If I had a quarter for every time…

[dobsin593Participant 239]

In my past I used to look at the lives of other guys around me in my place of work and out regarding their marriages and long term relationships. Sometimes I felt like I was the odd one out and lacking something or that I wasn’t complete without a wife or steady girlfriend.
I guess in my imagination I assumed these guys had a great life with good women especially when I saw them in public. My eyes began to be opened as the years progressed and I was increasingly told by those same guys that I was the smart one out of the group for being single. At times I thought they were just joking but what I was hearing from them was increasing.
Phrases spoken to me over the years like:
” If I had to do it all over again, I’d never get married and would be single forever.”
” If it’s got t~~~ or tires it’s going to cause you problems.”
” Single are you? That’s the way to be.”
” I envy you. Stay single man.”
” Women, you can never please them.Stay single!”
” I can’t get away from her and just do something by myself for 20 minutes.”
” I wanted to do this on holidays but my wife/girlfriend wanted to do that instead so that is where we are going.”

If I had a quarter for every time I was told by another guy to stay single….

When I was a little younger and saw men get married around me and common law relationships with women, I felt that I was falling behind, missing out, and wasn’t where I should be in life.
Seeing things change over the years and hearing nightmarish stories from fellow men around me regarding what they have been through has been an eye opener. I never knew a lot of those guys saw themselves as lacking certain freedoms and saw me as being one of the lucky guys for my single life.
Strange seeing things and perspectives change over the years and now places like MGTOW. Cheers.

[BoarParticipant]

You saw what I have also seen: the sacrifice of good men on the altar of dream that no longer exists. It may have never existed, but at maybe whimyn were better at controlling themselves then.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[AutoliteParticipant]

My father had a life long s~~~ marriage yet he always preached to me how important it was for a man to have a woman in his life.

To this day I can’t be certain that he wasn’t intentionally just f~~~ing with my head…

[KeymasterKeymaster]

dobsin593 wrote:

Sometimes I felt like I was the odd one out and lacking something or that I wasn’t complete without a wife or steady girlfriend.

When your eyes are open to it, it’s EVERYWHERE. Like that “you complete me” s~~~ from Jerry Maguire. Eventually you realize is bogus and wonder why they still try to hammer it into your head. You’re only SOCIALIZED to think it.

dobsin593 wrote:

” I envy you. Stay single man.”

I once worked with a guy named George. He sat next to me, was married and just had a second kid (back then). I could tell work was almost like “time off” and he would listen intently when I told stories. One day he asked what I was doing for a 3-day weekend, and I said I had no idea, was probably going to just get in the car, with no map and no plan and see where the road takes me.

He said “when I grow up… I wanna be you”.

I laughed. He didn’t.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AttonParticipant]

When I was a little younger and saw men get married around me and common law relationships with women, I felt that I was falling behind, missing out, and wasn’t where I should be in life.

Missing out on alimony that much is for sure.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Blood AxeParticipant 1179]

dobsin593 wrote:

At times I thought they were just joking but what I was hearing from them was increasing.
Phrases spoken to me over the years like:
” If I had to do it all over again, I’d never get married and would be single forever.”
” If it’s got t~~~ or tires it’s going to cause you problems.”
” Single are you? That’s the way to be.”
” I envy you. Stay single man.”
” Women, you can never please them.Stay single!”
” I can’t get away from her and just do something by myself for 20 minutes.”
” I wanted to do this on holidays but my wife/girlfriend wanted to do that instead so that is where we are going.”

I’m also experiencing everything you’ve said, but recently I’ve really noticed not only the jealousy the married men have but that a lot of them hate my guts.

Back off Barbie!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Blood Axe wrote:

steve545 wrote:

At times I thought they were just joking but what I was hearing from them was increasing.
Phrases spoken to me over the years like:
” If I had to do it all over again, I’d never get married and would be single forever.”
” If it’s got t~~~ or tires it’s going to cause you problems.”
” Single are you? That’s the way to be.”
” I envy you. Stay single man.”
” Women, you can never please them.Stay single!”
” I can’t get away from her and just do something by myself for 20 minutes.”
” I wanted to do this on holidays but my wife/girlfriend wanted to do that instead so that is where we are going.”

I’m also experiencing everything you’ve said, but recently I’ve really noticed not only the jealousy the married men have but that a lot of them hate my guts.

Oh they will, the more blue pill the more vindictive towards you they will be. Some will shame you and try to convince you to get married and be miserable like them. Other swill try to get you fired from your job.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

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