I thought i was alone

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

I thought i was alone, everyday i keep seeing the same things. English isnt my first language, hopefully it make sense. Here is my rant.. Dont really have to read it all, sometimes it just feel good to rant.

– I make good money but i try to hide it socially. I delude myself thinking that maybe ill find one woman that isn’t about money. Probably half or more of the guys at work are divorced or are afraid of it. . Most had to spend thousands, just to pay their woman to leave. To buy-her-out. Or spend an extra 10-15 years at work to compensate for the divorce. Coworker is 50 , divorced, had to work an extra 10-15 years to payback his pension. How is that fair ?

Here they only have to live with a man for 6 month and they can start claiming… And if they have a kid with her, they have to pay 1000 $ every month to her. I mean, does one kid really cost that much every month ? Divorce at my job for the man is the difference between a good pension, or being completely poor and starving once you retired.

– Tried the grocery store thing to meet women, all i saw was single moms and obese ones. And every couple ive seen there , its the woman telling the man what to buy, what to do.. the only thing missing is a leech. Or friends asking their girlfriends if they can have 20 $ to go out and watch a movie…

– I tried online dating. Every single woman i date lied about the way she looked, and all of them expected me to pay and bring them on a “proper date”. Coffe date doesn’t seems to be enough, they want skydiving requests on the first meet. They seems to be expecting me to be happy only by the fact that they “allow me ” to be with them and mostly to entertain them. They just wait there, like a princess. But most keep their profile online and arent even shy to text with other guys every two minutes enjoying the attention (they claim we havent had the “we are exclusive” talk) .. But looking back, it seems to be the same women on every site, they have been there for months, years. Wondering where all the good men are.

But i still gave it a chance. Dated one for a month, she was already calling me her husband, telling me that she wanted a brand new house, with a huge kitchen. She was making 15 $/ hour. Telling me “happy wife , happy life ” to make up for her delusional expectations. Telling me one day that she has been proposed 5 times so far…. I should have seen the warnings, but lust is a powerful thing.

Now the way i see it… if 5 men proposed her..but they changed their mind… im worried. And if its her that changed her mind, im also worry. But she was saying it in a way like she won the lottery, or that i should consider myself lucky to be with her…to brag. Next time ill know, when they brag , ill run.

At some point, driving my car, with her nagging next to me, i had enough. I thought, man i was happy single. The next day i was supposed to go see her. She called me asking why i was late, i told her, you know what ? ill stay home tonight. Kinda hurt her ego 🙂

See i have a good carreer, stable job , enough to take care of a woman without worry. I treated her really well, and i could see that her brain was telling her to stay with me, but she acted like a princess. Didnt want to settle down yet, or any excuse she could find. its ok, at that time i couldnt wait soon enough to be single again.

Now ive been single for quite a while now. I dont miss dating at all. kinda have a “i dont give a f~~~ ” attitude. The fun part is now that i dont give a f~~~, women talk to me more. But i still dont care. I mean, whats the point ?

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Firstly, your English is really good! You convey your points quite well. That being said, I’m glad you realized the truth early on. The money, time, and sanity you saved are well worth it.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Welcome and well done dumping her.

Women are not women anymore. They are females … big difference.

You can’t have a woman alligator … but you can have a female one.

Get on with you life and if you want the company of a women ….. pay by the hour.

Don’t let you little head take over ?

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Welcome!
The ones who start talking like they own you right away are scary. It’s so irrational! I.m glad you escaped.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Melkiorr wrote:

Dated one for a month, she was already calling me her husband,

Uh oh! She thought she had you hooked, didn’t she!

ILiveAgain wrote:

Women and not women anymore. They are females … big difference.

Well said!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome ! ,,

[Anonymous 42]

Ahhh,,, the wonders of feminism,,, How long did they think the nice-guy carousel was going to last? Their collective “game” has been exposed in detail!
Over these past few short decades we’ve seen women morph into something that resembles a two legged leach, but with TEETH! I’ve been out of the leach infested waters of dating for quite some time, my purple leach spots have all but vanished!
Chalk it up to feminism, now females are not only intolerable, they’re downright dangerous!
Modern man’s abandonment of women is the most logical and sustainable answer to feminism. They’re not only not-worth-it, their toxic in every way imaginable! NO WIFE, HAPPY LIFE!

Welcome to MGTOW Melkior, your consensus is very common among the men here in MGTOW, we absorb the truth better than a sponge……

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Most women will bring you nothing but misery and stress. I don’t care how “nice” they seem in the beginning. It is in their DNA. Even the elusive “Unicorn” – if she exists – cannot fight her own biology. They are programmed to reproduce by finding the strongest mate who will “protect” them and nurture them and their offspring. You CANNOT alter thousands of years of evolution . All the feminist bulls~~~ in the world cannot undo that. What has changed is that at least in the past – you knew the deal. You were expected to “man up” and support your family and wife. For what is was worth, they were usually loyal to their spouses and knew if they doubled their weight and cut their spouses off in bed, as so many do today, their husbands would reject them and they would not find another. Did not change the equation, just made it more clear. Today – what started in western culture and now is engulfing women globally – we have a cesspool of hypergamous females who have taken over the media, governments, education and business. They know they are in charge. I think back to the 1970’s in America. The few girls who were obese and had horrible personalities were shunned by the boys and went dateless. Today, these monstrosities rule the internet and just about everything else. They have softened their image by terming “Fat” or “Obese” as “BBW” or “Thick”. Truculent, abrasive and obnoxious personalities are now “Sassy”. Why would any man want to invite that garbage into their lives? If prostitution were legal, safe and affordable across the globe, no man of sound judgement and mind would have anything more than superficial tertiary involvement with the female gender.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome! While reading your story, I thought about what the sports leagues here in the U.S. do for their players when they first enter the league and warn them about the women that will be chasing them. Perhaps as men we don’t warn the younger generation enough about the way women will try to exploit us, hopefully that will change.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Brother
This a fun group and you learn from other men. We are no longer alone.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello Melkiorr,

Your post reminded me of a couple of old time ideas that I got many years ago when I had the pleasure of working with World War Two veterans:

1)You are not really paying a prostitute for sex, you’re actually paying her to leave.

2)If it flies, floats, or f~~~s, renting is the best way to go.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

First, I want to say welcome to MGTOW. I am glad that you have reached this stage in your life (Digesting the red pill) without having to be raped in a divorce court. Your rejection of the status quo in so far as women are concerned will garner you more peace than the pipe dream that is supposed to be wedded bliss.

Melkiorr wrote:

Coworker is 50 , divorced, had to work an extra 10-15 years to payback his pension. How is that fair ?

How is this fair? The first lesson I had to learn is that “fair” doesn’t have anything to do with anything. Clint Eastwood once said in his movie Unforgiven, “Fair’s got nothing to do with it”. This is a concept that I carry with me every day, especially in my dealings with women. While in marriage counseling, my former wife once said to me “how is that fair?” I told her that it was fair to me. A concept that she was not familiar with. Nor do I think that most women are familiar with this concept as well.

The idea of “fair” treatment can only be applied to yourself. No one is going to treat you better than you. You can’t count on anyone else doing this. This may sound like a depressing prospect, but for me it has provided me with more than a little bit of comfort. This is because I know at last I have someone that I can count on. That person is myself.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[numbCruncherParticipant 772]

Welcome, Melkiorr

“I thought I was alone”

Historically, twice as many women as men have reproduced. This stat originally came from Roy F. Baumeister’s book “Is There Anything Good About Men?: How Cultures Flourish by Exploiting Men”. You can also check it here:

http://www.scienceagogo.com/news/20040819224859data_trunc_sys.shtml
http://lesswrong.com/lw/h4e/differential_reproduction_for_men_and_women/

MGTOW is the historical norm – not the exception – for men.

The only thing that has changed recently is that there are now many places like this forum, where men can speak to other MGTOW and realise that they are emphatically NOT alone, and that their behaviour, life choices and concerns are NORMAL.

Oh, and also feminism and out-of-control gynocentrism are forcing away a lot of men who might otherwise have chosen to have a relationship with women. 🙂

You say "love is a temple, love the higher law" ...You ask me to enter, but then you make me crawl. And I can't be holding on to what you got, when all you got is hurt

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

When you’re MGTOW, you are never alone

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 29]

Welcome

[AttonParticipant]

I thought wrong there are many of us.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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