If we are men going their own way, and we all wound up here, then we all

[Anonymous 11]

must have come from somewhere else.

A Black Hole

[Anonymous 6]

Yes we are all made of stars!

[bladeParticipant]

I know were we come from.Venus .F~~~ i want to go back right now. Lol

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I think that for me it’s because gmow is an ongoing process. I’m still tweaking my path each and every day. I know generally why I’m Ghosting .. and, because I don’t know and haven’t thought through all the financial-legal dangers out there .. I am currently going Monk.
Sometimes, I might ask myself .. is this really the way I want to live? Lots of people are pairing up and living their lives. Then, I say to myself .. lots and lots of them are splitting up .. sometimes very painfully and almost always with lingering consequences. All women are degrees of awalt and I really don’t have the time and energy to engage them in any way.
So there I am, back at square one where, at least for the moment, I’m safe and in control of my life, my emotions and future finances .. as much as possible. All this would change if an awalt turned on me and had something to work with; something like a relationship history, intimate encounter that she could really slam in my face legally or some claim that she and her advocates could file against me. Heaven forbid.
I don’t want someone knocking on my door with legal papers, I don’t want anyone calling me at home, I don’t want anyone making claims to my property as if I owe them .. and probably most of all .. I don’t want to lose control because some woman has the laws and basically much of the legal system on her side when a relationship goes bad. Think of all the alternatives she has .. and with a few little lies on her part she can really mess up my life.
I’d rather be alone. Life is pretty good .. I have a nice routine and don’t want to change things. Everyone designs their own path and that’s the definition of gyow. Some guys successfully date and if they can comfortably pull it off with no consequences I’m sure it’s an incredible journey; I absolutely wish them well and all the best as they follow their own path. That’s a decision just like my decision is to do nothing in regards to relationships. Don’t necessarily do as I do ..but, at the moment .. avoidance of most everything in regards to relationships seems totally right for me.

[Dave CParticipant 46]

hmskl’d wrote:

I think that for me it’s because gmow is an ongoing process. I’m still tweaking my path each and every day. I know generally why I’m Ghosting .. and, because I don’t know and haven’t thought through all the financial-legal dangers out there .. I am currently going Monk.
Sometimes, I might ask myself .. is this really the way I want to live? Lots of people are pairing up and living their lives. Then, I say to myself .. lots and lots of them are splitting up .. sometimes very painfully and almost always with lingering consequences. All women are degrees of awalt and I really don’t have the time and energy to engage them in any way.
So there I am, back at square one where, at least for the moment, I’m safe and in control of my life, my emotions and future finances .. as much as possible. All this would change if an awalt turned on me and had something to work with; something like a relationship history, intimate encounter that she could really slam in my face legally or some claim that she and her advocates could file against me. Heaven forbid.
I don’t want someone knocking on my door with legal papers, I don’t want anyone calling me at home, I don’t want anyone making claims to my property as if I owe them .. and probably most of all .. I don’t want to lose control because some woman has the laws and basically much of the legal system on her side when a relationship goes bad. Think of all the alternatives she has .. and with a few little lies on her part she can really mess up my life.
I’d rather be alone. Life is pretty good .. I have a nice routine and don’t want to change things. Everyone designs their own path and that’s the definition of gyow. Some guys successfully date and if they can comfortably pull it off with no consequences I’m sure it’s an incredible journey; I absolutely wish them well and all the best as they follow their own path. That’s a decision just like my decision is to do nothing in regards to relationships. Don’t necessarily do as I do ..but, at the moment .. avoidance of most everything in regards to relationships seems totally right for me.

Couldn’t have said it better myself. In moments of self doubt, I pop in here for a bit and become instantly reassured this is the right way to go.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

hmskl’d wrote:

I’m safe and in control of my life, my emotions and future finances .. as much as possible.

That is worth it’s weight in gold.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[WallyParticipant]

hmskl’d wrote:

I think that for me it’s because gmow is an ongoing process. I’m still tweaking my path each and every day. I know generally why I’m Ghosting .. and, because I don’t know and haven’t thought through all the financial-legal dangers out there .. I am currently going Monk.
Sometimes, I might ask myself .. is this really the way I want to live? Lots of people are pairing up and living their lives. Then, I say to myself .. lots and lots of them are splitting up .. sometimes very painfully and almost always with lingering consequences. All women are degrees of awalt and I really don’t have the time and energy to engage them in any way.
So there I am, back at square one where, at least for the moment, I’m safe and in control of my life, my emotions and future finances .. as much as possible. All this would change if an awalt turned on me and had something to work with; something like a relationship history, intimate encounter that she could really slam in my face legally or some claim that she and her advocates could file against me. Heaven forbid.
I don’t want someone knocking on my door with legal papers, I don’t want anyone calling me at home, I don’t want anyone making claims to my property as if I owe them .. and probably most of all .. I don’t want to lose control because some woman has the laws and basically much of the legal system on her side when a relationship goes bad. Think of all the alternatives she has .. and with a few little lies on her part she can really mess up my life.
I’d rather be alone. Life is pretty good .. I have a nice routine and don’t want to change things. Everyone designs their own path and that’s the definition of gyow. Some guys successfully date and if they can comfortably pull it off with no consequences I’m sure it’s an incredible journey; I absolutely wish them well and all the best as they follow their own path. That’s a decision just like my decision is to do nothing in regards to relationships. Don’t necessarily do as I do ..but, at the moment .. avoidance of most everything in regards to relationships seems totally right for me.

Beautifully written

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

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