I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!

[SubGunnerParticipant 21]

@keymaster,

Oh my God, oh my f~~~ing God.  Thank you for posting this video.  I had to watch it twice since I was in total disbelief.  That video completely epitomizes the relationship with my father.  We too share exactly a 30-year difference in age.  As unbelievable as it seems, we have the same arguments about my mother; and I also have thought the same thing Sydney Portier stated about the father’s generation being dead weight.

The thing is, I’m at a stage in my life where I have cut and disowned all toxic people, and my mother and relatives are on that list.  Though not as dramatic as the video, I do receive frequent calls and text messages from my father saying I should treat my mother better (even though she is a maniacal controlling c~~~).  One time I even asked him how he was able to tolerate her, and he really never gave a good answer.  I know part of the reason is his health has deteriorated over the years, which is what I would imagine the Feminazis would call a de facto win to controlling a man.

I also enjoyed your bible quote (Timothy 2:12).  Being that my father is religious, I actually texted him this morning saying “I just learned a new bible verse”.  I haven’t gotten a reply yet.  🙂

[SubGunnerParticipant 21]

OldAtHeart,

When I turned 18 and started my first year in college, that was one of the lowest points of my life.  I was juggling a job to pay for school (my family was always broke), full-time studies, and my mom’s constant screaming and arguments.  She would turn simple things like not throwing out the garbage into a screaming battle.  At the time, I wanted to run away and was close to joining the Army as a solution.  Eventually I found a way to cope and realized I needed to endure.

My mother and I always had an abrasive relationship, mostly because I have been a lifelong MGTOW and she couldn’t control me.  I remember when I was a senior in high school looking at colleges, she made the comment that I should only be looking at going into an Associate’s program since I wasn’t “smart enough” to complete a Bachelor’s.  The irony is that statement motivated me to complete college with two(2) Bachelor’s and a Master’s degree.  When I reminded her of that comment she made years later, she conveniently had no recollection.

My mother and I have not really spoken in the last 2 years.  People in my family frequently say I should be treating her better, to which I always reply with “I love the drama-free lifestyle I have now”.  My father says I will regret this decision when she passes on, but I tell him my solitude and mental sanity is worth more to me than lost tears.

As another poster mentioned, I don’t think I’m qualified to give you an answer about discarding your mother.  What I suggest is, I would do some deep soul searching and realize that it may take years to just cut your mom out, but it all comes down to this: what is your emotional health and sanity worth to you?

[TheBardParticipant 974]

<cite>@docfenderson said:</cite>
Mothers don’t deserve to get a pass just because they gave birth to you… that was their choice and it’s on them. They, like everyone else, should only be judged on how they treat you.

Exactly. Women may try to bring up how they were in labor for hours, but if a mother isn’t treating her child right then just like any other relastionship you shouldn’t be a part of it. Just because she pushed you out of her vagina doesn’t mean she can verbally abuse you by calling you stupid and saying you will never amount to anything.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Should I cut my mother off completely after joining the Military, or should I keep a very distant relationship with her.

Firstly, Go Your Own Way.

If you don’t feel right about totally cutting her off (I wouldn’t blame you), you can send birthday and Christmas cards. “I didn’t get leave. Have a happy without me.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[vurrichParticipant 25]

 

My family always made me feel alone and although Mom claimed to love me most over my sisters she snapped and threaten to kill me once while she was pms’in and full of feminuts crap. she pulled a butcher knife and encouraged my sisters to jump on me and help kill me. It was just a bad joke. They weren’t strong enough to take me on. But the incident was shocking to say the least. I lost a lot of respect for Mum.

A momentary lapse of reasoning, no really they always have poor reasoning but sometimes it gets worse.. I used the event to make her leave feminism alone.

 

I took loads of insults off my Dad who was a bully growing up and turned it on me. He allowed my sisters to mistreat me too while he defended them.

I respect guys that go into the military but defending our rights & liberties would start in Washington DC and not in the armed forces.

Our governments are wacko and they have made our women unfriendly, deliberately. Why work for them?
They are not taking care of our vets like they should.. It isn’t worth sacrificing for this country, imo.

 

 

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