I need some advice

[AussieParticipant 2509]

I need some help guys. I feel we are all friends here and help each other out. Recently I think my girlfriend is seeing somebody. Lately she has been coming home late from work and when I ask her about it she gives little information. When her cell phone rings and I look to see who it is she snaps “what…you checkin on me?” If I do answer it the other party hangs up. Lately she seems to being going out a lot with “the girls.” And when she gets home she always has someone drop her off a house or two up the street.
So last night I took it upon myself to get to the bottom of it. It started to get around the time that she normally comes home late and I went outside and crouched down beside my car so she wouldn’t see me. I strange car pulled up in front of the neighbours house with my girlfriend in the passenger seat. Just as she was getting out of the car I noticed that I was starting to get some rust on my cars bumper bar where the previous owner had a small accident. What do you think I should do about this? Should I sand the rust out and clear over it or is there something that will remove this before it gets out of hand? I’d really appreciate your help on this rust matter.

" I feel threatened "

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

That’s NOT all that serious.

But, Rust NEVER Sleeps !!

You should Google it for MANY Ideas.

Put a dab of bearing grease over it for the time being. That’ll keep it from getting any worse.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Aussie wrote:

Recently I think my girlfriend is seeing somebody

Dump her like an anchor. TODAY.

Aussie wrote:

Lately she seems to being going out a lot with “the girls.”

Be cool with that! ( Hear me out . . . )

Let her know you’re not controlling or dictatorial – and stress that she can do whatever she wants!! – but if that’s something she feels a need to do, she can’t be in a relationship with YOU.

Aussie wrote:

What do you think I should do about this?

The decision is easy and she made it for you.
You don’t have to put up with it.

About a thousand years ago, I worked as a part-time bartender for 7 years, and the s~~~ I saw would turn your hair white. Women going out in their “groups”, blowing male strippers, and paying with their fiancees credit card the night (or week) before the wedding. Getting drilled while bent over the toilet. I won’t even talking about the behavior – or the hundreds of phone numbers I got thrown at me, and I never called a single one of them.

Everyday plain-Janes . . . . 250-300 of them per night. . . . The chicks with boyfriends and husband who had no idea what their girlfriends and brides were up to. . . . sometimes multiple groups going out to celebrate their divorce . . . . every weekend for 7 years.

It was the only “job” I ever walked out on in the middle of a shift, because I couldn’t see it anymore.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Aussie wrote:

I noticed that I was starting to get some rust on my cars bumper bar where the previous owner had a small accident.

That’s a tough situation to deal with my friend. I had to choke back the tears reading it.

I would remove the bumper and have it sandblasted to get all the chrome or paint off then re-coat it with truck bed liner which is tough and makes it easier to repair future damage.

Good luck with this bro. Do this right now and don’t look back. It’s time to just get on with your life…

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Aussie wrote:

Should I sand the rust out and clear over it or is there something that will remove this before it gets out of hand?

Out of hand, as in one day , coming home, tossing you a baby while saying “here this is yours”….

?

You can MAKE SURE it doesn’t happen to you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 0]

Even though you took on a car in good faith only to find it was carrying another mans rust, we must and shall only consider whats in the best interest of the rust.
Do your best by the rust. Please try not to notice the look in the eye of your fellow man when the rust starts to show and grow and you can tell he knows the maths don’t add up. They all know it’s too big to be your rust but are polite enough to say so to your face.

Stay strong bro, the odd ride in the car should be reward enough.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

F***it!
I would just replace the whole G-D bumper. You sand it & re-coat, but DON’T GET IT ALL,…… then it only comes right back, only at another place/time.

REPLACE THE DAMN THING & BE DONE WITH IT.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Anonymous 43]

The answer is simple…

Kick the car and the girlfriend to the curb.

Rust is unacceptable, and the cellphone, sneaking around and girls night out are unacceptable too.

You need a shiny new car…something fast, exotic and expensive, something that makes gold digging women come running to you. Something that screams I am made out of FU money…and something that will not rust…McLaren or Corvette. Yeah, something like that.

[AussieParticipant 2509]

You guys are awesome. So much advice and support, it’s almost like a group of girls getting together in the washroom trying to decide what to do with a guy whose dick is bent.

I am lying here worried sick about this rust thing. It’s another man’s rust and now it’s my problem. I’d love to just get rid of the car before things get worse but just yesterday I did a great burnout in it and it reminded me of how we really do belong together.

Sure there are other cars out there with less issues and even better bodies but this one needs me. I feel so weak. Your words of support are appreciated.

What if I sell it and then find it has driven itself off a cliff or something ? Or will it just find another wallet to empty?

" I feel threatened "

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

They are all alike:

Having a woman or rust on your car…

She is rust in your life. If you keep her then you and your life will look like a 1976 Fiat did 6 years later. Coming off the jack all by itself because the whole body structure and tin-folds were rusted up through and through…

Removing the rust on your car requires a bit more intelligence.

I would have to look at it to see the exact measure to be taken.

Sand it down until all residual rust is gone and cover it with “grounding filler” that is compatible with the original paint the car manufacturer used. And apply layer after layer in a dust free environment. For some jobs a tent with in the garden will do but you have to wet down all the surroundings to keep dust, flies and bugs away. Temperature must be above 20 Celsius for any paint to dry.

You need a compressor, a pressure regulator with oil and water remover and a spray gun with a 1 mm jet.

For the (2 or 3 component) paint and the required mixtures: As they say, RTFM.

I guess once you are through with it you can start restoring old cars and then your girlfriend will leave you anyway.

This comes as an added bonus on top of saving 1000’s of bucks on workshop visits.

The magic of using the kitchen table when fixing your carburetor or the cylinder head of your beloved engine…

You get your car bank loan free and become unc~~~ed at the same time. Life is beautiful.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Keymaster wrote:

It was the only “job” I ever walked out on in the middle of a shift, because I couldn’t see it anymore.

Good that you walked out just to find your real purpose in life.

By behaving the way they did, women “created you” and as a result of this: The position you are now in.

They did it to themselves: “Creating” the man that “later” starts the male only free speech platform that causes them so much pain.

Imagine if women had any integrity, were well behaving and would have made you “love your job” – then you would still be working “full time” as a bartender.

Yes, fate will always follow the truth. Fate wanted you to work there, see what c~~~s are made of and become our “Master Of MGTOW”.

Actually we are “whistleblowers” and should be protected by law. We saw what is “behind the lines” uncovering female scamming schemes…

And warning the public about it. We are the “righteous people” so to say.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 43]

Jebus on the Cross Gargamel…you want Aussie to spend big money on tools, compressors grinders, then expending energy scraping, grinding, sanding, rubbing, then painting. Now Aussie has a garage full of paint shop s~~~ and no room for the car…she’s gonna rust out there in the elements fer sure. Good thing he has a shed full of s~~~ for a lifetime of DIY rust repair.

F all of that…just go get a new Corvette…$65,000 of good old American F~~~ You…400 hp v8, awesome angular styling, instant Alpha status, I think they come standard with a thick braided gold chain and chest hair implants.

and no rust. no bumpers, foot to the floor burnouts for days…two seats.

yes I know he is in Australia…makes the Vette an exotic

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

You’re not trolling us with that story?

It sounds like a variation on a certain kind of story I’ve read about… A) My girlfriend/wife may be cheating B) My motorcycle/boat/car has an issue C) What should I do about the motorcycle/boat/car

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Aussie wrote:

my girlfriend

Fix that part, and with a little sanding (the bumper, not her), the rest will take care of itself.

I laughed. Nicely done. Whether troll or just funny, nice to see some wit.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

You’re not trolling us with that story?

Dude, show some respect! The man is dealing with a serious corrosion issue here on a vehicle that he obviously loves and cherishes. You can’t just make something like that up. I say we give a Bro the benefit of the doubt…

[Anonymous 12]

Aussie wrote:

I am lying here worried sick about this rust thing. It’s another man’s rust and now it’s my problem. I’d love to just get rid of the car before things get worse but just yesterday I did a great burnout in it and it reminded me of how we really do belong together.

you are the only one thinking that.
remember – not your car, just your turn at the wheel.
She belongs to nobody, just to herself.
she lives to be ridden.
many rides by many different drivers taking her to many places she has not seen yet.

Not yours.
only your turn.

remember.
remember when her engine howls and the turbo whines.

not yours.
many drivers in the past, many drivers in the future.

Until the tires are bald and the gaskets are blown, broken down unfixable thousand c~~~ stare.

remember.

[Anonymous 12]

Aussie wrote:

What if I sell it and then find it has driven itself off a cliff or something ? Or will it just find another wallet to empty?

What if on the next burnout she drives you off the cliff.
You are a free man. once she starts rolling, you can either hope for the best (be wrapped around a tree or driven off a cliff) or try to pull out at high speed. In any case, no amount of rubber is going to protect you.

Sell it, and in the process set her free.
Free to drive off a cliff if she so desires, free to run over other people.
at least you won´t be driving the damn thing and die or go to prison. Because the driver is the one at fault. Always.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

you are the only one thinking that.
remember – not your car, just your turn at the wheel.
She belongs to nobody, just to herself

NACALT…

[JVBParticipant]

I’m sorry you are going through this brother. It must of been a painful sight to see. Consider trading her in before her looks completely fade and she really hits the wall.

Peace is > piece.

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