"I will not respond to "hi" messages"…yeah right.

[markParticipant 451]

As some of you know I have 2 internet profiles which I use for different reasons. One has picture of a friend of mine who used to be a model. He is now on his 50s, but he has graciously provided me with tons of pictures from when I was in his 30s (with full knowledge of the use I do of them). The other is little old me.

I often see, specially in OKC, profiles of women who write things like “I don´t respond to “hi” messages” or “don´t be rude and say “hello babe”.

Do I need to tell you what happens when, using the ex-model picture, I approach them with a “hi baby”?

It makes me feel all the more morose when I realize that these “rules” are only for the simps, for if you have the looks you can do pretty much whatever you want to them. I have come as far as to write to a woman, AS A FIRST MESSAGE, things like “I would like to put my big fat *** in your ass” and got a “hihi you are so naughty” as a reply.

…as we didn´t know already.

I invite you to do the trick. If, like me, you are plain looking, get old pictures of models and see what you can get away with.

[BoarParticipant]

mark wrote:

I invite you to do the trick. If, like me, you are plain looking, get old pictures of models and see what you can get away with.

Nah. I prefer recreational patriarchy to whale chumming any day of the week…

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

The Irony is, The ones who state this are usually the ones who send that type of first message to you. WTF?

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 42]

mark wrote:

It makes me feel all the more morose when I realize that these “rules” are only for the simps,

I got news for you brother Mark, “ALL THE RULES” are for simps! That’s who they’re made for!

Life only has fences when you don’t learn to jump them!

They jump through whoops while we jump the fences!

It’s not a woman’s property anyway! It’s a MAN’S WORLD!

F~~~ THEIR FENCES AND F~~~ THEIR RULES!

They can’t catch us anyway!

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Anonymous wrote:

mark wrote:
It makes me feel all the more morose when I realize that these “rules” are only for the simps,
I got news for you brother Mark, “ALL THE RULES” are for simps! That’s who they’re made for!

SPOT ON Brother!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

“The only sensible way to live in this world is without rules!” – the Joker.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Ranger One wrote:

“The only sensible way to live in this world is without rules!” – the Joker.

How DID you get those scars?

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

OK, let’s be honest here. Wouldn’t you break your rules if a hot chick messaged you like that? It’s just human nature. If you are less attractive then you have to bring something else to the table. An average looking woman who turns out to be a very nice person is going to become a more attractive person to me over time. And the hot chick who is a bitch is going to become less attractive over time.

Trust me, if you did the test in reverse you would come to the same conclusion. Just my opinion, but you can chalk this one up to human nature, not a woman’s nature.

Order the good wine

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

TaxGuy wrote:

OK, let’s be honest here. Wouldn’t you break your rules if a hot chick messaged you like that?

No, I would immediately think she was trying to scam me.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Kolaxis wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

“The only sensible way to live in this world is without rules!” – the Joker.

How DID you get those scars?

Bought them

But have a Nikon M308 4-16×32 BDC sight instead of an Elcan Spectre sight.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[markParticipant 451]

TaxGuy wrote:

OK, let’s be honest here. Wouldn’t you break your rules if a hot chick messaged you like that?

Absolutely no. In fact, it has happened to me in the past.

I will f~~~ any hot chick BUT smokers. I don´t do them full stop. I have had women coming to my profile telling me whether is ok that they smoke, and I shut them down.

Same for single mothers. Not because of the kid (love children) but because of the destruction a kid does to the female body. My c~~~ goes south at the sight of stretch marks or a c-section.

Angelina Jollie comes to my door and I will shut her down. Not back when she was 19, but the second she gets a baby I am not interested.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

If your going to start a relationship by giving into her very first s~~~ test, you’re f~~~ed already.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[narwhalParticipant]

I agree with TaxGuy, this is just human nature. Really, if someone is showing interest in you, they have to give you a reason to be interested. That could be in how they look, in how they presented themselves in the profile, or how much effort they put into showing interest in you. All of that is in relation to the level of competition.

So yes, if a semi attractive woman with a decent profile puts effort into contacting me, I’ll probably respond. If a very attractive woman with a good profile says hi, I’ll probably respond.

But of course, there are scams out there that are relatively easy to spot, and there are attractive women who have profiles or activities in their pictures then cause me to have no interest.

As far as getting frustrated about it. Why? Put in the level of effort you want to in the message. If she bites, great. If not, well then no loss.

Ok. Then do it.

[markParticipant 451]

narwhal wrote:

So yes, if a semi attractive woman with a decent profile puts effort into contacting me, I’ll probably respond. If a very attractive woman with a good profile says hi, I’ll probably respond.

But that is not what we are discussing here.

If you specifically write in your profile “do not contact me with just a hi” and someone does that, just because she is pretty are you going to break your own rule?

As I wrote before, the most beautiful goddess can come to my profile. If she has kids, she is GONE. Not for a f~~~. Not for a relationship. Not for me peeing on her.

Its a matter of principle.

[JVBParticipant]

.,……but I’d gladly suck a homeless guys dick after 2 shots of tequila.

Peace is > piece.

[AutoliteParticipant]

mark wrote:

I invite you to do the trick. If, like me, you are plain looking, get old pictures of models and see what you can get away with.

That’s a good idea. But I was thinking as using this as my pic…

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

mark wrote:

I invite you to do the trick. If, like me, you are plain looking, get old pictures of models and see what you can get away with.

In my personal opinion, you’re giving them exactly what they want: Attention.
I don’t understand what’s in it for you?

[narwhalParticipant]

mark wrote:

narwhal wrote:

So yes, if a semi attractive woman with a decent profile puts effort into contacting me, I’ll probably respond. If a very attractive woman with a good profile says hi, I’ll probably respond.

But that is not what we are discussing here.

If you specifically write in your profile “do not contact me with just a hi” and someone does that, just because she is pretty are you going to break your own rule?

As I wrote before, the most beautiful goddess can come to my profile. If she has kids, she is GONE. Not for a f~~~. Not for a relationship. Not for me peeing on her.

Its a matter of principle.

So your issue isn’t so much that she has rules, but that she published the rule and then broke it? That I understand. Besides the fact that she won’t follow her own rules, no one is going to pay attention to them anyway. All it does it make her look like a stuck up bitch.

There is a big difference between…

Don’t contact me if you are not race XXX

and…

I typically only date within my race.

Really, stay away from anyone who focuses on the negative.

Ok. Then do it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I had a bunch of stuff in a profile that dropped a B-52 load of red pills (no marriage, etc), in addition to the usual stuff about financially stable, my own house, skydiving, hiking etc hobbies.

Seemed to be a great filter as far as the worst offenders went. Took a while to gradually tweak it. For a one week period, it was too negatively worded so I got no bites that week. Very interesting what word choice will do, and yet it still says the same thing.

Not sure if I’d go to even the small amount of trouble now, that I did then.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Anonymous wrote:

I got news for you brother Mark, “ALL THE RULES” are for simps! That’s who they’re made for!

So say we all!

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