from me and even told me that they “can’t keep up with the expectations others would have on them” if they were to be my steady partner.

Yes, women became afraid of getting drawn into my set of responsibilities and having to put on a nice demeanor in public.

Most women are vile bitches and want to stay that way.

They are compatible with the drama “bad boys” regularly create.

Women are afraid of being forced into a “good life” or live in a constraint of having to be nice to every other human being.

Even if it is only for the sake of her man’s successful business.

I didn’t “choose” to stay away from c~~~s. Life made that decision for me.

And this was my feedback that “I made it”:

Women who once ignored me would later say (while in a flirt/small talk) “Well in your world, everything is perfect…” But in a derisive tone…

Well, I was so proud of that.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Women want a man they can control.

One they can reliably turn into their wage slave. They call it “security”…

In my case, I went from the “eternal student” to a 6-figure man in about 5 years of time.

And this scares both social layers in your locality.

The poor c~~~s (who used to ignore me for not haying enough gold to dig for) were suddenly turning jealous and hated me for what I have achieved. And they would also hate every other woman in their hive who would ever dare to “step out of line” to be with me. (It was like a secret and invisible wall around these and I pitied them)

So my “social class” was completely unavailable. Like I posted above. They had a big inferiority complex and were almost forbidden to “play with me” by their hive.

And then came the rich/wealthy c~~~s: Well I was never on their “team” and I never licked their asses. Or socialized to become “one of them”…

I surely made more money than most of their husbands but my job was not the “status symbol”… I was not “eligible” to be in that “class”… LOL.

…Only smiling internally when they cringed at every bill they got…

…And when the bank came to repossess the house or the huge cars the bragged with…

Wealthy c~~~s and families living in palaces are mostly in debt up to their throats…

So better to stay from them as well.

That’s how you stay monk without being “unattractive”…

Life makes those choices for you.

Finding yourself as MGHOW years later is just another outcome of having done the right thing all along.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Gargamel wrote:

In my case, I went from the “eternal student” to a 6-figure man in about 5 years of time.

And this scares both social layers in your locality.

I just found this quote in Esther Vilar’s book “The Manipulated Man”

http://www.naturalthinker.net/trl/texts/Vilar,Esther/The_manipulated_man.pdf

A man who changes his way of life, or rather his profession (for life and profession are synonymous to him), is considered unreliable. If he does it more than once, he becomes a social outcast and remains alone.

Well that fits me to a tee.

I am unreliable…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

I’d take freedom for $1,000 Alex

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

I’d rather put a cigarette out on my eyeball than get married to a modern feminist c~~~.

This is not hyperbole. I mean it literally.

The answer, is no.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

If I had to choose between getting in a relations~~~ and losing a leg, I wold choose to lose the leg and have to eat it later.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[AttonParticipant]

MGTOW could have saved them both.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

The guy was beta and blue pill as f~~~, he should have been happy she rejected him, she alrady has a kid, at 45 he should know better.

Why was this dude chasing old used up pussy let alone wanting to marry it ??!!

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Carnage wrote:

If I had to choose between getting in a relations~~~ and losing a leg, I wold choose to lose the leg and have to eat it later.

No, because then you are disabled and need screeching harpies again to push your wheelchair and do your house work.

And no more means to walk away fast.

And stand on your own 2 feet…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

Having a marriage proposal rejected –

That must be rough.

I knew a pumpkin who’s beta ‘boyfriend’ proposed to her and she didn’t say yes and didn’t say no.

I was banging her occasionally at the time. I was Secret C~~~. Literally, nobody in her life knew about me. Not a soul. I was even non-existent to all but one member of her hive aka cupcake club. The only reason she told that one member about me was to get some kind of twisted excitement or thrill from telling her about all of the hardcore & degrading stuff I did to her.

Anyway, back to the proposal. She came over one night and told me that a guy had proposed to her. He was one of three white knight, beta chumps that she had been ‘dating’ while in potential wallet / provider acquisition mode.

None of those guys knew about the other two. But I did. That’s how being Secret C~~~ works. You also get told all of the totally insane and pathological behavior they engage in.

After all, pumpkin has nothing to hide when telling Secret C~~~ things.

After we f~~~ed, I asked her what she was going to do.

Well, she already had a busy week after the proposal –

She told one of the other betas that she had been dating another guy and he proposed. She said that guy started crying uncontrollably and hyperventilating and that ‘He was starting to scare me. . .’

It’s like. No s~~~ pumpkin. You spent two years mind f~~~ing him while claiming to be a born again virgin that was waiting to get married to have sex again and he invested his time effort and energy pursuing what he thought was a unicorn.

She also told the other beta. LOL He freaked the f~~~ out, starting posting stuff on Facebook, called her a slut. Then apologized and called her over 200 times in three days and sent hundreds of texts. He was served a restraining order that one of her hive members convinced her to get. Beta lockdown was initiated.

To be continued – Need to plug my phone in

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

. . .continuing:

Then she said she talked to a few of her girlfriends that week about the proposal. Separately. Like, meeting up with multiple other pumpkins at separate times to ‘talk about things’. I can only imagine how much Starbucks and/or wine was consumed during the meetings.

She had multiple aspects of the situation vetted by pumpkin pack members.

Then also had to meet with her parents to talk about it. Her dad was blue pill to the bone and wealthy. He loved the idea since he could pawn his highest monthly expense (her) off on another blue pill chump.

And. . .

She met back up with the lucky beta and told him two weeks after the proposal – ‘Yes’

Yeah, I know. He was actually excited.

Anyway, I kept banging her up until two weeks before the wedding when in my living room I told her it was going to be game over after the wedding and she threw a temper tantrum, stomped her feet on the hardwood floor and yelled ‘Why do you have to ruin everything!!’

WOW Version 4.01

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Sky-O wrote:

None of those guys knew about the other two. But I did. That’s how being Secret C~~~ works. You also get told all of the totally insane and pathological behavior they engage in.

Your posts always explain to a tee how c~~~s tick and are worded so perfectly.

I love your accurate “frontline reports”.

We could use more posts like yours here, because this is what unsuspecting (loving and caring) men need to read.

They ring so many bells with me…

I have seen so many stories unfold in real life that were exactly like yours.

I was often the “psychiatrist” or emotional tampon for the c~~~s.

Sometimes I was only the “wise guy” to ask.

More often, they would hit on me and I would engage but “hex-dump” their brain to see who I am dealing with.
And once you hypnotize them, the s~~~ flows like from a broken sewage pipe…

And there you get to hear what’s really going on inside of their twisted minds. If they even have one.

At the end of the day, after she told you all of her s~~~, you are glad to still be “only her tampon” and had not yet become emotionally involved.

I was always glad to be able to make my run for it before something like “love” could set in and cause me pain.

After some years you just unlearn to fall in love since you know that this is most likely an illusion anyway.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

That is not even a question, if she already has a spawn which is not mine I see zero value in her, just liability.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

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