I think I lost interest in the mating game

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Sorry if this post offends anybody. I am going to be as full honest as honesty can be.

Last week was an amazing realization. I haven’t thought about sex or fapping. Its actually been two weeks since I fapped. Just thinking about both now seems boring.

I tested myself by watching porn. I felt nothing. I just felt pure boredom. And shut it off.

Even when Women TRY to talk to me I feel nothing. Just a certain amount of disgust and I can see the drama radiating off them. When they try turning me on I just laugh and walk away. No temptation crosses my mind.

I am 31 years old. Is anybody else experiencing this?

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[ghostParticipant]

Kaido wrote:

Its actually been two weeks since I fapped.

I can’t go that long or I would become extremely dangerous to myself and others. You have a lot more strength than me.

Kaido wrote:

I tested myself by watching porn. I felt nothing. I just felt pure boredom. And shut it off.

I also don’t watch porn and find it disgusting. I can never watch other people having sex.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

ghost wrote:

Kaido wrote:

Its actually been two weeks since I fapped.

I can’t go that long or I would become extremely dangerous to myself and others. You have a lot more strength than me.

Kaido wrote:

I tested myself by watching porn. I felt nothing. I just felt pure boredom. And shut it off.

I also don’t watch porn and find it disgusting. I can never watch other people having sex.

It just disgusted me even more. And thought “Why do I want to look like THAT”

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[ghostParticipant]

Kaido wrote:

It just disgusted me even more. And thought “Why do I want to look like THAT”

I know what you mean, bro.

I am in complete monk mode now so I don’t even worry about sex or anything of that sort. My rage has more to do with the betrayals from my past and the lies I was told. That being said, I find solace from having met you and other good men on this website.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Kaido wrote:

Sorry if this post offends anybody. I am going to be as full honest as honesty can be.

Last week was an amazing realization. I haven’t thought about sex or fapping. Its actually been two weeks since I fapped. Just thinking about both now seems boring.

I tested myself by watching porn. I felt nothing. I just felt pure boredom. And shut it off.

Even when Women TRY to talk to me I feel nothing. Just a certain amount of disgust and I can see the drama radiating off them. When they try turning me on I just laugh and walk away. No temptation crosses my mind.

I am 31 years old. Is anybody else experiencing this?

Sounds like you might be exiting the dating ramp to enter into monk-town. The red pill is a powerful pill to swallow,I also find myself feeling nothing for women but mine is more out of disgust.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[DocParticipant]

Don’t beat yourself up over fapping. Knock one out if the mood takes you. If lack of rubbing one out becomes distracting rub one out.

It’s merely letting pressure out of the system so it functions more effectively.

No harm Kaido.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Kaido wrote:

I am 31 years old. Is anybody else experiencing this?

31+ was the year I remember being “over it”. Not totally, because my options really started opening up, but the romanticizing was gone. I even marked it in my memory. Women couldn’t charm me anymore. Nothing really did.

Even Christmas started to become a chore and an obligation.
There was no magic in it anymore.

But I really lost interest about 38-42. That’s when I found myself starting to “not give a f~~~” more and more often…. to the point where I would tell them to go away and/or give them s~~~ – whether it got me laid or not.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Nop, is normal i was 32 when I said. F~~~ it I’m out. Never been better, for us women used to be important, now we don’t give a f~~~ and the pressure is off.

How does it feels to be free?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MaddladParticipant 765]

Happened to me a few weeks ago actually and i’m 45 in a month. I used to watch porn once or twice a day and now i cant be bothered.. i find it nice to not be wanting to do it anymore.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

Kaido wrote:

Its actually been two weeks since I fapped. Just thinking about both now seems boring.

While I will not say that I find fapping boring, I have gone months sometimes without fapping but then I can go on a fapping binge of sorts for a few weeks and then lose interest for ages again.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[DocParticipant]

Sex drive drops with age.
Mine dropped after the vasectomy.

You don’t want what you don’t miss.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Kaido wrote:

Sorry if this post offends anybody. I am going to be as full honest as honesty can be.

Last week was an amazing realization. I haven’t thought about sex or fapping. Its actually been two weeks since I fapped. Just thinking about both now seems boring.

I tested myself by watching porn. I felt nothing. I just felt pure boredom. And shut it off.

Even when Women TRY to talk to me I feel nothing. Just a certain amount of disgust and I can see the drama radiating off them. When they try turning me on I just laugh and walk away. No temptation crosses my mind.

I am 31 years old. Is anybody else experiencing this?

This is a normal response as you age. I have to bate’ once a day still, but i can tell it’s slowly dying off, and i couldn’t be any happier ! Sexual stuff is merely a distraction from things i’d rather spend my time on.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Agree with the general consensus that porn etc. becomes more tedious as age and red-pill knowledge increase.

The thought of physical interaction with a woman is totally repulsive and the sight of even a fine pair of t~~~ or a great arse is considerably less alluring.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[phoenixgod1995Participant 3352]

The only porn I can watch is hentai, Real Life Porn has become a turn off.

Marriage and Divorce for a man is like getting a cactus shoved up your ass. It’s painful with all the spines that go in and it is painful getting all the spines out, meanwhile Wifey gets most of the money, your home, your kids, and practically everything you own.

[MonkParticipant 17050]

Kaido wrote:

I am 31 years old. Is anybody else experiencing this?

Boredom. Disgust. Contempt.

Seeing them for what they are and sex for what it is, is crucial to this journey. Once your eyes are opened, there is no going back.

Welcome to the Brotherhood of Monks.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Frankly, it’s not worth the time, expense and hassle (STDs, pregnancy, etc.) required when compared to the benefit. Even if so inclined, “renting” would be the better option. MGTOW is the best option.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[vokauParticipant 3]

For those who have no sex drive at all, how are your hormone levels? Should losing interest in fapping be worrisome in that regard, or is it just mental?

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Doc wrote:

Sex drive drops with age.
Mine dropped after the vasectomy.

You don’t want what you don’t miss.

Me, too. I did the vasectomy back in February and within a couple weeks, my drive dropped radically.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[vokauParticipant 3]

Ranger One wrote:

DocDJ wrote:

Sex drive drops with age.
Mine dropped after the vasectomy.

You don’t want what you don’t miss.

Me, too. I did the vasectomy back in February and within a couple weeks, my drive dropped radically.

I thought a vasectomy wasn’t supposed to affect sex drive? Considering one myself, but I wouldn’t want it to affect my health.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Me too man…and it’s a weird feeling, because i still have a high sex drive. But i don’t want to date them, don’t want to f~~~ them, don’t even want to talk to them.

I don’t really know what happened, or why i feel this way now (although i have some ideas) but i feel nothing but RELIEF now for wanting nothing to do with them. I’ve essentially removed the biggest source of stress and misery from my life. Huge win-win for me.

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