If The Dating Game is Rigged, Why Should We Care?

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

If you’re upset about “failing” to get the kind of results you wanted when you went out on a date with a woman, you shouldn’t criticize yourself too much. First of all, we’re all born NOT KNOWING how to deal with each other, socially. It’s a learning process. Second: a woman’s mind is very complicated. There’s a whole obstacle course you have to navigate through just to get her to take off her panties (there are exceptions, and rich & famous men need not worry). As men, we want a strait path to sex because our minds are set up to accomplish goals efficiently. When it comes to women, they want to take the scenic road to sex because their minds are set up to waste time.

After reading some books and website material from a lot of PUAs, I used to get mad at myself for making all sorts of mistakes while dating women in the past. I don’t feel that way now—at least I tried to do something with my limited knowledge. Most of the PUAs come to the same conclusion: you must feel confident. What exactly does that mean? It means you feel okay about who you are and your ability to get what you want out of life. Being afraid is natural, but if you learn to overcome your fears, and negotiate your way to a better life, you’ll win this game. The trick is: you have to figure out how to evolve into a state of confidence while you’re surrounded by people who are doing everything they can to humiliate you so you’ll end up feeling shy and unsure of yourself. (WTF?!) The game is designed for those that are brave and bold. That’s just the way it is. There’s nothing fair about it.

If you don’t get laid with some woman you’re dating, so what? You’re not the only one. Date her sister instead. Or date one of her friends. If you find yourself in the friend zone—join the club! We’re all in some woman’s friend zone. There’s over 3 billion guys on the planet and less than 100 of them are likely to f~~~ this particular woman you’re lusting after. So shake the dust off your sandals and go to the next woman. You might be pleasantly surprised that the next woman you date is WAY better than your ex-girlfriend/ex-wife (better looking and less drama). It’s easy to get depressed and think you’ll never meet another woman who’s just like the last one you dated. Maybe so, but you might meet someone BETTER!

Worst case scenario: If you’ve tried and failed to get a girlfriend/get laid, you can travel to Asia and Europe to fool around in the legal brothels. If you have money, and you’re copping a feel, I’d say that’s probably the best compensation you’re going to get since this game is set up for men to fail easily.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

That’s why Mgtow exist, because we don’t. I don’t know if it’s really rigged, rather the c~~~s, take us for granted, because nobody is stopping them. Mgtow are whistle-blowers, rebels, and bringing back checks-and-balances.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Ummm. What?

are you a chia pet in man drag

[DutchieParticipant 119]

Nah. No relations for me. What’s the point of changing myself into a person I don’t want to be,get covered in heaps of drama and lose a lot of money, energy and emotional balance in the process.

If you don't understand my post at first, no worries, it's probably my English. 😉

[RoyDalParticipant]

I’ve tried it both ways. My life is far simpler, and I am far happier, for giving up dating. It has a lot to do with why I became a MGHOW back when we were called “confirmed bachelors.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Had girlfriends, some for over 3 years steady, been laid many times, and not afraid.
ALWAYS glad when they were gone. Never shed a tear, never, ever tried to get back together.
I was thoroughly sick of them. Not worth the bulls~~~ and money required to play the game. Even the “good ones” turn to s~~~ after a while, and I’m not talking about looks.
I’d still have a fling with an attractive woman if she asked nicely, but most women in my realistic age group are ugly as a mud fence. Sad, but true. Cat ladies. Most of them I meet look like they hit the wall and pounded through with their faces. And they do try to hit on me, and I avoid them like the plague they are. I live in a s~~~ty area for dating anyway, and I hate being around drunks so I don’t like bars. Way too much work.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

How about we just don’t date and live our lives happily until the end?

Women and dating are ancient history.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

The dating game is rigged, so play a different game.

So let her think she’s playing poker. Won’t she be surprised to find you’ve been playing backgammon all along?

[LivinitupParticipant 135]

I don´t date the classic way…

What i do is, if i meet a girl when i´m out and about that seems interested, i ask her to have a drink with me and that right there is my s~~~ test.

I buy the first, maybe second drink and wait for her to buy the second/third round. If she does´nt, that´s it. Bonus points if she insists on paying the first round!

(gotta mention that i also buy drinks for friends or even strangers if we are having a good conversation at the time, so i don´t mind blowing a bit of money on socialising. IMHO that Karma stuff is kinda working though, more often then not i´m on the receiving end too)

I also tell them very early on that i´m not interested in a relationship whatsoever, but if they still want to ride my c~~~ that´s alright with me.

Age is also very important: the younger they are, the safer it is that they don´t want to get preggers yet. 21 year old co-ed girl? Pretty safe for a bareback ride if you don´t mind the danger of an STD. If you have the slightest doubt though, use a rubber. And if you use one, always use your OWN where you are sure she didn´t tinker with it.

Girls like that are bearable in my book because they´re drama free and don´t cost an arm and a leg.

The underlying truth with that is that many girls have absolutely no problem paying for your drinks if they want you to f~~~ their brains out, they only demand being paid drinks and dinners and s~~~ if they don´t want to f~~~ you in the first place and that´s that.

Why should the C~~~ Carousel only work for them? If you are so inclined and not yet ready to go monk, make the CC work for you….

Now, all of that comes naturally to me, it´s just the way i am and that makes it effortless for me.

I can totally see that it might be too much work for others who´s SOP´s are different naturally and in that case it´s easier to just say “F~~~ IT” and don´t date at all…

Keep in mind that i´ve been doing this MGTOW thing without knowing there was a name for it pretty much since i was 15yo and that plays a huge role there. If you are new to it or recently swallowed the red pill and you´re still p~~~ed off, it´s too much effort and your mind might not be ready yet but it will come more naturally a few years down the road i think once you get that calmness.

Once you´re pretty indidfferent about it, it´s just about wether or not you want to take up the offer for a free drink and a blowjob or not.

It all comes down to the path YOU choose!

give us liberty, or give us death!

[BokehParticipant 65]

I disagree strongly that women are complicated. They’re not. They just have different agendas and morals and ethics than we do, and we (Well, some of us) expect them to act and think like us.

They don’t.

Figure that out, and peeling her panties off is easy.

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